sexy resorts for vacation

[mudhope]

Hey, I've seen advertisements for sex cruises, swingers clubs, nude resorts, etc. Does anyone know of resorts (tropical would be good) where there is a strong vibe for sex, but not quite so blatant? Where wives/girlfriends would be flirted with, but not harassed? Where the potential is there, but not too pushy? I've read stories about the seduced wife on vacation, and used to see some advertisements (like in Jamaica) for resorts that seemed like they would be like that, but never went. Have been to Club med, and I guess I'm asking if there is such a thing as something just a bit more sexy, but not just filled with swingers? Anyone have that knowledge, or stories, much appreciated. This is a terrific site!

I wish I knew about this site (or it existed) when my ex-wife would eat lunch with me in a downtown area, unknowingly showing off her panties if she sat in the wrong place, like on building steps with hundreds of men walking by - which I always encouraged. I could have "invited" readers to catch the view, and then they could have reported their success on the site - what a turn-on that would have been! Oh well....

[Barmixer]

Originally Posted by mudhope

Hey, I've seen advertisements for sex cruises, swingers clubs, nude resorts, etc. Does anyone know of resorts (tropical would be good) where there is a strong vibe for sex, but not quite so blatant? Where wives/girlfriends would be flirted with, but not harassed? Where the potential is there, but not too pushy? I've read stories about the seduced wife on vacation, and used to see some advertisements (like in Jamaica) for resorts that seemed like they would be like that, but never went. Have been to Club med, and I guess I'm asking if there is such a thing as something just a bit more sexy, but not just filled with swingers? Anyone have that knowledge, or stories, much appreciated. This is a terrific site!

I wish I knew about this site (or it existed) when my ex-wife would eat lunch with me in a downtown area, unknowingly showing off her panties if she sat in the wrong place, like on building steps with hundreds of men walking by - which I always encouraged. I could have "invited" readers to catch the view, and then they could have reported their success on the site - what a turn-on that would have been! Oh well....

Several years ago, my wife and I went to Cancun to a resort called Desire -I am still surprised that she agreed, but that is another story. It is couples only, - a little milder than Hedo in Jamaica. We are into voyeur / exhibition, and we got all we expected. Just go when there is not a swing club "takeover". There is a disco with a back room - couches porn and a lot of sex.

I the upstairs rooftop Jacuzzi you meet a a lot of people. There are hanging beds for sex, and one evening I sat my wife on the side of the Jacuzzi and quickly ate her to a mind blowing, squirting orgasm. To my suprise she invited others to do the same - to her no time at all to soak their faces.

[ghost67]

Hedo has more than one club I think and they are known for hot sex parties. I don't know if it is always a big party or if it is certain times of the year. Google it and maybe there are some discussion forums about how to have a good time there.

[DRDavenport]

I second the nomination of Desire as the sexiest resort in the Western Hemisphere. We go every year. January is swingers' month, so there is lots of activity, but no one feels any pressure (we are not swingers, but like to watch & be watched).

[newfieguy]

mudhope i think temptation resort is close to what your looking for. Do some research and see if it is what you had in mind. https://temptationresorts.com/cancun/

[mudhope]

Wow, fast response, thanks guys. So what goes on at these resorts? how does one signal receptivity, non-receptivity, how to dress, do guys/couples come on, is it subtle or out front? I'm thinking if it happens at all, the resort would have to look like a "normal" resort, and then it would slowly dawn on my wife (and to my great "surprise") that the people are pretty "liberal". If she were drinking a little, she might dance, and let some of the guys grope her...beyond that, I don't know. for me, it would be quite a turn on just to see the men look down her dress, look up her dress, and grope her a little....

[DRDavenport]

Desire is basically a CO/nude resort. Most people are nude most of the time, but put on a cover-up for breakfast & lunch and dress sexy/nice for dinner at any of the fine restaurants.

As far as signaling receptivity and such, I really don't know what to say. If you're there as a couple and just minding your own business, no one will approach you. If you're in the hot tub and meeting new people, you will just have to use common sense. If people are fooling around, move closer and start playing with your wife. If someone reaches out to include you, well... if no one does, move on. If you go into the Sin Room off the disco, it will be expected that you are into playing, and have to set your own limits (and make those clear to those who want to play with you).

