Why Do We Show Our Wives Naked?

[zeuren]

"And I had two or three friends that she was comfortable being nude around, too, especially if their girlfriends were with them, also nude."

What, your friends would come over with there girlfriends? The girls would all be nude? What about the boys - nude or clothed?

[delt]

Two good friends I knew in undergraduate days lived upstairs over our apartment. Both were in law school and kept odd hours. They would come and go and my wife would not give it a thought that she was nude. When they had girlfriends with them, usually on a weekend, and came downstairs, the girls sometimes would undress, seeing my wife nude. Sometimes topless, sometimes nude, it depended on the girl and her comfort with the group. The only time I remember all the guys and girls being nude together was when we would go to the apartment's pool late at night. We would streak to the pool as a group and had a fun time. Usually it was just fun, but sometimes we would get quiet and fool around but not every time. We were newlyweds and never fooled around with others, but we never felt shy about fucking and sucking around others. We could only do this really late at night. The dog walk was near the pool and people would appear all hours walking their dogs. Also, there were a tremendous number of kids all over the place so we had to watch out.

Sometimes, I had other guys over and my wife did not object, except once. The upstairs guys would occasionally bring over a few friends and I never remember my wife being nervous or covering up at all. The one time she objected, I had classes with an older guy---an engineer---who came back for a graduate degree. He had a wife and a couple of kids and lived in the same apartments. My wife knew his wife. He started coming over for no reason, except to see my wife's fun parts. She felt bad that the guy wasn't home with his family, and she finally told him that he was making her uncomfortable in her own home, and he stopped coming. He asked if he could take a photo and she said absolutely not! By the way, as comfortable as she was with her nudity in the first floor apartment, she never undressed anywhere else---at parties or other pool parties---even if others were nude while we were in grad school.

[BobBiga]

Originally Posted by HedoRocks

I would have to agree with this. My wife loves to be seen, and objectified. It makes her feel sexy to know that guys are objectifying her. Most of the time she won't come out and admit it, but at times she has, so it's sort of an unspoken acknowledgement.

We created a Reddit account for her, on a dare from me. She plays it all coy, but in reality she loves the response she gets from her postings.

Sorry have to disagree. Most in my opinion don't like being objectified, some yes. Most.......nope!

[Srey]

Originally Posted by Shortlong

I'm fascinated by this whole discussion. Love seeing the pics too!



Maybe I'm just the insanely jealous type (pretty sure I am) but why do you want to see her with another man?

If we're at the nude beach, I do like guys checking out my wife. I love that I'm giving back a little to the community, plus there's something about seeing guys appreciate her body. I want to check out their wives too, for sure. Golden rule there, to some extent.

But I really don't want my wife to be with another man.

Can you expound on that part a little? What am I missing?

I am exactly the same way. I love showing my wife off as we had been to nude beach before but I won't allow any touching or maybe even flirting as she object to speak to anyone at the beach. I can say that is one of the funniest time with my wife. Im glad I wasn't the only one feeling this way which I can't explain y either.

[zarh]

Originally Posted by Srey

I am exactly the same way. I love showing my wife off as we had been to nude beach before but I won't allow any touching or maybe even flirting as she object to speak to anyone at the beach. I can say that is one of the funniest time with my wife. Im glad I wasn't the only one feeling this way which I can't explain y either.

Maybe it could have to do with self confidence.
Do you think you are less valuable than other men and you fear of losing her ?
Do you think she will leave you if she finds other men take better care of her ?
If not, then there is no risk of letting other men touch her breasts or kissing her cheeks.

Never forget, you are more than just a shaft and couple relation is more than just coit.
Sex can be recreative without any loving feelings, just for the fun.
It's another kind of enjoyment.

[BobBiga]

I think one reason might be that we may want to take our sex lives a little further. Maybe some of us would like to try a threesome but our wives have no interest. Maybe this is the next best thing.

