FWB, no help with me sucking

[Naddy3]

My fwb refuses to tell me what she likes when I lick/suck her breasts/nipples. A long time ago did get her to say that she preferred licking to sucking. Lately, I have discovered that she apparently liked me to flick her nipples with my finger nail..
I gently suck on the tip of her nipple. Or the whole areola. I will take as much of the breast in my mouth and massage the nipple with my mouth or suck the nipple. I lick the nipples with pressure...pushing them back onto/into the breast. I'll lick then like a lollipop. I'll flick them with my tongue.
NOTHING. I can't tell what she really likes. I'll ask? I'll say , do you like that? You want this? Wadda you like better......nothing. I'll suck lick at her breast for 10 or 15 minutes. So I know she must like it.
I wanna do what she likes the most, but I can't tell. Must something that I do that she likes the most.

So, what do YOU like best when a your nipples/breasts are being licked/sucked.???

[Duran Duran]

It's quite possible what she likes is to be taken by a man in control and that you asking her shows weakness and a lack of confidence. So taking control, being confident and making her feel good is what turns her on!

Haha. I know that is a bit complicated, but many women are turned on mentally, so if you're taking control and not asking questions, thats sexier for her then any particular thing you could be doing. Of course you do need to do a decent job physically as well.

If she is orgasming then you know you're pretty much doing the right thing. Just keep an eye on her reactions when you do various things and keep a mental note for future fun!

[Summer120]

I agree 100% with Duran Duran.

I have had several women from girlfriends to fwb that when we started sleeping together or talking about what we liked, many of them said “I do not get off/aroused by having my nipples/breasts played with...” I can say with all confidence that I made that change. Many even to the point of bitten and nibbled-since you didn’t mention trying that. In intimate playing, exploring and focusing attention on her without doubting yourself will be the key. You’ll pay attention to her slight squirms, breathing patterns, and reactions to assure you that you are on the right path.

Maybe even try your current methods all while playing with and stimulating her clit with your fingers in rhythms to what you are doing to her breasts to have her be able to enjoy and pin point the sensations better.

To hear them finally fess up to it weeks or months later was a great feeling, and made me thrilled to spoil them even more each time as a personal accomplishment. I trust that you’ll get there!

[gwm]

I spend a long time on the breasts. Sucking, flicking the nipple with my tongue while sucking, flicking the other nipple with my finger, licking all around, focus on sucking the nipple, then sucking as much of the breast as I can get in my mouth, etc. When my wife and I first got together she asked if I spend so much time on her breasts because she likes or because I like it. I said because I like it, I just assumed she liked it from her responses. My guess is no one else had spent so much time on them. She loves it too, and it's an important part of our foreplay. While I'm licking, I have my chest pressing down on her clit area and she moves around pressing on my ribs. Of course I am tall and she is short so that may not work for ever couple.

On a related note, why aren't there more videos of breast play? I hardly ever see one with more than a token suck and if I search for one, they are nearly always "big tit gal sucking cock" or something like that. If anyone can point me to some videos around here with breast sucking, I'd appreciate it.

[Barmixer]

My wife likes the squeezed, but not to hard. When I suck her nipples, she likes me to sc**** them with my teeth.

I also found one is more sensitive than the other. She says it is directly connected to her pussy. When she was getting implants, she asked the doctor if she would loose sensitivity. She didn't but I have a feeling it would have been a deal breaker.

[Leviticus59]

Ladies, please take the late Sam Kinison's advice and tell us what you like.