Closest you got to having a 3 some

[Domino2010]

Carrying on from the Barge Holiday post (Has anyone seen your partner naked ) . I will give a little background info 1st , we had been looking at the possibility of having a 3 some with my mate for sometime but couldn’t think of the best way to go about it as she doesn’t have a high opinion of herself & is scared she’d get rejected. We had thought about me & him going out for a drink & coming back to our house with her dressed appropriately when we got home but that never happened , we even thought about going over to his house one time but again it never happened. So the barge holiday seemed an appropriate time to see if things would fall in place . As the original thread on the barge said she would come out of the shower & dry off in the corridor in full view of him & by the middle of the week she was getting warm to the idea of a 3 some happening. This one night she finally agreed & by the middle of the night after the kids had long gone to bed she said she wanted me to go & get him , by this time she was absolutely soaking wet at the thought & as you can imagine my mind was in overdrive !. But the problem was our bed was in the middle of the barge & the kids were in the next rooms from us towards the back of the barge but you couldn’t lock the corridor doors so I said to my wife that we’ll go to the front of the boat where my mate was sleeping as it was the furthest away & get in bed with him & see how things progressed but as I’ve previously said she has a low esteem of herself & wouldn't go down to his room so unfortunately nothing happened in the way of a 3 some .
That was the closest we ever got to having a MMF 3 some , something which has always been a what if moment which I still think about to this day . In hindsight it would have been better if me & the wife have had the bed at the front of the boat maybe things would have turned out differently but as you can appreciate there was no way you could have kids walking in on the 3 of us in 1 bed , how would you explain that away !!

[mamanrc]

Few years ago with friends.

[Erotictimes]

Generally we have scheduled a meet-up with a third after meeting innocently for a cocktail prior. Once we all agree we are a fit, just pick a time when the mood is right and timing is good. These planned encounters have all been MFM experiences for us. Not that it matters, but for the record I have no interest in the male anatomy of others - my kink is all about sharing and spoiling my awesome wife!

How to meet a candidate? - Easier these days than in generations past i'm sure, we used to use CL before they shut down the personals. Now we utilize a few swinger and kink sites. It takes a little time to weed out the flakes and ultimately find a fit we're comfortable with but they do work. We really don't do this often, maybe once or twice - every other year makes for a perfect year.

Spontaneity and close calls? About 5 years ago we tried once to solicit a third at a bar, she struck up a conversation & eventually whispered the idea to him. Although it was all smiles he did not know what to think and ultimately we went separate ways.
I have seen and felt the vibe once or twice with gents and ladies we've crossed paths with throughout the years. One time a nice looking girl had a few drinks with us and felt up D and I both while we stood at the bar. I know where your mind is going - but D reciprocated so we are sure she was a she. We tried to take her home with us but for one reason or another things fell apart when the place closed at 2am. Although we may occasionally look, think, and ponder when we're out on the town - we sort of write off the possibility of a spontaneous meeting actually being possible and defer to planning with someone we know is onboard. It feels crappy to head out for the night with the goal in mind and to be all worked up on the idea only to not have it come to fruition. The late night let down is deflating.

Last night in fact, our single female next door neighbor came over for a drink. After a few bottles of wine things got very suggestive and there was a bit of dancing, twerking and groping between the three of us in the kitchen. It was actually close to becoming sexual, the vibes and looks were there between the neighbor and I but not D. At one point D asked us if we wanted her to go to bed so the neighbor and I could continue down the road we were headed! D and I have discussed this possibility before, it has nearly happened on a few other occasions. One night last Summer the three of us actually directly spoke about the elephant in the room, what if things got involved with some combination of us? We all agreed that although it would be fun - things would never be the same so we must recognize it should not happen. Seems like now and then we continue teetering right on the edge of that see-saw however. If there are ever enough wine bottles on the other end for counterbalance then who knows... In any case I am steadfast in my loyalty to D and would only even consider the idea if D were a direct part of whatever was going on. I am actually very much uninterested in D leaving the neighbor and I to have fun.

It may sound strange but personally I prefer the MFM situation. Far less pressure on me to perform (getting older sucks sometimes) and I know that D is a bit more jealous when other women are involved with me. We have been with other women many times (solo women, m/f couples, groups of women at swinger parties, etc) and it is about 50/50. Half the time I am good to go without concern; the other half, well lets just say D knows how to put my penis on the shelf so to speak.

Enjoyed sharing thoughts this afternoon, will follow up in this thread with the narrative of our one unplanned FMF when time allows. Cheers!

