Women and men seeing things a bit differently

[rudolfm]

Originally Posted by Overthewall80

As she apologized she added “but we didn’t kiss and I didn’t go down on him”. I guess she had the same mentality. I guess I get it but at the time I was thinking “his cock was inside you and you’re trying to make me feel better by saying you didn’t suck him off?”

What if she had said " ... and I didn't let him in my pussy"?
She only let hin fuck her ass 😆

[Vitaminwawa]

Amazing the threads you can find when you pick a random page from this board. I recently had a buddy over for a late ball game on tv. My wife had an early morning so she retired to the bedroom halfway through the game. Maybe twenty minutes later she came back out in just a t shirt, which is what she sleeps in. She paraded past us toward the kitchen explaining she forgot her water. I glanced at my buddy who was looking at her cheeks hanging from under her shirt. Showing a nice jiggle as she walked. She walked back and stood near me checking the score one last time before bed. The shirt hung to maybe a half inch above her pussy lips, which were bald and showing just enough to see. I enjoyed the scenario a lot.

When she left I looked at my buddy and gave him a big smile and a shrug. The next day I mentioned to her her cheeks were showing and she said “so what? He’s seen me in my bikini which shows my butt off.” Then I said if the bottom of her cheeks were out, didn’t she think the front might be out too. She blushed and said “no way”. I had her remove her clothes and put her night shirt on to check and as she stood in front of the mirror she gasped to see her lips protruding. I said I didn’t think he’d noticed I was just hyper aware. That seemed to appease her but he definitely saw.

[rudolfm]

Vita, why in hell did you tell your wife? Now she cannot "innocently" tease you buddy anymore and his fun is spoiled. How stupid.

[Yes_Right_There]

I used to hear it said that women weren't attracted to things visual like porn but men were. I'm a woman and not only and I very turned on by porn but so are my female friends. And I also heard it said that men were sexual and women were romantic. I have a couple of girlfriends that are some of the most sexual people on earth. So much for stereotypes

[Gnome72141]

Originally Posted by Yes_Right_There

I used to hear it said that women weren't attracted to things visual like porn but men were. I'm a woman and not only and I very turned on by porn but so are my female friends. And I also heard it said that men were sexual and women were romantic. I have a couple of girlfriends that are some of the most sexual people on earth. So much for stereotypes

My experience is that women are much more turned on by porn and sex (instead of romantic) than men are by a long shot, but they just don't want to talk about it.

[Shing]

I love this discussion idea. My ex was extremely conservative but had a complete blind-spot for certain activities and dress-codes.

In her 20s she had a body that had been delivered directly from heaven and kept it fairly hidden, but had no idea she was buying bras that were far too large, and of course I never told her. What this meant was that all you had to do was see down her t-shirt a little bit and there were her gorgeous puffy nipples and full breasts in full view. I remember one instance in particular she was doing some gardening, on her knees leaning over, digging into the earth with a trowel, and with every dig her entire breast became completely exposed. Our neighbour, a middle-aged man originally from Turkiye, got the best view of his life every weekend.

She refused to do naturist beaches but was shy-but-happy to do German saunas fully nude. I remember when she was 24, I was 29, we spent a week in Bad Wildbad's thermal baths. Outside of the pools and sauna she'd wrap a towel around herself but, inside the sauna for instance, once laid down full-length on the lowest bench in front of a full room of people. I remember speaking to a much older man who sat on the other side of her, next to her head, as she laid down, so our conversation took place overlooking her fully naked body, her little landing-strip of pubic hair, and because I had one of her feet in my hands, on my lap, her legs were parted enough to fully expose her vagina.

I think her conservative nature made it all the more thrilling when she thought something was no-big-deal. Like one time we were at a fairly desolate beach on the Croatian island of Mljet. I was nude, as always, she refused, as always, but when she thought we were alone she stripped off her black bikini and we fucked in the shallow water. Unbeknownst to her there was another fully clothed couple just 4 metres away behind a bush who could see exactly what we were doing, and whilst I was fucking her from behind on the beach a little later a group of four people, from the road above us where they were passing by, could also see her little titties bouncing up and down as I fucked her in missionary position.

[Upforit200891]

Men and women are so different when it comes to sexual interactions with others. My wife always says she needs to fancy a man to have sex with them. For me hearing that id say that makes things more serious. I see three and foursomes as just others joining us. She wants same age or younger i just want men inside her. Age colour size cock size none of it matters to me. Are all men the same. I mean don't get me wrong, id definitely like/love to see several young men ravage my wife but its not essential.

[Yes_Right_There]

Originally Posted by Gnome72141

My experience is that women are much more turned on by porn and sex (instead of romantic) than men are by a long shot, but they just don't want to talk about it.

I think women are getting a lot more open about how they're turned on by visual and audio porn. I knew a girl that spent a lot of time listening to audio porn where guys talk about what they want to do to you.

Now that women can easily access porn by their phones or laptops I think many women are even getting addicted to it. What kind? It all depends on the woman

[loadmaster011]

The "evolution" of what defines sex seems to be filtering down to younger women. The lurid tales of girls who want to remain virgins but do anal or oral and even swallow are becoming more regular. But apparently it's also cross generationaal too.

Talking to my wife I mentioned I was talking to a female colleague at work about the difficulties of having a teenage daughter (she has two and I have none). During the discussion she said her oldest keeps her intimacy in check by jacking her dates and BF's off. I seemed surprised apparently as she followed up by saying, "Well it's like their having sex". My wife replied yeh so what? I asked if handjobs are considered sex or not? She actually burst out laughing saying, "Are you fucking serious? Handjobs aren't sex".

So there you go!