[Cheating] How did you catch your wife cheating?

[snakem2000]

I did a search and didn't see a thread with anyone's stories. Excuse me if I missed it. I had suspected my exwife as cheating. She had suddenly acted cold towards me and thhe sex was almost nonexistent. I did ask her and she said I was being ridiculous but it still didn't feel right. One night I went into her wallet to borrow a debit card and when I pulled it out, about 3 or 4 small notes fell out. They were from her lover and it was pretty clear something had been going on. When I confronted her she said it was just a one time thing. The next day while I was at work she moved out to her sister's and shortly thereafter filed for divorce. I found out later when she told the boyfriend that she was free, he dumped her. He was a pilot with a home base in a different state and she was just his fuck when he overnighted here. So it made me feel a bit better....