shared wife

[nepter]

that was her first time

[pantygal]

Originally Posted by nepter

FOT THOSE WHO ANSWERED NEVER

what is the reason
please explain

You're lucky. Mine would never agree to.

[amatlover]

When I woke up this morning I told the wife I had a naughty dream, she asked what it was about and I told her it was her me and another person.. she looked at me rolled her eyes and said "Oh god, who was the girl?" I then told her it wasn't a girl it was another guy.. her eyes lit up and she said "Oh how exciting" instantly I got a boner and but she quickly squashed it by saying "too bad I don't want to be shared"

Before I got to work we fvcked twice.. 1 in the bed and then again in the shower.. now that I'm at work I get a text from her.. its a picture of her vibrator in her pussy, as were texting back and forth she says she is really wet and horny and sends me a video of her finishing playing with her toy. I asked what made her so horny so I can do it again. She says she was just in a mood and wanted to get fucked hard but since I wasn't home her toy did the job.

she is never like this, maybe the thought of 2 guys at the same time was on her mind..

[nepter]

a few of you are going to do it

explain when and why please

[treblekane]

Originally Posted by Richard53

Cos she's mine! Seriously, why would I want another bloke to shag my wife? I can't understand that at all.

Because she is not really "yours". It is not legal in most countries to own another human being. She is with you because she chooses to be with you (in most cases).

Statistically, you have almost a 50% chance that your wife will cheat on you in your relationship. The couriosity is there, I want it to be a healthy part of our relationship, not the death of it.

To have other men lust after your attractive wife is flattering and a rush. To watch the process of another man wooing her, trying to get into her pants and maybe even suceeding is one of the biggest sexual charges I have ever felt.

I want my wife to be in my bed tonight because she truely would rather be nowhere else. How would I know this is so if I held her captive?

[treblekane]

Originally Posted by nepter

DO YOU PRATICE WITH STRANGERS OR FRIENDS?

Both. Up until now, more friends fewer strangers.

Strangers are less complicated, fucking friends can get sticky.

[treblekane]

Originally Posted by AMATLOVER

I'd like to and I think the wife would try it on a drunken night but don't know how to bring up the question.

That is the difficult part; broaching the subject for the first time. Most wives will say "no" out of principal right off the bat. At the same time, the thought secretly excites most wives. The key then, is to build your relationship to the point that it is OK, and your wife trusts you enough to let herself dare to explore a bit.

The place to start is by admitting to your wife that the thought excites you. Be prepaired for a strong reaction, whether real or put-on. Let her get used to that for a while, then move on to discussions about what she likes; who of your friends she finds attractive, or muse about the men in the bar you are in. Is there anyone in the bar she finds sexually attactive? Make a game of it. If there is, what is it that she finds attractive about that person? It is just a game, and harmless, but it gets her thinking, and often will excite her. Your sex life will improve as these fantisies are allowed, and the thought becomes less and less taboo.

Only after the groundwork is carefully laid, you start creating situations that could lead to sexual contact. Strip poker in the hot tub, dirty dancing, drinking games are all good for this. If you have a friend that is willing and not too pushy, this helps.

Finally, be prepaired for some backlash after the first time it happens. She will likely feel guilty, and it is VERY important that you go well out of your way to make sure she knows it is ok, she is ok, you are ok, you had fun and it was a positive thing. This is the most important stage in making her understand that not only are you not upset with her for having sex with someone else, but you enjoyed it and feel closer to her for having shared the experience.

There, now go out and enjoy yourselves...

[treblekane]

Originally Posted by nepter

that was her first time

Very hot Nepter, any more pictures?