Can you be more exposed at a nudist club?

[Marquis De Shady]

Originally Posted by Nudebeachlover22

I tend to believe this choice of what to display is well thought out by each woman and fully dependent on their comfort level in that moment.

Agreed.
It's a spectrum. On one end of it, some nudist women choose to "keep it private" and keep their legs closed/ankles crossed while sunbathing (like the first pic). On the other end, some want to achieve a "seamless tan" by spreading out; and decide to proudly/confidently ignore how "exposed" they happen to be in the process (like the last pic).
I've found that most nudist women at my resort are actually somewhere in the middle; in varying degrees based on comfort level.

And they are well aware (unless they happen to be asleep) of the choice they've made. My wife has talked about feeling the breeze and sun hitting her vulva (and sweat tickling her clit) when she's sunbathing legs open; so there's no doubt that there are sensations involved in being exposed that are undeniable.

My wife will tend to pick and choose how exposed she is depending on who is around. Normally, she will be reclining in a position that approximates the second pic. But if there are few people around she'll get more comfortable, as in the third pic. If someone walks by and starts talking to us; if she knows them she'll often choose to just stay as is. If not she'll adjust so that her exposed pussy is not right in front of their faces. In short, like most of the women at my resort, it's a conscious decision based on their comfort level at that time, in that particular situation. We also know completely uninhibited women that just don't care; although they are not "the norm."

[Nudebeachlover22]

Great job illustrating the 4 general groups, Marquis. I completely agree.

I would say group 2 tends to be the largest and is marked by a natural but proper seating position which generally exposes 20-60% of the upper portion of the vulva with the remainder obscured between the thighs.

Some are uncomfortable with that level of exposure on that particular day or with that group of people and so move themselves into group 1. You found the perfect example image. Another common one is legs straight out, knees together, ankles crossed. Result is 0-20% exposure. When a woman sits like this all day, it’s patently obvious she doesn’t want to be “seen.”

Group three is fully relaxed as you have shown, 100% exposure or perhaps moving between 80 and 100 all day. However, even this group can still be hyper aware of their exposure — example the sunbathers. Some will very meticulously arrange themselves to ensure 100% body exposure to the sun but then constantly check and adjust themselves to ensure they remain legs open but lips closed.

The final group is the smallest but obviously making a statement. Either to themselves or to the group. Some will find a quiet corner to lay like that while others will pick a very prominent spot and even keep their eyes open and try to see who’s looking

[Marquis De Shady]

Originally Posted by Nudebeachlover22

The final group is the smallest but obviously making a statement. Either to themselves or to the group.

The fourth category is often pegged as exhibitionism; although I've found this to actually rarely be the case - especially at resorts/clubs.

Sometimes it's philosophical. Some women believe that there should be no "double standard" between men and women. Men's genitals are openly visible; and if they can lounge with legs open, women should be able to do the same. And if someone is "hot/bothered" by it, they see it more as a "failure" on their part; and will choose to exercise their "right to be uninhibited" - and not hide.
We have a friend who is in that category; and I have to admit it can be hard to have a conversation with her when she's very purposefully choosing to keep her legs open the entire time!

Sometimes it's to demonstrate confidence. On her second resort trip, my wife was laying next to a woman who was tanning with her legs open; and she decided to follow suite. It was more because she was trying to prove to herself - and others - that she could also be uninhibited. But it didn't stick because it didn't feel natural to her. I've seen newbies do the same; and you can usually tell it's "not for them" as their eyes are constantly darting around to see who might be looking.

And then sometimes it's just vanity. Some women have manicured pussies and want to make sure everyone knows! That comes pretty close to exhibitionism; but not in the sense that they're aroused by it.

Anyway, that's been my observations!

[Nudebeachlover22]

As we continue though summer in the Northern Hemisphere, I’m looking forward to more stories of exposure at the Nudist resorts. Here is one that is not a singular specific instance, but more of a general observation from multiple trips.

When spending the week at a textile resort, it’s not uncommon to come into contact with a middle aged woman with large full perky breasts barely contained by her bikini top, and a flat as a board abdomen. After talking to her, one might find out that she has 3 teenage or young adult children. At times, this might generate a bit of jealously from my wife who wonders how the heck that woman can look like that at her age and after having kids. Or other times, that type of woman has a major attitude and can’t be bothered to converse with the normal folk.

Contrast that to the nudist resort. Same type of woman, but this time because she is nude there is the obvious hip to hip scar from her tummy tuck. The vertical scar under her nipples from the breast lift. The circular scar around her nipples explaining her perfectly circular areola with unusually small diameter for her large breasts. And when she raises her arms over her head, the telltale bulge of an implant on her side.

The above woman is hiding nothing. Unpretentious, usually very friendly, and everyone knows why her body looks the way that it does. And the reaction from my wife is completely different: nothing more than a smirk and a shrug and a comment that if she wanted to spend $30k she would look like that too!

[Marquis De Shady]

For many women (but certainly not all), nakedness will function as a "reality-check"; especially for women with high opinions on their looks. No bikini bottom to hide their cellulite, c-section or tummy-tuck scars; no bikini top to hide their breast implant scars or sagging boobs. Especially since women tend to compare their bodies to others'; it can be a sobering experience. There are going to be women there whose breasts are naturally perkier/fuller, whose asses have little cellulite, etc... And they find themselves a bit humbled.

With this "reality-check" often comes a shift in attitude; and a more "chill" disposition (assuming they don't entirely hate it and stick with it). We've met several nudist women over the years that were clearly "modified"; but just as friendly and relatable as anyone else.

[Nudebeachlover22]

Checking back in on this thread and thought I’d add another exposure story. OCC seems to have a few forum members who participate in social nudity and it’s fun to swap stories and also give the other folks a taste of something they may never have the opportunity to experience in real life.