HTH

DR

[wtrski]

Mud
Great post, I love the direction of your line of questioning, and I am eager to hear the responses of this group.
I'm always looking for the same thing.
We have been to resorts like this. Hedo, and Desire, as well as Paradise Lakes in FL years ago.
There are always relationship dynamics and pitfalls to avoid when deciding how to "introduce" a partner to a situation that is conducive to getting them to play with others. While a lot of relationship experts warn against any type of shenanigans "tricking" a partner into an area they are uncomfortable with, I can tell you that I have heard plenty of anecdotes from people who used a trip to Desire or Hedo or a swing club to successfully start something with a partner.
So as someone who has been to these places (several times), I can also tell you that I am constantly looking for more places that have a sexy vibe. My wife has enjoyed herself at Hedo and Desire, but I would not say these places are her "natural environment". We may in fact return to these places, but I am always looking for places that are a little more "vanilla" in their sexual pedigree. While not everyone at Hedo or Desire is a swinger, those resorts do have a little more of a reputation as "naughty places".
She does (like many women) have some body image issues (I'm not sure why, because she's much hotter than the majority of guests at these places but that's another post), and I'm sure that colors some of the anxiety about booking one of these resorts.
I would love to hear about people's trips to Temptation. Also anywhere else that where nudity or toplessness is present. Some place you have been where there is any exhibitionism/voyeurism? Was there a sexy vibe there?

[TeamTA]

Originally Posted by wtrski

Mud
Great post, I love the direction of your line of questioning, and I am eager to hear the responses of this group.
I'm always looking for the same thing.
We have been to resorts like this. Hedo, and Desire, as well as Paradise Lakes in FL years ago.
There are always relationship dynamics and pitfalls to avoid when deciding how to "introduce" a partner to a situation that is conducive to getting them to play with others. While a lot of relationship experts warn against any type of shenanigans "tricking" a partner into an area they are uncomfortable with, I can tell you that I have heard plenty of anecdotes from people who used a trip to Desire or Hedo or a swing club to successfully start something with a partner.
So as someone who has been to these places (several times), I can also tell you that I am constantly looking for more places that have a sexy vibe. My wife has enjoyed herself at Hedo and Desire, but I would not say these places are her "natural environment". We may in fact return to these places, but I am always looking for places that are a little more "vanilla" in their sexual pedigree. While not everyone at Hedo or Desire is a swinger, those resorts do have a little more of a reputation as "naughty places".
She does (like many women) have some body image issues (I'm not sure why, because she's much hotter than the majority of guests at these places but that's another post), and I'm sure that colors some of the anxiety about booking one of these resorts.
I would love to hear about people's trips to Temptation. Also anywhere else that where nudity or toplessness is present. Some place you have been where there is any exhibitionism/voyeurism? Was there a sexy vibe there?

Been to temptations twice with the mrs. Best way to describe it is "spring break for adults" where topless is the norm. While there are swingers at the resort, hey are not in the majority. Great place to visit for a fun time, just go soon as they are closing for a year i believe in august for renovations

[stevezr1]

Originally Posted by wtrski

Mud
Great post, I love the direction of your line of questioning, and I am eager to hear the responses of this group.
I'm always looking for the same thing. .................................................. ...
.................................................. .............. While a lot of relationship experts warn against any type of shenanigans "tricking" a partner into an area they are uncomfortable with, .................................
............................ Also anywhere else that where nudity or toplessness is present. Some place you have been where there is any exhibitionism/voyeurism? Was there a sexy vibe there?

Regarding the trickery..... not the kind you'd expect....
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The wife and I aren't swingers, but like to be on the edge.... looking and showing and teasing.
A long while back, after visiting Hedo Negril and Grand Lido, and a few other Jamaican resorts, we found ourselves back at Hedo Negril for like the 3rd time.
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A fairly large swinger crowd was present. After a wild, drunken island picnic, the wife and I got uh, separated at the big hot tub, and each of us wound up in different rooms. I was lured away mainly by this cutie who had been throwing me come-hither glances since the day we arrived. There were at least 2 other couples in the room where I was.
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The wife still isn't 100% sure what went on where she was, but sounds like a lot more people than in my room, people coming and going, including spectators. Apparently she was really into it at the moment, even got oral from at least one woman, and had a few different cocks in her pussy and mouth. It sounded to me like a full-on orgy.
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Next day, she was not so happy with herself and what had happened. But after that episode, she sure seemed to be very popular with lots of folks...
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She didn't know quite how to react to that. She was embarrassed, especially since while she while she knew at least two of the couples involved, but she wasn't exactly sure who else did her, and who else saw her being a total sl*t. (not her words!).
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Yet she was strangely proud of herself, given her new-found popularity. So for the few days we had left, we were cordial. but and we tried to keep our distance from the "swingers" after that. And, easy on the drinking and ganga....
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Although the wife was still very horny when back at our room, she was unusually careful not to be provocative at the beach and hot tub, but all the while having that little extra bounce in her step. And while she never said it to me, I know that every time she saw a cock at the beach or anywhere else on the grounds, she was wondering if she had sampled that particular cock.
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Bottom line, can't say for sure, but we may have been lured away from each other..... and taken advantage of.
Others have said "no way" swingers have unwritten rules and scruples.... etc. I don't know.
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