Anal preference

[karlhein]

Got into discussion with some buddies about anal. I always try to find out early, first dozen times we have sex.
My sense is 40% of ladies like the occasional finger, 30% like a cock occasionally, 20% like a cock regularly, and 10% really like butt sex, and 5% will ask for it if you don't try.
What's your experience? Any ladies have an opinion/advice to share.

[trunkster]

Well my Mrs loves it, says it "feels closer"

[pagefault]

I couldn’t really offer a percentage estimate, because I’ve actively sought out women who enjoy it.

Generally only dating women who enjoy anal or are curious to try it, doesn’t seem to have done much to limit my dating pool. 12 of 15 women I slept with after my divorce enjoyed anal. One of the remaining three was open to trying it, but we didn’t stay together. The other two were absolutely opposed, but I ended up with them anyway.

I do think that it’s higher than we are led to believe. Of the women I fucked in the ass after my divorce, three had never had anyone even try. Two of them had let one person try, and it had not gone well. So, those 5 would probably be in the “no” category for a lot of these studies floating around.

The two with bad first experiences were definitely in the “no way” bucket, but open to carefully trying again, mostly because they were going through a wild phase after their divorces. Now, they’re in the “enjoy anal” bucket.

[captbobwi123]

It was years into our marriage that my wife and I discovered our enjoyment of limited anal. It started when I would let a finger drift over her asshole and she would moan in pleasure. In time I grew bolder and using her pussy juice for lube slid my little finger into her ass. She loved it. The little finger was replaced by other larger fingers and she grew to love being aggressively finger fucked in the ass. We talked about trying anal intercourse and she agreed to try. It took some work but I finally was able to work my dick into her ass. And yes, we used lots of lube. She was never able to relax enough to enjoy being fucked in the ass because it hurt too much. We continued to enjoy anal finger fucking but pretty much gave up on actual intercourse. There was, however, an exception. We are not big drinkers but maybe once or twice a year my wife had too much to drink. With the alcohol she would lose most of her inhibitions and ask to be fucked in the ass. I was happy to comply. LOL

[mysweetie61]

I have a good friend that became my fuck buddy. She dated many men from many ethnic backgrounds.
A month before we had sex of any kind we got into the discussion of men’s cocks. She described the many cocks she had over the past 20 years and what she disliked the most.
She didn’t like it when the guys cock was longer than 7” because when fucking her pussy, his cock would go too deep into her wall that it hurt.
She also didn’t like guys with really thick cocks going into her ass. This is when I found out she was into anal.
I told her I hadn’t had anal in such a long time. I guess she felt bad for me because the following month when I was travelling with her and her son, she came into my room and quietly slid my cock into her ass.
When she feels “clean” she’ll ask me to fuck her ass.