[Massguy70]

This was my very first experience - Many years ago, a few months after I started seeing my now ex-wife, we were giving her friend a ride home. I was driving. I started feeling someone rubbing my neck. I glanced over at my girlfriend and could see both of her hands. I looked in the mirror to see her friend sitting up close to my seat with a smile. At that point my girlfriend started rubbing my thigh and kissing my neck. We were coming up on an exiting so I quickly got off the highway and pulled into the first parking lot that I saw. My girlfriend unzipped my pants as I reclined my seat. I turned to look at her friend who started kissing me ( I always found this girl attractive). So I was kissing her and got under her shirt to play with and start sucking on her tits. I guess this went further than they planned because I could see my girl hitting her leg as she had my cock in her mouth. Things wrapped up shortly after that. For years I kept suggesting we finish what we started but that never happened.

[loneeagle]

The 1st time I almost got a 3 some was with my girlfriend (later wife) and her best friend. My girlfriend was kinda known as some what Bi as she told her best friend a few stories.

The best friend had a long standing crush on me from when they were in high school.
The best friend split up from her husband was at a hotel but didn't have any of her stuff just the diaper bag for her kid. So my girlfriend and I went down to get her and her stuff in my truck. I joked with my girlfriend that for the 8 hour drive each way I better get something really special.

We got 2 adjoining hotel rooms because the best friend had her 3 year old and wanted quiet for him to sleep.
After all the planning for what they needed to get from the house, it was decided it was shower time. My girlfriend said I am 1st and ran into the bathroom stripping on the way and said anyone can join me. So we laughed, the best friend and I sat there and she started crying so I went and held her. Well that led to kissing and rubbing and I stripped her and we started having sex.

Well my girlfriend came out of the shower she left it running for the next person to get in or just to check on us, or get me to come wash her back or whatever.
She caught us, she said I see you started without me and jumped on the bed.
It surprised us the best friend freaked out pushed me off her and jumped up and ran for the shower.

So my girlfriend and I finished what her best friend started. We talked and agreed to try to get her in a 3some but if it didn't work out that I was to sleep in the bed with the friend to calm her down.

I went in the bathroom and got in the shower with her and told her everything was fine and she held me and said she needs to be held by someone who cares. We came out of the shower in towels and my girlfriend hadn't put anything on yet.

So the friend said she didn't have anything to sleep in as she only had what she was wearing when she left.
I of course said you don't need anything, she said I have to incase my son wakes up. So I gave her one of my t shirts. So my girlfriend puts on my other t shirt too and thats all they were going to wear.

So I go over and put my arm on the friends shoulder and and said we better get some sleep. She looked at me sad and said its going to be hard to sleep alone. My girlfriend sat on the other side of her and said your not and put her arm around her too. I started kissing her neck and rubbing her back with my right arm and I started rubbing her leg with my left. Meanwhile my girlfriend was rubbing her friends shoulder as well. And she started rubbing her other leg and went to kiss her neck as well and the friend jumped up and said I am not into that. So my girlfriend says okay you guys take that bed and I will take the other.
So we went to sleep with me holding the friend.

About 4am I woke up to her playing with me getting me hard and she wanted a round before everyone woke up.
My girlfriend was awake but pretending to be asleep and when her friend wasn't looking she gave me the thumbs up.

Well that was the 1st of 2 almost 3some with those two.
The 2nd was at my house. Me and my girlfriend (later wife) were having trouble and everyone knew thanks to Facebook so at this point she is my ex-girlfriend.

The the ex's best friend said she could come over and help me clean house and watch movies if I bought her dinner and picked her up. So we ate and started cleaning and my ex-girlfriend shows up a bit drunk to talk, so the 3 of us watch a movie. The ex says she needs to lay down and goes in my room. The friend and I decide its time to do the cleaning and we start in the kitchen. She dropped some red liquid and it gets all over her and so she strips and I thow her stuff in the washer. Well we start having sex in the kitchen. After a while she says it's too uncomfortable. So I carry her to my bed and start pounding her and I threw the blankets off the bed, well she forgot about my ex-girlfriend still being there and freaked out because she was naked in the bed too. So I picked up the ex-girlfriend carried her to the couch in the living room and covered her up, she asked me what was going on. I told her that her friend was freaked out about her being in the bed naked while we were having sex. So she is still not ready for a 3some. I went back in and got back to business with the friend and she asked me about what's going on and are we trying to get her to do a 3some I said yes and she said she can't do that and told me to take her home.

This part is not an almost 3some but the rest of the story.
So the best friend was the maid of honor at the wedding. She came over and set up the bridal shower, she spent the night with me trying to convince me she would be better for me. Later on when the wife and I split she came over every day she came to my work to bring me a lunch. I just couldn't get over the ex and her friend started a new job met a guy and married him then moved out of state again. We still occasionally message on Facebook. I am waiting for the call to come get her again.

