[Exhibitionist] Secret exhibitionist

[Boobs]

Does anyone else know women who like to get naked and like to be seen naked but without ever admitting to liking it? They always need some kind of non-sexual excuse for doing it. Some sort of plausible deniability.

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My ex-girlfriend was a very decent and modest girl. She would wear nice clothes, like dresses and skirts, but never too short and never too sexy. So it really surprised me when the first time I spend the night at her place, she walked naked from the shower and stayed naked for about ten or fifteen minutes, with the curtains wide open.

She said she didn't like to put on clothes when her hair was wet, as it would make her clothes wet.
And she said she didn't notice the curtains were open. Like, seriously, how do you not notice this?

She would do the same when she moved in with me. A couple of times a month, she would wake up, open the curtains (while wearing pajamas), have breakfast, take a shower and walk back completely naked. Then she would take clothes from the closet, put them on our bed, change her mind, neatly folding the clothes before putting them back in the closet, take other clothes, dry her hair with the hairdryer in our bedroom, all the while being naked.

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We went to a camping once. Our spot was on a pathway to the beach with a nice river view. My girlfriend wanted to work on her tan, so she asked me if we could make the spot a little more private so she could go topless. So I placed our tent on our left side, our car on the right side and her chair in the middle with the back facing the pathway.

Then she removed her top and asked me to check to ensure nobody could see her. So I walked around and you couldn't see her from the left nor from the right and you couldn't see her breasts when standing right behind her. But walking by on the pathway you could see a decent amount of sideboob and off course everybody on the river could see her boobs, but those people didn't count I guess...

(On the river there were people passing by in canoes and people (mostly children) swimming, since the beach was nearby.)

My chair was placed in front our tent, underneath a tree because I prefer shadow, but my position gave me a nice view of her. Seeing her topless, knowing everybody on the river could see her boobs, and seeing people walking by just a few meters behind her, excited me. Also during our stay on the camping I didn't see anybody else being topless, so knowing that she was the only one topless made it double as exciting.

And then she surprised me by lowering her chair to a horizontal position, which put her breasts on display for everyone to see. There is no way she could've been more exposed. Everyone walking down the pathway (and there were plenty people going to the beach or returning from the beach) had a very good view of her breasts.

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But she never admitted that she liked being seen naked. When changing in front of a window with open curtains, she would always say she didn't noticed the curtains were open. And at the camping she always maintained nobody could see her. But I know she knew everybody could see her and I know she liked it because it made her horny too. But somehow she was never willing to admit it.

[Duran Duran]

Getting her in the mood to want to do those things is the real achievement!
You were definitely doing something right. But understanding it is impossible! Even she probably doesn't understand why she likes it or wants to do it. I think many women love to live in the moment and will allow themselves to be swept away by the situation and just go with it. With that comes doing things like this and whether they be deliberate or totally oblivious all depends on the myriad of things going on in their brains at that time.

Well, that's what I think anyway...

[PjWjjj]

My wife used to like going topless abroad, but that only lasted the first couple of years. Since trying for a baby, she’s turned into a bit of a prude with that sort of thing, even panicking if I open a curtain in a hotel room on the top floor, not overlooked, if she’s coming out of the shower.
A few weeks ago, we were on a family day out to a beach resort. She was getting changed on the beach, half sitting on a rock, while me and the child were in the sea.
She had a towel vaguely around her top and in the process of changing out of her pants was flashing her pussy. I checked around and the only men around that was at the correct angle to see weren’t looking. Then she went to take her top off to get the one-piece swimsuit up over her top half. Unfortunately, she’d worked out a genius method of doing that without exposing her boobs.
At the end of the day, when changing back into her normal clothes (by now on a different and busier part of the beach as the tide was up) she flashed her pussy again getting her pants back on.

Both occasions were only a couple of seconds, but it’s difficult to imagine she didn’t know what she was exposing. I didn’t ask, in case it put her off doing it again, or forced her to alter her changing method!

I just hope the boobs come back out at some point.

