How much do you trust other men and your wife

[Bentz]

Even though we’re much older now, I can’t say I’m trusting of my wife with other men. After we were married I considered myself to be a cool, non jealous husband. She used to ride a mini bike when she was younger, so when she asked if it would be ok to take a ride on the back of her friends motorcycle, I said I didn’t mind.
She took several rides with him and her arrival back home would get later and later. I did suspect something at the time but never knew for sure. I really never considered myself naive or dumb.

But years later I found out she was fucking a guy, she was doing business with, on a regular basis. He was wealthy and I guess he had a big cock. That’s over now but under the right circumstances, I can see her doing again. Any time men and women are together it’s a good possibility they will end upon bed.

[shower1000]

Originally Posted by Shihoin

Ironically, I trust nudist men at our resort more than I trust men out in the "real world."

My wife, Julie, and I have lived as committed nudists all of our lives. At home we are always nude, even when welcoming visiting friends. These visitors include couples and single females or males. We have always remained nude when friends arrived, even those times when one of us is away. Over the years we have each delighted recieving friends while nude many times. As usual, our visiting friends are always welcome to join us and enjoy being nude during their stay.

There was a brief time, after ten years married that Julie, in her 30s and early 40s, "tested the waters" and experienced several lovers. Since about her 45th year, with that itch out of her system, I have absolutely trusted her to behave properly when she is alone with other men, even when both are nude. Over the years Julie, while alone and nude, has recieved and socialized with single male visitors many times.

We spend most of our summers at our vacation mobile home at Laguna del Sol nudist resort in Sacramento. There we remain nude for weeks at a time, even for dining at the resteraunt and the weekend dances. We often attend the dances with other nude couples and switch partners during the dances. Being nude for the slow dances is very stimulating and at times results in visible arousal ( emerging spontaneous erection ). Being friends we ignore these types of erections knowing they quickly subside after stimulation removal.

During a planned month long stay, I was called away for four days to deal with a real estate issue. While I was away several of our nudist friends dropped by to visit. The visitors were usually couples but there were also single females or males. They shared drinks and conversation, played cards or board games, or went as a nude group to the pool or resteraunt. Although the temptation was there, especially when visited by the single males, Julie, never did anything that would jeapordize the stability of our marriage.

As an example, I once returned to the mobile home from visiting "textile land" to find Julie and our friend, Ernie, doing what nudists in private like to do most: Sharing drinks and playing scrabble. Yes, they were both nude. Ernie was an attractive, slightly younger, muscular man with a slightly larger than average penis, just Julie's type. I trusted her, but a discrete visual check indicated her shaved pussy labia were dry and Ernie's penis was flaccid. If anything sexual had recently happened her "wet" labia would have gaped open slightly when she opened her legs to get up to give me a greeting hug. That "Trust but Verify" sight strongly reinforced my confidence in her. Contended, I went to the back room, ditched my clothes and returned to make a drink and kibbitz their scrabble game. It may seem that I'm always doing a visual check, but I just really enjoy admiring Julie's beautiful pussy.

Over the years at home and at camp, Julie has recieved visiting friends many times. Several of these visitors have been single males, all of which have accepted her permission to be nude during their visit. In all the time that we have each enjoyed recieving nude visitors we have never considered engaged them in sexual activity.

[Menorca]

It was back when we were in our twenties and our relationship was far from open. We went to Sweden with two other couples for a three-week vacation.

It was an old but incredibly cozy house. Our friends' bedroom was right next to the bathroom, and we always had to go through their room to shower or freshen up.

The doors were old, heavy, and still had the old, large keyholes that were perfect for spying. One day, my wife was taking a shower again — there was only one drain, but no shower curtain—completely naked, of course.

When I entered our friends' bedroom, I caught my boyfriend looking through the keyhole and masturbating. I confronted him, but I didn't mind, since I was always trying to see his girlfriend naked myself.

That evening, I told my wife that she was his masturbation material. She blushed, looked embarrassed, but then said, "I can't change it now."

She confronted him about it the next day. He turned bright red and apologized. I asked my friend to get naked in front of my wife as well. Tit for tat. He was embarrassed, and when he was finally naked, he had an erection.

My wife laughed, she looked at his beautiful, stiff penis and said, "You masturbated to me, now I want to see you do it."

He hesitated a bit, but then he did. To entice him, my wife also undressed and showed him her legs wide open. I saw how wet she was. Horny!

Then his girlfriend entered the room, looked skeptical at first, but then laughed and watched her boyfriend, undressed as well, and masturbated together with him.

Of course, I did the same. That evening, during sex, I asked my wife if she wanted to sleep with him. I would allow it.
But she refused, saying it was a nice experience, but she didn't want anything more...

Years later, I asked her if she hadn't had sex with him after all. She just smiled and said, "I masturbated with him again several times, and he brought me and I brought him to orgasm, but it didn't lead to 'real' sex."

That's a shame, really, because I ended up having sex with my boyfriend's girlfriend more often later on... Yes, he knows it.