I have a couple of other stories coming up.

[loneeagle]

I had this girl that I knew from work that wanted me real bad. But she had 2 kids and the dad kept popping up and into her bed, so it was a FWB situation. But there were 2 times with her.

One night she had a party and called me and said you need to get here. So I showed up and she introduced me to a girl she worked with at an old job.
Well she was really trying to hook me and that girl up and we got to kissing and I was playing over the shirt.

We got down to us 3 being the only ones left and her friend and I were moving way to slow. So my friend spilled something on her shirt so she takes her shirt and bra off. Well her friend was getting real uncomfortable with my friend running around topless. Well then my friend acts drunk and sprays her friend with beer and says oops looks like we're both going to be topless and he is going to love that. Her friend jumped up said you are a freak you to should just go fuck I am out of here.
And she was gone, so we went and did what she said we should do. I thanked her for trying to make it happen.


So this 2nd one may not count. This is the same girl from work FWB.
I started dating this girl who was super competitive about trying to out do my ex-wife (different girl than previous story) they met through me but became almost best friends. Part of another story in I different thread.

So my girlfriend and I go to the girl from works house to pickup a jersey that she was selling and my girlfriend wanted. We get in the house and the friend hands my girlfriend the jersey she ordered and says you better try it on.
So my girlfriend says where's the bathroom so I can try it I tell her just do it here. She gets mad at me but says fine.
It was to small.

So then the friend brings out a couple more and says these might fit better. So she grabs the smallest, I laugh and said no way is that going to fit. The girl from work says you probably need a bigger size than you normally wear. She says she is normally a large but because of her chest she has to go to XXL and she pulls off her shirt and says see showing my girlfriend the tag. She then puts on the XXL and says see.
So my girlfriend says okay I will try that. So my work friend pulls that one off and both are standing in bra's and jeans. My girlfriend goes up a size and tries putting on the shirt and gets stuck. We are laughing and I go and unhook her bra. She gets mad, so I help her out of the shirt. She goes to fix the bra and I pull it away and she gets mad but says fine. The work friend turns around and I reach over and unhook her bra and she just lets it fall.
I am like awesome and I pull out my camera and take a picture of the two of them. Well then they got into posing and I got to strip them.
I said let's move to the bedroom we did. When we got in there I got them to lay side by side they both said I could fuck them but they were not going to touch each other. Well I fucked both of them side by side switching every 2-3 minutes. I did try to get them to touch each others tits but got told do that again and this is over.
So not the 3some I wanted but the one I got.

I have a couple of more for a later time.

[Amos Quito]

Had two foursomes, never a threesome

[DRDavenport]

Originally Posted by Amos Quito

Had two foursomes, never a threesome

Had 1 SIX-some once.
Down at Desire in Mexico. We were there with 2 other couples. It was one of the guy's birthday, so we suggested the 3 ladies give him a treat on a bed up by the hot tub. They got down to it. My wife sitting on his face and the other two giving him a double BJ. My buddy says "I can't just watch this" and starts fucking one of BJ givers doggie style. Not to be left out, I walked to the front and got a BJ from my wife as she was being eaten out by the birthday boy. We got a round of applause from the folks in the hot tub.

DR

[piecenick]

There was a couple that I met at a party, they were on the bohemian side, she was an art major, he came from a wealthy family and was more or less, a permanent student. They were living together, in the early '70's this was fairly uncommon. I was couple of years younger than they were and for some reason, Sasha took a liking to me and was always flirting, Bong, that was the guy's nickname, didn't seem to have an issue with it. I was unattached at the time and I got a bit of an ego stroke of this cool, sophisticated woman sitting on my lap, putting her arm around me and making me feel like a stud.

One night I went with them to a party thrown by one of their friends, when people were leaving I wasn't drunk, but buzzed enough not to drive home, so they took me to crash on their sofa. I stripped down to boxers and dozed off quickly. Sometime later I woke up to Sasha sitting on a stool next to me, she was naked and she had her hand in my shorts stroking my erection. I was confused and groggy, but when Sasha noticed I was awake, she said "Bong and I would like you to join us in the bedroom".

In a rare show of wisdom and maturity, I said that I liked being their friend, but I didn't think sex was a good idea. I just didn't like the idea of being naked in bed with another guy and his GF. This turned out to be a good move on my part, a few weeks later they broke up and it was very bitter and violent, police were involved. I dodged a bullet, or at least a baseball bat.

[DiegoJames]

Have had one and didn't rate it.

It becomes a case of whether you're focussing on getting or giving pleasure and it becomes a bit distracting.

I wouldn't turn the opportunity to do it again down, but it's not on my list of priorities.