[Vortexvortex]

My wife is a real enigma when it comes to this. When we were younger we’d go skinny dipping and play strip games with friends. It always felt more sexual for the guys and more “funny” for the girls. They thought it humorous that we were naked but weren’t necessarily aroused, meanwhile us guys were taking mental screenshots for later use. But I always wondered if while my wife wasn’t really interested in seeing others if she enjoyed being seen. I’ll never get a clear answer as she is reserved in some ways but I believe so. She’s been seen naked through the window and gives an “oh well. Lucky them” quip if I mention it. But while she claims to just not care I believe she wants to be desired. Especially after dropping ten or so pounds a few years back. She wears very revealing bikinis now that she never wore even before putting on any weight. And I often catch her changing positions at the beach or pool at very coincidental times like when young men walk by. I wish we could be open about it because I’d love to create these moments with her. But the conversation has never really allowed it. Silly. She wants it and I want it but it’s weird to say so.

[Boobs]

Originally Posted by PjWjjj

My wife used to like going topless abroad, but that only lasted the first couple of years. Since trying for a baby, she’s turned into a bit of a prude with that sort of thing, even panicking if I open a curtain in a hotel room on the top floor, not overlooked, if she’s coming out of the shower.
A few weeks ago, we were on a family day out to a beach resort. She was getting changed on the beach, half sitting on a rock, while me and the child were in the sea.
She had a towel vaguely around her top and in the process of changing out of her pants was flashing her pussy. I checked around and the only men around that was at the correct angle to see weren’t looking. Then she went to take her top off to get the one-piece swimsuit up over her top half. Unfortunately, she’d worked out a genius method of doing that without exposing her boobs.
At the end of the day, when changing back into her normal clothes (by now on a different and busier part of the beach as the tide was up) she flashed her pussy again getting her pants back on.

Both occasions were only a couple of seconds, but it’s difficult to imagine she didn’t know what she was exposing. I didn’t ask, in case it put her off doing it again, or forced her to alter her changing method!

I just hope the boobs come back out at some point.

Reminds me of the time when I teasingly tried to get my girlfriend to admit that she liked to be seen naked. The result was that she denied it and that she stopped being naked in front of the window with the curtains open. Not exactly the result I had envisioned...

But eventually she started doing it again, with a little help from my side. All I had to do was "accidentally" opening the curtains while she was showering, and then she pretended not to notice. And she picked it up from there.

[collector5757]

I've been lucky enough to know several women who got a thrill from being exposed, and they all relied on plausible deniability to maintain their reputation in (usually) your eyes. The BEST time to explore their feelings about being seen has been during the amazingly enthusiastic sex that follows their being seen.

Bring it up in a casual and fun way while they're getting close to orgasm, and the truth almost always comes out. "I bet that guy at the beach today wasn't expecting to see ...but I think I enjoyed it as much as he did!"

Giving your approval first makes it easier for a woman to admit she liked it too- you've told her she won't make you mad or jealous, but you thought it was fun, or daring, etc. Frequently they'll indicate agreement with a huge moan, or immediate orgasm, or a smile, laugh- you get the idea. Once there's a fun memory you share it's easier to bring it up again, say you can't wait for the next time that "accident" repeats itself or something similar.

[nudony]

Yeah...the old "plausible deniability" thing.

My first wife went through such a phase. She'd started out in nudism very shy and self-conscious; so it was very hard to socialize with other nudists because she'd always cover up and "hide" around them. But we still managed to become friends with another couple; and my wife grew comfortable being naked around them. And that "released" something in her. The first indication of this was her decision to shave completely bald (which she said was just because it felt "cleaner.") The second was her decision, at the resort, to sit in front of the pool instead of the back of the pool area (which she said was to "get more sun".) But then I would "catch her" with her legs opened facing the pool (which she said she was unaware of and "just being comfortable"). And more than once she would have entire conversations with our friends and her legs opened in front of them the entire time.
This phase culminated with her wearing her sarong on the way to the resort or back home; and "dropping it" on the way. She would say it "slipped off"; but there was no way she didn't know her tits were showing when we once pulled up to a gas station, or one night when she walked out into the driveaway completely naked after returning from the resort.

What had happened is that after a lifetime of hiding her body, getting comfortable releasing it triggered an exhibitionist impulse, choosing to make all her body parts available for all to see in "great detail"; all the while being able to justify it as "just being a nudist." It didn't last very long; once she was able to experiment and satisfy her impulse, she moved on. But it was a very interesting time for me lol!

