Thoughts on Preferring Mature women

[GRITS]

Rule of Thumb---- always go out with women your own age.......then your skills are equal.........

[pantiesandbush]

Originally Posted by EriiErii

What's the issue. Just have some lube to hand. Tbh once the ladies accept lube as a thing they tend to not be able to go back

I'm not going to carry lube around at the beach

[Carrie K]

My husband says young women catch a guy's eye, but the test comes when she speaks... too many vapid enthusiasts coasting on their firm curves. Nice to have a coherent conversation.

[driftwood3791]

Originally Posted by pantiesandbush

The problem with some women 45+ can dry up. You can be SOL if you don't have some astroglide

My wife has had no vaginal lubrication her entire life. When we married in our early 20s, she was dry. Even if she orgasms (with the help of her Hitachi Magicwand), she produces no natural lubrication.

Out of necessity, I've had to learn all about lubes, vaginal suppositories (i.e. Replens), & numbing agents.

If a woman, regardless of age, is wiling to make love... the lubricatory work-arounds aren't as difficult as one might assume them to be.

~

[Carrie K]

Originally Posted by pantiesandbush

I'm not going to carry lube around at the beach

I'm picturing you on the beach with a tube of SPF 45+ ;

[lafemmeemily]

i recently turned (gasp!) 60. but people tell me i look 40. my mom always looked young for her age too. her mom enjoyed entertaining gentleman friends into her 90's.

i'm thankful for guys who appreciate mature women. we can still be sex goddesses.

emily

[jiinx81]

Benjamin Franklin said of older women in a 1745 essay "Advice to a Young Man on the Choice of a Mistress:"

They never tell, they seldom swell, and they're grateful as hell."

[ioutd]

There is no question that a mature woman has such allure. The bodies of young women are like works of art. Admirable, smooth, beautiful.

Mature women have beautiful bodies that are real. There is a confidence about a picture of a mature woman. Sometimes with the young ones, it seems like they are posing before they understand the ramifications.

And I just love it when (like me), guys over 50 are willing to share a glimpse of their wives and are really proud of them. Matures are the best! IMHO.

[arnoldziffel]

I've always been a fan. Whether it be friends of the family, neighbours or female teachers. I only wish, that in my youth, circumstances had been such that I could have encountered a willing mature female to explain the mystrries of a woman's body to me.

However; I wasn't so lucky. We are all aware of ssues such as E.D. in men. Likewise there are conditions affect a suitors chances of seducing an older female. Lest there be any younger men thinking the older gals are an easy mark, I would caution that there are many factors why you might not have the success you might think.

Here are a few negatives to consider:

- First and foremost mother nature is very often not kind to women's bodies (post natal depression, vaginal dryness, peri-menopause, menopause n.b. HRT frightens many) and with all due respect to previous conttibutors, lube is not always a solution.

- Secondly, older women you might be attracted to are often concerned about their reputations, are off the market & wear wedding rings that weigh heavily. Of course, if you find such women in bars or clubs they are probably fair game; you'll soon find out.

- Thirdly, women are almost all very body conscious. Not every woman has access to funds or wishes to risk corrective surgery. You try you charm them and they're thinking "this guy is so nice but he won't want to go further when he sees me naked"

On the other hand and again thinking of what some of you have posted above; mature ladies may not have been exposed - in their pre-internet sexual relationships, - to modern love making techniques. They may secretly long to experience the thrills they've seen other women have online or have heard younger women describe in coffee breaks after a passionate weekend. They know time is not on their side and younger men can play on that but should steer clear of any direct reference to that fact if they wish to retain functional testicles.

I certainly wouldn't put any younger man off trying their luck but if you do, make sure you have your banter & approach well thought out.

[shakinspire]

The first time you take a dignified old lady to bed, watching her and hearing her squeal like a sow when she's fingered or fucked is an indescribable pleasure.