Why Do We Show Our Wives Naked?

[Couple6872]

Originally Posted by stevezr1

Wow, reading about how different women react to being seen nude........ their responses are SO varied!

But first to get back to topic: I said this earlier in this thread. I think the "trophy wife" syndrome applies. Many of us want to show whoever we can what we get to take to bed. Short, tall, fat, skinny, they are OUR trophies.

My wife... "fantasize about being seen"? yes, for sure.
My wife... "objectified"? I don't know about that. I am still trying to figure her out.

She enjoys being seen naked when she is in the right frame of mind, nothing I can control other than creating the right scenarios and atmosphere. She normally isn't into flashing or any such overt exhibitionism. She would rather be seen naked in a situation in which it is somewhat normal to be naked, but not necessarily be acknowledged by anyone as such. For instance, open curtains, naked or topless sunbathing in your yard or garden. Or her favorite, a somewhat remote beach not designated as nude, and being seen naked or topless by beachcombers, fishermen or boaters.
For sure, she would NOT take kindly to me posting her pics, especially if recognizable.
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That about somes up my thoughts on it aswell. She seems to have the same kind of thought. Wants to be seen but she doesn’t want to see the person seeing her.

[sammy15]

Because we want others to see what we have. We want others to appreciate our wives. If one is on a nude beach or in a resort and others are sneaking a look, doesn't it fill you with pride?

[delt]

I hadn't thought of this in many years, but in the earliest days of our marriage, staying in a cramped first floor apartment, I insisted my new bride--slim and lovely---stay nude whenever I was there. It got more comfortable over time and she stayed nude all the time, except when we had family or a few others over to visit. She was dressed then, of course. I was in grad school and she had a part time job, so we were busy.

With everything on display, I would constantly feel and fondle, and we could fuck and suck spontaneously anywhere in the apartment. There were two windows on the front of the apartment that faced the parking area. We kept them partially open all the time, knowing people could see in to a degree, especially at night. The same was true in the bedroom--you could see her walking around but not the bed.

She enjoyed going to the door for the mail or the paperboy, standing behind the door but sticking out enough leg and thigh that they could guess she was nude. And I had two or three friends that she was comfortable being nude around, too, especially if their girlfriends were with them, also nude.

We did not realize how quickly this freedom would pass as children came and life changed. I only wished I had taken more photos back then.

[zeuren]

"And I had two or three friends that she was comfortable being nude around, too, especially if their girlfriends were with them, also nude."

What, your friends would come over with there girlfriends? The girls would all be nude? What about the boys - nude or clothed?

[delt]

Two good friends I knew in undergraduate days lived upstairs over our apartment. Both were in law school and kept odd hours. They would come and go and my wife would not give it a thought that she was nude. When they had girlfriends with them, usually on a weekend, and came downstairs, the girls sometimes would undress, seeing my wife nude. Sometimes topless, sometimes nude, it depended on the girl and her comfort with the group. The only time I remember all the guys and girls being nude together was when we would go to the apartment's pool late at night. We would streak to the pool as a group and had a fun time. Usually it was just fun, but sometimes we would get quiet and fool around but not every time. We were newlyweds and never fooled around with others, but we never felt shy about fucking and sucking around others. We could only do this really late at night. The dog walk was near the pool and people would appear all hours walking their dogs. Also, there were a tremendous number of kids all over the place so we had to watch out.

Sometimes, I had other guys over and my wife did not object, except once. The upstairs guys would occasionally bring over a few friends and I never remember my wife being nervous or covering up at all. The one time she objected, I had classes with an older guy---an engineer---who came back for a graduate degree. He had a wife and a couple of kids and lived in the same apartments. My wife knew his wife. He started coming over for no reason, except to see my wife's fun parts. She felt bad that the guy wasn't home with his family, and she finally told him that he was making her uncomfortable in her own home, and he stopped coming. He asked if he could take a photo and she said absolutely not! By the way, as comfortable as she was with her nudity in the first floor apartment, she never undressed anywhere else---at parties or other pool parties---even if others were nude while we were in grad school.

[BobBiga]

Originally Posted by HedoRocks

I would have to agree with this. My wife loves to be seen, and objectified. It makes her feel sexy to know that guys are objectifying her. Most of the time she won't come out and admit it, but at times she has, so it's sort of an unspoken acknowledgement.

We created a Reddit account for her, on a dare from me. She plays it all coy, but in reality she loves the response she gets from her postings.

Sorry have to disagree. Most in my opinion don't like being objectified, some yes. Most.......nope!

[Srey]

Originally Posted by Shortlong

I'm fascinated by this whole discussion. Love seeing the pics too!



Maybe I'm just the insanely jealous type (pretty sure I am) but why do you want to see her with another man?

If we're at the nude beach, I do like guys checking out my wife. I love that I'm giving back a little to the community, plus there's something about seeing guys appreciate her body. I want to check out their wives too, for sure. Golden rule there, to some extent.

But I really don't want my wife to be with another man.

Can you expound on that part a little? What am I missing?

I am exactly the same way. I love showing my wife off as we had been to nude beach before but I won't allow any touching or maybe even flirting as she object to speak to anyone at the beach. I can say that is one of the funniest time with my wife. Im glad I wasn't the only one feeling this way which I can't explain y either.

[zarh]

Originally Posted by Srey

I am exactly the same way. I love showing my wife off as we had been to nude beach before but I won't allow any touching or maybe even flirting as she object to speak to anyone at the beach. I can say that is one of the funniest time with my wife. Im glad I wasn't the only one feeling this way which I can't explain y either.

Maybe it could have to do with self confidence.
Do you think you are less valuable than other men and you fear of losing her ?
Do you think she will leave you if she finds other men take better care of her ?
If not, then there is no risk of letting other men touch her breasts or kissing her cheeks.

Never forget, you are more than just a shaft and couple relation is more than just coit.
Sex can be recreative without any loving feelings, just for the fun.
It's another kind of enjoyment.

[BobBiga]

I think one reason might be that we may want to take our sex lives a little further. Maybe some of us would like to try a threesome but our wives have no interest. Maybe this is the next best thing.

[Hornyinde]

Originally Posted by Ohioredlover

It’s been my experience again , that despite their arguments to the contrary the overwhelming majority of women fantasize on being seen . They want to be out of control and objectified

You might be on to something there. My wife is hesitant to take full on nude photos, but isn’t shy about coming out of the bathroom naked and walking around bedroom before getting dressed, with the curtains open. She’s done it for years at hotels and resorts. Recently begun doing it at home.

Has she been seen? I don’t know for sure, but it sure is possible.