[piecenick]

My wife definitely fits in the category. She has this 'good girl church lady' persona, but if she gets a chance to 'accidently' flash or expose herself, she will. I have posted many of her accidents before, at least the ones I know of, but as an example, one night we were on vacation in Paris, we stopped at a café for dinner, my wife kept glancing over my shoulder, I asked her what she was looking at, she said it was nothing, just an interesting looking older gentleman sitting behind me.

Later, when we got back to the hotel, she was horny and wanted sex immediately, I asked what brought this on, she lifted up her dress, no panties, she said she was giving that gentleman at the café a show of her bare pussy. When she passed him going to the restroom he gave her a slip of paper with a phone number. She wasn't interested in calling him, but the idea made her wet as could be.

[Curiouscouple2469]

I dated a girl for a few years who would never close her curtains as she claimed she lived in the woods. “Who could see?”

One day as we Climbed out of bed after a hot sex session, I notices two young boys (early teens) from next door had a fort on the hillside right outside her window and were watching us. I mentioned it and she replied - oh that’s just the kids next door they’re always up there… been there for years.
Uh, ya to watch you get naked!!

I have had a number of girlfriends over the years that seemed to ignore the fact they were naked in front of the open windows.
My current partner included.

However she is always claiming I only go to nude beaches to look at others women.
(Can’t argue there) but she is the first one to put on a show for the guys around us if the opportunity arises….
I have not had a woman accompany to a nude beach that does come home wet and ready to go as well.

[helloyo2120]

I have a longtime friend who ALWAYS claimed modesty and said she did not like to be seen naked. But would often claim to be drunk after a single shot, so she had an excuse to show her body off, or would suggest playing truth or dare with me and another male buddy of ours, so she would be dared to take her clothes off and could always claim that a dare is a dare. And while in the middle of the dare she'd always pause, or have a question, or pretend to be confused, so she could prolong her nudity. Once she was dared to do 10 pushups wearing only a thong in front of us. She stopped after 5 (even tho she was doing them on her knees) and said she needed to rest before finishing the last 5. No doubt an excuse to prolong her lack of clothing, because she was in fact a high-level athlete and could do pushups no problem. I've seen her naked more times than I can count, and it was always under the guise of "truth or dare" or "I lost a bet" or "I'm so drunk." Just to clarify, she was one of those rare people who could drink 12 shots and not even be buzzed. No joke, she was a beast. She did not get drunk, she just liked to claim that she was drunk so she had an excuse to get naked.

A girl I dated (short-lived relationship) used to claim to be modest, but would rarely wear clothes when she was around me. She was walked in on by somebody once, while topless, and didn't cover up or flinch or anything. And once, in the middle of the night, I needed to go home cuz I had work the next day. She, still naked, put my jacket on to cover up, walked me to her front door, stood on her own front porch, then said "Oh, don't forget your jacket" and took off the jacket to hand it to me. She stood there on her porch naked with a smile on her face. I took the jacket, wrapped a hand around her waist and kissed her (to prolong her public nudity) then was on my way. She waited on her porch til I got to my car and drove away. It was the middle of the night so no one was there, but it was very open and anyone could've seen her.

Also my now wife has always claimed to be too embarrassed to show her body, but she gets horny when she's embarrassed or degraded or humiliated. Knowing this about herself, she'll often put herself into an embarrassing situation, wear a skirt with no panties, or flash me in public, because she knows she'll get embarrassed, and then that'll make her horny. It's especially apparent when she's drunk. I was once on a camping trip with her, and she got drunk, clearly in the mood at 1:30 at night. To get herself more in the mood, she stripped naked, then stepped out of the tent. She didn't do anything, she just stood there, but it was out in the open with lots of other tents. Obviously everyone was asleep, but it made her really horny to be standing out in the open, completely naked lit by the moon, where if it were the daytime, there'd be dozens of people who could see her (very crowded campsite). Idk that she'd ever go so far as to actually stand naked in front of dozens of people, but she's gotten naked in front of a mutual friend or two, and will get naked in public places when she feels it's empty enough where no one will see her. She's gone streaking through parking lots in the middle of the night as well. She may like the RISK of being caught naked better than actually being seen naked, Idk, lol.