Can you be more exposed at a nudist club?

[Shihoin]

Originally Posted by barnyb

The wifes and girlfriends do not like spreaders.

A lot of women, including even nudists, have a complicated relationship with their pussies. When they see a "spreader", they project their own insecurities about being completely exposed. "How can she just lay like that?" is really about how self-conscious they would feel if exposed in similar fashion themselves.
My wife has herself admitted that she's really enjoyed sunbathing (privately) with her legs dangling apart. So it's not that she's against spreading; it's just that she feels that she would be making a "spectacle of herself" if she did it continuously in front of other people, and especially while interacting with them. Which is why she feels our friend is "doing too much."

At least for my wife, there's also a tinge of jealousy involved. She's uninhibited enough; but when she sees spreaders, she feels that she's actually not THAT uninhibited.

Originally Posted by Nudebeachlover22

The exposure by itself is pretty much expected and going to happen. Why else would you be there?

On our third or fourth nudist trip, my wife reconciled herself to the fact that if she was going to be physically active at the resort, SOME exposure will just naturally occur. And she's fine with moments where her pussy is visible to others; as long as it's just "moments."
I would think that it would make nudism very boring and very stale to be so preoccupied with the pussy being visible that you're constantly aware of keeping your knees touching. At that point, just put on a bikini bottom and go to the regular beach...

[Zonk]

Interesting thread though I detect its more US oriented than European. As a young girl I spent much of my time on beaches in small bikinis, I was tall slim and flat chested and my hip bones left a bridge in my bikini bottoms. I first discovered naturism on a French beach in the 80s and enjoyed the idea of going naked. We joined a club and visited Nudist resorts quite a lot.

One year the resort had lots of builders working there and I couldn't help notice the builders staring at my "Fuzz" I mentioned it to my husband who said shave it off, then they won't have anything to stare at. By the next summer I was sporting shaved lips but I retained a patch so that when I loooked down I appeared well covered. By the middle of the first week I had been persuaded to shave off the rest leaving me totally bare, apart from feeling like becoming a naturist all over again, I felt so incredibly exposed showing flesh that had never seen the light of day before. I was persuaded to don a pair of high heels and paraded around the resort all day showing off my bald pussy. I was certainly noticed, attention was unbelievable, but people were friendly, they spoke, they made nice comments and I was reassured. I didn't see another shaved pussy! By the end of the holliday it felt quite normal.

Going to our club was another matter, the senior ladies were not amused, I was called all sorts of names however, the men clearly approved and some ladies seemed interested and said how brave they thought I was. I was also asked if I would pose for pictures but I refused. The first function was at a members house and I recall sitting down in a chair with my legs apart and my arms behind my head, I hadn't quite realised how provocative that must have been, I have never been asked to dance so much in my life.

I like to think I was one of the pioneers of the smooth pussy, once you have nothing left to hide behind, its all there for anyone to see. I enjoy going to naked functions and wearing very minimal or revealing clothes, but only in a nudist environment, though we often had functions at local Sports Centres and finished up in the bar totally naked. I like to travel wearing minimal clothing and have been known to reveal a little more than I should from time to time. At one function I met the owner of my local shop, he always treated me rather differently after that first encounter.

[Marquis De Shady]

Thank you Zonk. It's always nice to first hand experiences from actual women who have been through it.

My ex-wife was one of the first women to go bald at our resort. She was well aware of older women's negative feelings about it as being "scandalous." Her decision to go bald anyway was both a rejection of these "antiquated values" (she was in her 20's back then); but also a little "low-key" exhibitionism, as she knew very well how much she would stand out with a visible vulva. She went directly from hairy to bald; so there was no way people wouldn't notice the "change."

The "feedback" was actually fairly positive; especially from the men who appreciated the "visual." The other younger women seemed impressed by the lack of inhibition. We never heard anything from the "old guard"; so if they said anything, it must have been behind our backs.

Today, it seems the pendulum has completely swung the other way. At my resort today, the only pubes you're going to see is a small patch above the vulva. So women with full pubes are the ones now more likely to stand out. Whereas "back in the day" going bald was making a "statement", it is now "keeping the pubes" that is making a statement about non-conformity.
It's funny how things change.

[raysallx]

Originally Posted by Marquis De Shady

Thank you Zonk. It's always nice to first hand experiences from actual women who have been through it.

My ex-wife was one of the first women to go bald at our resort. She was well aware of older women's negative feelings about it as being "scandalous." Her decision to go bald anyway was both a rejection of these "antiquated values" (she was in her 20's back then); but also a little "low-key" exhibitionism, as she knew very well how much she would stand out with a visible vulva. She went directly from hairy to bald; so there was no way people wouldn't notice the "change."

The "feedback" was actually fairly positive; especially from the men who appreciated the "visual." The other younger women seemed impressed by the lack of inhibition. We never heard anything from the "old guard"; so if they said anything, it must have been behind our backs.

Today, it seems the pendulum has completely swung the other way. At my resort today, the only pubes you're going to see is a small patch above the vulva. So women with full pubes are the ones now more likely to stand out. Whereas "back in the day" going bald was making a "statement", it is now "keeping the pubes" that is making a statement about non-conformity.
It's funny how things change.

When I see a hairy woman at a resort or campground I give her my undivided attention. I guess we all crave something unique.

[sammy15]

I understand men and women are different and think differently, but men let it all hang out for everyone to see. Women mostly try to hide their genitals. I mean you're already nude at the nudist resort and everyone sees everything else, why try to hide them? My wife does this and it drives me nuts. See reclines with her knees tight together and never opens them. I try to tell her just relax and be comfortable, don't be uptight and if someone seeing her pussy, so what? The world will not end.

[mallynb]

My wife from many years ago was the same way. She would take her bottoms off and always sure to be all trimmed up. Some bush on top and shaved below, standing a clear view of her slit.

She would leave her bottoms off close to the lounge chair and getting in the ocean but walking up to the bar would put her bottoms on.

Her legs were always tightly together no pussy view at all. I told her they see your pretty face and beautiful tits give them a little more, she would just look at me.

After her falling asleep event and showing her pussy it all changed.

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She walk everywhere no bottoms, I told her look at the different women out here. The women not worrying about exposing their pussy a little are relaxed and really enjoying themselves.

She got to where she would open just to share, that was when it was great.

I loved it when she would share her pussy with other men, she loved it when she would catch them. She would just smile and they would smile back.

[MFN]

My wife is not an exhibitionist and so is very protective of her pussy, and while walking or sitting at nudist beaches and resorts keeps her legs together. Even when she lies down on a recliner or towel, her legs are together. But as soon as she falls asleep, her legs flop wide open, completely exposing every detail, that's just the way she sleeps.

[Shihoin]

Originally Posted by MFN

But as soon as she falls asleep, her legs flop wide open, completely exposing every detail, that's just the way she sleeps.

That's my wife too. She'll be laying out in the hot sun, her body relaxes completely; and invariably she will doze off. And her legs naturally open up.

One time, a resort friend walked up to us after she had fallen asleep. He said a few words, she woke up; and realized that her pussy was in full view - because he was looking right at it. Her reaction in those situations is usually "oh well"; as she figures it's too late to "get modest" anyway. So she'll just stay "as is." And it was kinda funny seeing him trying not to look too much at her exposed vulva
She now knows that she will probably fall asleep while lounging at the resort; so she will position herself facing away from the crowd. But she also knows that people walking around will probably see her exposed pussy; and she just writes it off as a "recreational hazard."

Falling asleep while naked will often result in open legs; especially when that's the way they naturally sleep