Keeping the missus happy

[Carrie K]

Originally Posted by rold63

I can give you a sample, since you ask so nicely ;
Sorry about the glare...

Wow!!! These are amazing! How many pictures does he have up?

I take it the bedroom door stays closed when you have company over[/QUOTE]

I don't have company upstairs typically.
The young electricians took a while installing a plug in my bedroom, but they came downstairs smiling.
There are a few pictures, mostly of me at the beach. C.

[rold63]

Originally Posted by Carrie K

Wow!!! These are amazing! How many pictures does he have up?

I take it the bedroom door stays closed when you have company over

I don't have company upstairs typically.
The young electricians took a while installing a plug in my bedroom, but they came downstairs smiling.
There are a few pictures, mostly of me at the beach. C.[/QUOTE]

Looks like you two have lots of fun at the beach.

Lucky electricians. Would love to see all of what the those electricians got to see

[pagefault]

I’m sure it sounds like nothing, but I always call her a good girl when we fuck.

I also like to send her texts, telling her what I want to do the next time we fuck, and I always end by praising and thanking her.

For example, today’s message ended with, “Thank you for being such a wonderful fuck toy. You are a pleasure to own, and I look forward to enjoying you this morning.”

When I’m planning something new or challenging, I really pile on the praise. It’s always sincere, and I’m sure she picks up on that. I am extremely grateful for her complete submission, her open mindedness, and for complete access to her body and mind, and I make sure she knows it.

I also regularly remind her of how many people have downloaded her pictures and videos, and thanked me, and commented, etc. I also share any tributes or messages with her. I always tell her when someone enjoys her.

[Marquis De Shady]

My wife and I are nudists; and I just consistently tell her how good she looks naked.

I also encourage her to sunbathe open-legged at the resort and how good her pussy looks when she's shaven bald. She'll often scoff at me but I can tell her she finds that comment arousing.
Other people appreciating seeing her completely naked at nudist venues helps her too.

We've taken nude pics at some of the nudist venues, and even though she won't let me frame them and put them on a wall, they're on my laptop and every time I open my laptop in front of her, she sees that her naked body still something I look at every day. And that makes her feel sexy.

[NoShoCo]

Originally Posted by Marquis De Shady

My wife and I are nudists; and I just consistently tell her how good she looks naked.

I also encourage her to sunbathe open-legged at the resort and how good her pussy looks when she's shaven bald. She'll often scoff at me but I can tell her she finds that comment arousing.
Other people appreciating seeing her completely naked at nudist venues helps her too.

We've taken nude pics at some of the nudist venues, and even though she won't let me frame them and put them on a wall, they're on my laptop and every time I open my laptop in front of her, she sees that her naked body still something I look at every day. And that makes her feel sexy.

Similar situation here. When we are nude at our local resort I tell her how great she looks. Our computer at our site at the resort is mounted to the wall behind the bar and we use our 4K tv as the monitor. The wallpaper is a changing set of us or her nude on various vacations (marble staircase on a cruise ship, nude beaches in the Caribbean, walking trails at a nudist resort, etc.)

[4cali]

Frequent yet genuine compliments. It’s really that simple.

[winston optic beer]

Originally Posted by Carrie K

Conversations on here have got me puzzled...

Some wives are happy and confident
Some are insecure or even frigid
What do guys do to build their wife's confidence and self image so they are comfortable sexual partners?

One thing my husband does is framed pics of me on our bedroom wall. It feels good knowing that I'm his poster girl. C.

My wife has always been super confident in her career and social life. Yet when I first met her, she was not quite so sure about herself as a woman. Men had pursued her and she'd been in one long term relationship, but no one had quite been able to draw out her sexy side.

She certainly wasn't frigid being a lover of nude beaches and naked sleeper. I am nothing special, but for some reason she started to change with me. Maybe having children helped. The first sign was our wedding photographer getting her to relax in front of a camera for the first time in her life. Nonetheless, she didn't pick up on his subtle hints of the possibility of her doing something more risque.

In the run up to the wedding, I spent time with a Chinese friend. He told me how wonderful my bride to be was. Then quite out of the blue, he said "I really want see her naked." Not sure if this was some sort of weird Chinese compliment or a serious request, I was lost for words.

The possibly of her stripping for him turned me on, but I didn't think there was a cat in hell's chance of her obliging him. Knowing her better now, I think she might have done it to please me if I'd really wanted her to. I wish I'd been braver, as it would have been an amazingly sexy thing for her to do to celebrate getting married. Much better than the threesome with a bi female workmate that she offered me on the actual day. I didn't take that up either.

to be continued later