Nude beach turn ons

[Marquis De Shady]

Originally Posted by TwoHappyCampers

All in all, it just reaffirmed our faith in the next generation. Not always an easy thing.

Great post, and a worthy reminder that nudism is not just about tits, ass and pussy. It's also about "feel good" moments, where we can witness humans being at their best; and be at our best as well.

For me it's been witnessing my wife being truly empathetic towards shy/scared newbies. Just seeing the look on their faces as my wife reassures them and makes them feel welcome and comfortable being naked is one of those moments where I'm proud of her - not because she's openly naked in front of people (which is a thing, don't get me wrong) - but because she's being a great person and an inspiration to others.

[Nakeywifesmiles]

A question for those who have been to nude beaches. Are you:

1. Casually hanging out, and just enjoying feeling free.

2. Pleasantly enjoying seeing naked women around you, but no big deal.

3. Carefully assessing naked women's bodies like pieces of meat. Staring closely at them under your sunglasses. Taking mental snap shots to "enjoy" later.

4. Either actively sneaking real photos, or desperately wishing you could take photos of the naked women around you.

My confession is that I think I tend to hover between 2 and 3, depending on my mood. Sometimes I find myself studying women's pussies and tits as carefully as I can, with heavy shades on. Frankly, I really enjoy it when they are with their hubbies too. Something about enjoying a man's completely naked wife right in front of him.

Where do you fall on the spectrum? Super curious to know what most men are thinking...as they lay their eyes on my naked wife for the first time. Feel free to explain in some detail how you are taking in the views around you in these situations.

Here's what they are seeing, by the way

[Pearoak]

Probably a 3

Originally Posted by Nakeywifesmiles

Feel free to explain in some detail how you are taking in the views around you in these situations.

I'm always drawn straight to the pussy first. Often there's not a lot of time but, if so, I'll look at everything else next with no particular preference, but always get drawn back.

Often I keep the mental image of the pussy and approximate body shape, but lose everything else.

Your wife is hot, she probably gets a lot of '4' men.

[Marquis De Shady]

Varying between 2 and 3.

Originally Posted by Pearoak

I'm always drawn straight to the pussy first.

For me it depends on what stands out the most - in my line of sight.

Sometimes it's tits.
Like one lady in St. Martin. She was middle-aged with had a small frame...and humongous tits. Totally real, yet quite firm considering the size. That was all I could see. And I couldn't look away. They were just THAT fascinating. Even my wife - who was by my side - understood my amazement and didn't give me shit for it.

Sometimes it's ass.
I remember once turning around while at the nude beach; and right behind me was a woman on all fours, ass facing me, straightening her towel. It was plump but firm, not a pimple or stretch mark or wrinkle. I had to look away pretty quickly because her SO was looking right at me. I did see her face later but I only remember that cute ass.

Of course sometimes it's also pussy.
I've seen many; and they don't always grab me. For example shaven innies (coinslots) are not much to look IMHO. But an exposed outie will always get my attention. I remember one particular young lady who was tanning wide open. She was an outie with full lips; not only that but her vulva was stretched open. My wife - who once again was by my side - understood my amazement; but that time she did give me shit for it lol!

And it can be the entire person too.
Sometimes everything is so well proportioned and attractive that I end up being "entranced." A bit like the picture above; I'd be looking at the "whole package", going back and forth equally over all the "parts." That one can also be a little trickier because the fact that she'd standing in front of me means she can probably see me looking eventually.

On a side note; yes I understand that guys can see my wife the same way. Some probably remember her for her ass, others for her nipples; and some for her shaven outie pussy. But then it's what also makes it fun.

[brunettesrule]

Originally Posted by Nakeywifesmiles

A question for those who have been to nude beaches. Are you:

1. Casually hanging out, and just enjoying feeling free.

2. Pleasantly enjoying seeing naked women around you, but no big deal.

3. Carefully assessing naked women's bodies like pieces of meat. Staring closely at them under your sunglasses. Taking mental snap shots to "enjoy" later.

