how to get husband to allow me to have lover

[old sarge]

Originally Posted by sonalsinghsl*t

You see naak you are missing point. The whole point is to have the fulfillment within my marriage and to make this life commitment work. I have such the strong impression that those in the open relations have such strong marriage that I thinking that could be the answer. I also learn that the cuck type relations seem to involve woman taking control and relegating husbands prowess to nil so that he understand that to please woman she need men of the higher prowess. Then through that exchange husband feel the confidence of having satisfied wife. I endeavor to grow into that roll to save the commitment I make from being bad for both. You suggest easy route only. Thanks though for your thoughts.

good answer from a woman that knows what she wants and puts some serious thoughts into all of the implications on all parties involved.

[Crankdingo]

Originally Posted by sonalsinghsl*t

I also learn that the cuck type relations seem to involve woman taking control and relegating husbands prowess to nil so that he understand that to please woman she need men of the higher prowess. Then through that exchange husband feel the confidence of having satisfied wife. I endeavor to grow into that roll to save the commitment I make from being bad for both.

OMG Soni, you are so awesome. I feel that my Indian wife is a prude because I am unable to unleash the fire I always assumed was within her. My mind has told me that I do not truly satisfy her, deep down, and it haunts me to not be man enough to satisfy her. Therefore I yearn for her to cuck me, as the saying goes. I would gladly deprive myself to know that as a man, my wife is served, even if I don't do the serving - other than facilitating and playing along. You hit it right on the f-ing head.

Also, if you got off on showing yourself and feeling eyes on you, why don't you do more of that here? I have strained at your avitar photo until my eyes hurt looking at the tiny sliver of panties underneath. I can say your husband is a man after my own heart to snap such a photo as a teaser when he has access to all of you (albeit less and less these days)!

At least give us the details on how you felt exposing yourself. I would love to capture the changing psycohlogy and try to get some of it to sink in with my wife.

[lovestorms98]

Originally Posted by sonalsinghsl*t

you no apparently understanding that "I'll see what I can do" means that I will look into and consider this. I was busy this weekend.

Hi Sonal...sorry...did not mean to rush you....take your time....look forward to hear form you......

[sonalsinghsl*t]

Originally Posted by lovestorms98

Sonalsingsl*t

my e-mail is lovestroms98@yahoo.com

Thanks

Did you get the email wrong Mr. wants to be the cuck??

[sonalsinghsl*t]

Originally Posted by naaktstel

but do you really want to accomplish this by humiliating him by saying he has a small dick, by telling the whole world how bad he is in bed?

You cannot force him with humiliating him. The only thing you will accomplish is a husband that does allow you to be fucked by other man, but hating himself for this, driving him away from you.

I no think whole world watch here. i think small number of people that are sharing an enjoyment of open anamous forum. I only know of what I am reading of posts on the cucking or hot wife sites that are describing the descent of the mind into that position of turning that shame into pleasure. I no know if I do so correctly, but seem without knowing how this work to have many of the observable attributes; the smallness, the short duration, the frequent lack of full stiffness, the long periods of no penetrations within me, the dutiful service of me in other areas of bed and outside bed, and what I sensing is a deferral to me for the decision making of the marital bed issues. if it take time for us to find ourselves that may be the situation to which we are found. Comment like yours help me in this very new evolution of these things. So thanks to you.

[old sarge]

Originally Posted by sonalsinghsl*t

I no think whole world watch here. i think small number of people that are sharing an enjoyment of open anamous forum. I only know of what I am reading of posts on the cucking or hot wife sites that are describing the descent of the mind into that position of turning that shame into pleasure. I no know if I do so correctly, but seem without knowing how this work to have many of the observable attributes; the smallness, the short duration, the frequent lack of full stiffness, the long periods of no penetrations within me, the dutiful service of me in other areas of bed and outside bed, and what I sensing is a deferral to me for the decision making of the marital bed issues. if it take time for us to find ourselves that may be the situation to which we are found. Comment like yours help me in this very new evolution of these things. So thanks to you.

i don't know why these cuck attitudes and labels have to be dragged into this. if the husband can't satisfy you, there's nothing wrong with finding a helper. that doesn't mean the husband has to be made to feel bad about himself. if he's comfortable with himself and understands his limitations it should be no big deal. you may have to work with him to help him understand it. i suggest you find someone in your loacal area to help and stay away from some of the strange attitudes in the various forums. in other words find someone in the area, not on the internet. because hard dicks have no conscience, you should be able to find many volunteers. talk about it here, but find someone from where you live.

[sonalsinghsl*t]

Originally Posted by old sarge

because hard dicks have no conscience, you should be able to find many volunteers. talk about it here, but find someone from where you live

that turn of phrase somehow really turn me on. The more I read here and elsewhere make me believe that man who will look at me in a certain way will likely fuck me if I am to give them chance and your phrase is connected to that. All I previosly saying is present relationship have some attributes of the cuck relations and if it is walking like a cuck and talk so . . .

Thanks.

[old sarge]

Originally Posted by sonalsinghsl*t

that turn of phrase somehow really turn me on. The more I read here and elsewhere make me believe that man who will look at me in a certain way will likely fuck me if I am to give them chance and your phrase is connected to that. All I previosly saying is present relationship have some attributes of the cuck relations and if it is walking like a cuck and talk so . . .

Thanks.

no man, offered a sweet pussy will turn it down. if they say they would turn it down they are lying. i wish you were my neighbor.

[bob4011]

I have never had the fortune of this either.... I constantly wonder how it would be to see my loving wife with another man. Maybe he too is having the same thoughts as you and I. I believe there is alot to be said about a woman that has the ability to love a man and also desire others... why can't this be more accepted in todays society? The thought of another mans shaft penetrating my wifes most intimate parts makes me so hard. Do you also get as excited thinking about another man inside you? Does he know your here on this forum? just wondering????????

Originally Posted by sonalsinghsl*t

I see many on here are experienced in or with the multiple love partners over your life, or in swinging or that sort of thing. I have only been with my husband for penetration and I want so badly to give myself over to a man of size and staying power it is obsessing me. I would love for it to happen in a way that is not the cheating. How does a woman that has only been with one man tell the man that she wants more without ruining everything?

[Crankdingo]

Originally Posted by sonalsinghsl*t

man who will look at me in a certain way will likely fuck me if I am to give them chance

Yes Soni, 9 times out of 10 if you see a man lingering while looking at you, if he's making eye contact more than a couple times, if he is going out of his way to get a door for you or provide that over the top extra service (as with a store salesperson or bartender), or he buys you a drink there is a good chance that this man is already entertaining the thought of (what I imagine) are your long firm brown legs wrapped around his waist. His mind already has his hands cupping your ass cheeks as he kisses you and rubs his face into your perky little cleavage area. Experiment with this when out in public. Give a man some response and see if he responds with more eagerness.. Then you can be 90% sure of his thoughts.

You teased about exposing yourself Sunday to a married man and some of the public. I would love to hear more about that, how it made you feel, what you did, and why you decided to do so. Again, selfesh reasons, as I want my wife to have some of your attitude. I would also love to see more of you.