[Hornyinde]

Originally Posted by Ohioredlover

It’s been my experience again , that despite their arguments to the contrary the overwhelming majority of women fantasize on being seen . They want to be out of control and objectified

You might be on to something there. My wife is hesitant to take full on nude photos, but isn’t shy about coming out of the bathroom naked and walking around bedroom before getting dressed, with the curtains open. She’s done it for years at hotels and resorts. Recently begun doing it at home.

Has she been seen? I don’t know for sure, but it sure is possible.

[Srey]

Originally Posted by zarh

Maybe it could have to do with self confidence.
Do you think you are less valuable than other men and you fear of losing her ?
Do you think she will leave you if she finds other men take better care of her ?
If not, then there is no risk of letting other men touch her breasts or kissing her cheeks.

Never forget, you are more than just a shaft and couple relation is more than just coit.
Sex can be recreative without any loving feelings, just for the fun.
It's another kind of enjoyment.

I kind of never thought that far. But has the subject came up between my wife and I. The answer is always been no from her perspective. For me it is trying to get her out of her shell with just showing off in general and even that is hard. Would i allow touching yes, but it has to go both ways so i respect her decision. Maybe one day but it is not something im going to put pressure on.

[nudony]

Originally Posted by Srey

I kind of never thought that far. But has the subject came up between my wife and I. The answer is always been no from her perspective. For me it is trying to get her out of her shell with just showing off in general and even that is hard. Would i allow touching yes, but it has to go both ways so i respect her decision. Maybe one day but it is not something im going to put pressure on.

I think it depends on the situation; at least for me.

During our social nudist years my wife and I befriended another couple. We quickly became pretty close. We'd meet up at their house, hang out naked, go to the nudist resort and spend the weekend with them.

Our male friend was pretty flirtatious and often complimented my wife. And she appreciated the compliments because she knew they came from a "good place." As a result she didn't mind giving him full-body naked hugs; or him massaging her shoulders, or patting her on the butt as a gesture of affection. On one occasion we were sitting naked together, and while joking around, she plopped down on his lap; and as he put his arm around her he got a nice handful and faceful of her boobs. My wife was totally comfortable with the situation. So was I. I actually found it endearing.

This is not behavior we engaged in with random people. My wife didn't really allow anyone to touch her like that. But we had an established rapport with this couple. She was ok with him putting his hands on her naked body; as a matter of fact he is the only person she's ever allowed to do so.

You just have to find the right people in the right situation. I never though I could watch another man put his hands on my wife's naked ass or tits without whooping his ass. But with Paul it was different. We loved the guy. So him putting his hands on her was never an issue.

[raysallx]

Originally Posted by nudony

I think it depends on the situation; at least for me.

During our social nudist years my wife and I befriended another couple. We quickly became pretty close. We'd meet up at their house, hang out naked, go to the nudist resort and spend the weekend with them.

Our male friend was pretty flirtatious and often complimented my wife. And she appreciated the compliments because she knew they came from a "good place." As a result she didn't mind giving him full-body naked hugs; or him massaging her shoulders, or patting her on the butt as a gesture of affection. On one occasion we were sitting naked together, and while joking around, she plopped down on his lap; and as he put his arm around her he got a nice handful and faceful of her boobs. My wife was totally comfortable with the situation. So was I. I actually found it endearing.

This is not behavior we engaged in with random people. My wife didn't really allow anyone to touch her like that. But we had an established rapport with this couple. She was ok with him putting his hands on her naked body; as a matter of fact he is the only person she's ever allowed to do so.

You just have to find the right people in the right situation. I never though I could watch another man put his hands on my wife's naked ass or tits without whooping his ass. But with Paul it was different. We loved the guy. So him putting his hands on her was never an issue.

Yes, it depends on the guy and the situation. We were once at a nudist resort with another couple and went to the dance in the clubhouse at night. It was unseasonably chilly that weekend and everyone was wearing something to keep warm. My wife had on a zip up track suit top. As we were all dancing together the guy of the other couple suddenly reached over and unzipped my wife's top (I guess he was frustrated). I thought "Oh oh," because I know if even I had done that there would be hell to pay. But she just laughed it off and kept dancing with her boobs swinging free, so we all benefited.