Question for the married people on here.

[SixPointFive]

Originally Posted by BeRad

Serious question....

Does your spouse know that you look at porn and masturbate?

I have several married friends who admittedly watch porn and also masturbate, but they hide it from their wives. The ones who have been caught, their wife's get mad.

I'm not married... heck, I've never even had a girlfriend... so it's a serious question.

If your wife knows, do she know how much you do it?

If you hide it, how do you think your wife would react?

I don’t look at porn, it’s never done it for me. Prefer sites like this where people share real life experiences. My wife knows i masturbate most mornings and encourages me to do so. After a few weeks together (20 years ago) she asked me to jerk off for her whilst she filmed it. I often send her dick pics when I’m working away (or even when I’m in bed and she’s downstairs). She’s caught me a few times and sometimes will take over, other times will just sit on the bed and watch me finish.

I know she masturbates too, albeit not that often. I’ve caught her a couple of times but she’s quite shy about it.

[pagefault]

Ex wife knew and didn’t care, but that relationship wasn’t the best example.

Current girlfriend (almost 7 years) fully supports it. She masturbates to porn. She jerks me off to it, joins me when I do, and lets me use her ass as a masturbation sleeve.

She also poses, and I have taught her that offering herself for others to privately fantasize about and enjoy her without judgment is a very meaningful thing to do.

[rracoonz]

My wife and I have a very open relationship. She masterbates more than I do! I have watched her masterbate, have sex with other men while I masterbated, and had sex with other women while I played with them.
She has requested and watched me masterbate. We have both masterbated and watched each other while watching porn.
I have never had actual sex with others since we married. She has caught me masterbating to x-rated movies and pics of her having sex with various people, including me. She actually fulfills my every need in our sex life.

[Gnome72141]

My wife is way more into porn than I ever was! And she knows I used to tell our stories on this site. It turns her on so much.

Her friends think she is a total prude, but even her best friends would be shocked to know that my wife loves watching (fictitious) step-sibling videos and MIL/SIL videos, and she loves watching me get instantly hard when a woman with small breasts takes off her top on video.

[Hornyinde]

Does your spouse know that you look at porn and masturbate?
She knows I masturbate (Don’t we all?), but not looking at porn. She gets a bit jealous of porn, but doesn’t mind that I masturbate.

If your wife knows, do she know how much you do it?
She doesn’t know how much I masturbate, I still do it nearly daily even as I’m in my late 50’s.

She also masturbates, but not as much as I do. She does have a vibrator I bought her, but she says she’d much rather my fingers and penis.

[gonzoman72]

My wife loves to watch porn, She has her own Pornhub account that she often casts to the tv in the bedroom and has a little play watching it. If she think I’d like something she sends me the link.

We are very open about these things

[Oralpleaser69]

Originally Posted by BeRad

Serious question....

Does your spouse know that you look at porn and masturbate?

My wife knows that I masturbate all the time. It doesn't bother her and she is fine with it. Often times I use pics that I take of her naked so she is always willing to let me take nudes of her or she will send me some when we aren't together.
Also I know that she masterbates as well. I buy her vibrators to use on herself when I am not around as well and I love it when she tells me about it.

[Speedster]

Originally Posted by BeRad

Serious question....

Does your spouse know that you look at porn and masturbate?

I have several married friends who admittedly watch porn and also masturbate, but they hide it from their wives. The ones who have been caught, their wife's get mad.

I'm not married... heck, I've never even had a girlfriend... so it's a serious question.

If your wife knows, do she know how much you do it?

If you hide it, how do you think your wife would react?

Yes my wife knows that I look at porn and masturbate. I operate an adult photography group on another website and she often helps me pick out the feature photos for the week.

She knows that I am on here. She knows that she is posted on here. She doesn't mind as long as she isn't confronted with her photos by people that knows her.

I can get out of bed from having awesome sex and I will still masturbate thinking about what just happened. I don't masturbate because I am lacking sex, I do it in addition to sex.

Masturbating is natural for everyone. If someone says that they don't do it, I think that they are not telling the truth. Looking at porn is probably mostly a male thing, but that's natural too. Guys are visual and females are audio.

That's why you really need to think about what you are saying to a female before you say it. You might be tossing a pebble, they are getting hit with a cement block.

Believe me, they never forget! They might say that they forgive you, but I wouldn't bet on it.

Nearly all guys look at porn and masturbate. Nearly all females masturbate probably a smaller number look at porn. However, I haven't met a female yet that doesn't own at least one sex toy.

As far as married couples go, why be married if you are hiding things from the other spouse?

[EyefunJo]

Even before we got married, my wife and I had already talked about this topic. We both agreed that it was fine for each of us to masturbate, as long as it didn’t affect our sex life together.

After we got married, I still watch porn and masturbate from time to time, and she knows about it. We even watch together sometimes, and if the mood strikes, we end up in bed.

Personally, I don’t think it’s a big deal at all. But I believe it’s important to respect your partner’s feelings. In a relationship, there’s no absolute right or wrong — only what both people are comfortable with and agree on.