4. Either actively sneaking real photos, or desperately wishing you could take photos of the naked women around you.

My confession is that I think I tend to hover between 2 and 3, depending on my mood. Sometimes I find myself studying women's pussies and tits as carefully as I can, with heavy shades on. Frankly, I really enjoy it when they are with their hubbies too. Something about enjoying a man's completely naked wife right in front of him.

Where do you fall on the spectrum? Super curious to know what most men are thinking...as they lay their eyes on my naked wife for the first time. Feel free to explain in some detail how you are taking in the views around you in these situations.

Here's what they are seeing, by the way

First of all, great pic. That is a beautiful woman and I love small breasts.

Second, we have been going to nude beaches forever. Even a week after our honeymoon we decided to visit a nudist club as kind of a dare. Awesome experience.

Anyway, I think initially, we went be immersed in the experience of being naked, but also being able to ogle others. The variety of bodies on certain beaches can be amazing. Over time, it's become more of #2 or #4. And when I say #4, I mean taking pictures of ourselves. Usually, we sit together behind everyone else so that we don't accidentally capture someone in our frame or give them the impression we are sneaking photos of others. In all these years, nobody has had a single problem with it. Anyway, below is an example of the hundreds of shots we have taken - this from around 2019:

[pball2295]

Originally Posted by Nakeywifesmiles

Here's what they are seeing, by the way

mmmm what a good girl. I always felt that deep down, MOST women enjoy being oggled at and slobbered over by men - naked or clothed. There's a reason women like to get dolled up and show off as much skin as they reasonably can. Judging by how your wife is standing, I'd guess that she gets wet down there when men like us appreciate her shaved pussy on the beach.

I'd have to say I'm a 4. It's rare that I do actually take pictures (feels risky on too many levels) ... but I def have, on rare occassions where it felt possible/safe/too good to turn down. At the very least, I always WISH i could.

The crazy one is when guys have cameras carefully set up, through holes in their bags or whatever. I would be curious to hear from any anon's who actively do that. What do you do with the pics and videos afterwards?

Ppl on this website are correct that it's no longer safe for beautiful women to be naked on most beaches (sadly). But the problem makes all the sense in the world.

Beautiful women like your wife ... clothed and respectable in her day to day life ... suddenly completely naked in front of dozens of people. Men are visual creatures (as evidenced by this site and others). There's an inherent voyueristic desire to capture her in that moment forever.

Even as a 8 year old, I remember being turned on by song "there's a place in France where the naked ladies dance, there's a hole in the wall where the men can see it all."

Tell me what beach you go to...I'll make your wife the websl** she's always wanted to be deep down!

[medman888]

I hover between 2 and 3 also, but...

What is usually the biggest turn on for me is the fact that I'M naked.

[Hornyinde]

Originally Posted by Nakeywifesmiles

A question for those who have been to nude beaches. Are you:

1. Casually hanging out, and just enjoying feeling free.

2. Pleasantly enjoying seeing naked women around you, but no big deal.

3. Carefully assessing naked women's bodies like pieces of meat. Staring closely at them under your sunglasses. Taking mental snap shots to "enjoy" later.

4. Either actively sneaking real photos, or desperately wishing you could take photos of the naked women around you.

Where do you fall on the spectrum?

I also bounce from 2 to 3 depending on how I’m feeling, and the day. However, I am one you didn’t list:

5. Enjoy seeing my wife nude and exposed. Seeing her totally naked in public is a turn-on. Especially watching other men enjoying her as she walks alone or is just laying on her towel. Seeing men having the thoughts about her that I have about their wives is exciting.

[Windsorm]

I’m

6. Desperately wishing my wife would agree to go to a nude beach so I can watch her showing her body to the men there.

[Nakeywifesmiles]

Fair point Horny and Windsorm. I should have included “getting your own wife naked” as an option. Especially on this site!

That said, tbh, I think posed the question bc im interested to know how men are actually looking at my (and your) wife.

People often think that the beauty of the nude beach is that “no one cares, we’re all just naked and free.”

I tend to think it’s more like, “most men are carefully studying naked women, carefully taking mental snapshots, possibly real snapshots.”

In other words, what % of men are there to carefully assess naked women, and what percentage are just there to feel free and casual.