[Request] Personal Ads

[cash23]

Anyone place/answer an ad for sex? Swingers magazines? Craigslist casual encounters?

How'd it go? Would love to hear your stories.

[buddy i con]

I wouldn't know about this personally of course, but I think I read somewhere that AFF is how people arrange those kind of liaisons these days. Maybe it was a guy at work that told me that. Yea, that's probably where I heard it.

[jho]

We didn't care for AFF.
Currently we are on SLS and have met a few nice people there.

[xxxxenophile]

I was very happy with AFF from 2002ish through 2006ish, while I was doing lots of moving around, state to state. I don't think I've logged into my account in a couple years, though, since the spams and fake profiles got to dominate the site. It became hard to find a "real" person.

I've been on SLS, but their website interface is pretty poor, imho.

I see a great market need...

[cash23]

Originally Posted by jho

We didn't care for AFF.
Currently we are on SLS and have met a few nice people there.

Details, baby! Please!

What kind of fun/partner are you seeking? Why not just pick someone up at a bar?

[jho]

We have met both couples and singles on SLS.
Its also a great place to hear about parties or meet and greets in your area.

[iceguy1]

Had great success with Lavalife a while back. Met a local girl online there, she was an incredibly hot lover. We're both marrried (to other people), we both have mundane lives, kids, responsible jobs, etc. When we were together though, the sex was explosive! She kind of viewed sex like a male, always ready, willing and able... and up for anything. She was quite chunky (which I adore), cute face, long dark hair, amazing tits. ahhh....brings back great memories. First date was lunch, nothing spectacular, definitely felt the attraction though with some deep kissing afterward in her car. Second date at a secluded park, more french kissing, some groping & fondling, I actually rubbed her to orgasm through her dress up against her car..lol Third date was first time in a hotel room, epic! Sucked and fucked until either of us could hardly walk! Loved to swallow, try new things, etc. She was amazing! Had a passionate affair for almost 5 years. Haven't seen her in over a year....extenuating circumstances.......definitely the best I've ever had though, miss her

[outlander2]

Originally Posted by MrWooHoo

That said, if you're a single guy you'll have MUCH better luck if you can find a swinging partner. Otherwise there's a strong bias against single guys in the swing community. From experience I can say this is because there's so many jerks.

I totally agree with that and it only takes one to really ruin your outlook on it too. It is one thing to offend the male part of a couple, but when you offend the female you pretty much can ruin someone else's lifestyle if it is bad enough that the wife/gf does not want to chance it again. Seen it happen to other couples and I have heard more than one couple say it was not worth chancing it again. Sad how one bad apples messes things up for everyone.

[RBoddy]

The Aff is a good starting point for your quest provided of course you tolerate the followig:
1. An increased level of spam and junk mail.
2. An increased level of jerks posing as women or couples for their own reasons.
3. People that are there just to see and not to play.
4. People exhibiting a very challenging and challenged skillset related to proper spelling and syntax.
5. Couples that are not fully or mutually committed to the idea of including others in their trysts.
I met some interesting and fun people there, both couples and women. My only advice would be to be as genuine as possible when describbing yourself and to try not to get disappointed or angry when you come across the categories listed above. Also don't confuse being clear about what you want (or like doing) with crudeness or crassness.

The rewards can be substantial: Two years ago I had an affair with a married woman whose bj skills were
out of this world. She had this really long tongue that she could flex in many different ways. I remember spending an entire afternoon at the receiving end of her skillset and spending copiously throughout - ah good times...

[cash23]

I'll post a longer reply when I have more time, but when I was single I used to answer ads all the time for couples seeking a second cock for bedroom fun.

Most of the time I never heard back. (couples gets hundreds of replies.) But every so often, the planets would align and we'd meet for a drink. The wife was the key. If she liked me, we were on. What hubby thought about me -- who cares. With some of the couples, it was a real MFM threesome. With others, hubby and I took turns. With still others, hubby watched and sometimes batted cleanup.

One couple invited me to ride up and down the length of Lake Shore Drive in Chicago on Valentine's Day in a stretch limousine while he and I took turns screwing her. Another couple wanted me to be the guy in the next booth at a gloryhole. She wanted to suck cock but not one belonging to a complete stranger.

Some of the couples were terrific people. Others not so terrific.

More to come. Have to do a little work.