During one visit to the resort, we met a mid-30s couple which tends to be on the younger end for these type of environments. Stephanie the wife was relatively attractive, slender with long brown, straight hair. Her breasts were medium sized, maybe a B cup, perky with the obvious scars of a breast lift, but also clearly no implants. Her abdomen was trim and fit, no signs of any prior pregnancies and also no scars from a tummy tuck.

Continuing to look farther down, Stephanie was completely shaved as 95% of the nudist women at these places tend to be. While her vulva was within what most would call “normal” it had some remarkable aspects. First, its positioning was relatively high, meaning while standing, nearly all of it was facing forward with hardly any of it facing down towards the ground. (The variety of higher vs lower positioning could be an entirely separate topic or thread on its own and I won’t further describe. If you’ve stood in front of many nude women, you know what I’m talking about) Secondly, she had a rather pronounced “outie”. Not of the long dangly variety, more of an overflowing taco look for the entire length of her mostly forward facing slit.

After being around Stephanie for a few days, it was apparent she was very comfortable with her body and participating in a social nudity setting. She didn’t appear to be at all concerned about her modesty or covering up at all. One day, I walked by a group of 4-5 women sitting down around the pool chatting, including Stephanie and my wife. Stephanie was sitting Indian style / cross legged which had the effect of her legs being open with everything on display. My wife asked me to stop and say hi and shortly thereafter the conversation shifted to anatomy and exposure. Stephanie quickly mentioned that she would prefer to have an innie like some of the other women, but that she came to fully accept her body and no longer cares at all about anyone seeing everything that she has. And to put an exclamation point on it, she shifted to her side/hip and lifted up her butt cheek to spread herself apart and show everyone any remaining portion of her ass and lower vulva that had not yet been seen. Spoiler alert, everyone had probably seen it already, but now she was deliberately spreading herself open

At this point, I became hyper aware that I was standing in the middle of a group of nude women, my dick at their eye level and the conversation was shifting to areas that would start to have physical effect on my body. At that point, the best thing I could think to do was to bend down and give my wife a quick kiss and tell her I was going to get back in the pool

[Shihoin]

Originally Posted by Nudebeachlover22

And to put an exclamation point on it, she shifted to her side/hip and lifted up her butt cheek to spread herself apart and show everyone any remaining portion of her ass and lower vulva that had not yet been seen. Spoiler alert, everyone had probably seen it already, but now she was deliberately spreading herself open.

"Hands-on" exposure. Most commonly seen when applying sunscreen; but occasionally used to be "playful" or demonstrate confidence.

I've mentioned a nudist friend of ours who is a high contender for "most uninhibited" at our resort. She almost always sunbathes and sits open-legged; and does not "adjust" when someone stops by to chat. I've had entire conversations with her, with her pussy fully exposed and staring at me the entire time. I'm a gentleman; so I try to keep eye-contact. And I often fail; which is ok because she doesn't seem to care. I've seen her pussy in such detail (for example the fact that she has a mole on her left labia) that I'm almost as familiar with its appearance than I am with my own wife's. Which is wild.
My wife actually has mixed feelings about her. She enjoys her company and friendship; but will complain to me about her pussy being "in her face" when they interact. I think she's just low-key jealous of how open and free with her body our friend is.

Coincidentally, she is also a "high outie." Even from a standing position, her labia is clearly visible. It is possible that with her knowing that her labia is going to be visible anyway, she's decided to just "not care" (anecdotally, my wife is a "low outie", and her legs have to be open or she has to be bent over for her labia to be visible).

The "anecdote." We were a few acquaintances and friends hanging out in the pool. She was walking back from the pic-nic area. Our resort has two shower areas; one inside the clubhouse, the other outside right by the pool. She chose to shower in front of everyone by the pool. One of our friends, a "naughty" gentleman, told her to "not forget to lather all her bits too!" She then turns around to face us; and with a "devilish grin" and open legs, proceeds to slide her soapy fingers between her pussy lips, parting them open in the process. Laughter (and blushing) ensues; and her husband who is in the pool with us is grinning. I then look at my wife, who gives me an eye-roll.

My theory on this "hands-on exposure" is that she responded to the "naughty friend" putting her on the spot about her "bits" - by showing him up. Effectively proving that he failed at making her feel self-conscious. Giving him the middle-finger with her pussy; so to speak. But all in good fun.

[barnyb]

I have had the opportunity to be in many social environments with naked woman - beach, club, dinners, etc. There are many types of woman, but I always enjoy the spreaders.

These woman generally know you. They will test you by spreading, usually casually at first, as though " I am a nudist so it is fine to have the pussy on display". Of course they will pretend that they are hippie or just being nude and cool. But they are seeking admiration in a sexy way.

Of course this puts you in a vunerable position as you are naked and subject to growing. The trick is to just treat their behaviour as normal and do not react to their exhibitisim. That will encourage them to continue. If you make a point of it they will see you as creepy. If you accept it as normal they will try harder to stir a reaction. They want to know if they are sexy. (of course there is nothing sexier than seeing your girlfriends hot friend fully spread just for you)

The best woman are the young ones as they have grown up with full leg spreads on the internet all their lives. They see this as sexy behaviour. And as they are young they are more keen on receiving social and sexual attraction. They will often claim to be nudists but prove by their actions that they are on an exhibitionist trip. These ladies will often talk about their nudity, their pussies or discuss shaving or laser treatment.

When they have done this to you once or twice it then comes standard operating procedure. Normally the first day at the beach for example is quiet, with a few stray spreads. Once they have done the full spread to you like the guy mentioned in the story above, they then justify to themselves that spreading is fine. Day 2 or 3 is much better.

The wifes and girlfriends do not like spreaders.