Something your wife/gf is self conscious about

[Martin221]

Originally Posted by Marquis De Shady

Ironically, my wife had the opposite problem.

For a long time she was all about keeping her pubic hair because "shaven is not how grown women look", "I don't follow trends", "it's too much work", etc... In spite of the fact that most of her friends - that she's seen nude - are either shaven or landing stripped (she's actually told me who is one or the other.)

During the course of our growing social nudism, she started finding herself the only woman in our social group with pubes. Her self-consciousness about it grew. She started feeling like these other women were more "esthetic" than her. She started trimming at first; but it looked patchy, which made her even more self-conscious.
She eventually "caved" and decided it was better to just shave it all off and blend in with everyone else. To this day she shaves bald before attending any nudist event.

It could just be a generational or environmental thing. Women in our region and in her age range tend to all be shaven or landing stripped.

This was the same for my wife. Already in 2016, I posted in this topic she sometimes felt self-conscious about having a full bush even though I was the only one who saw it. Over the years, she cared less about it until the moment that she went back to the gym after the pandemic and would go together with friends. They would see each other in the changing rooms and she was the only one with a full bush. Most of the other ladies were bare and a few kept a landing strip. She liked the clean look of the other ladies and started to think about shaving. Ultimately, it took a couple of months before she made the decision, but early last year she decided to shave. She went immediately from full bush to bare, and was happy with it and has kept it bare ever since.

While her friends were never negative about her full bush, they told her shaved looked really good on her. My wife intially said that she wanted to keep it bare at least the whole summer (of 2024), but she still continues to shave and told me she's happy with it and has no plans to grow out a full bush again. Even though she knows I used to like it, she feels better without the hair. She has recently been looking into laser hair removal, initially for her legs and underarms only. However, if she goes for the package deal including the pubic area, it's only a few hundred euros more expensive and she thinks it's a good deal. I don't like the idea that it's permanent and that she won't be able to grow out a full bush again, but she told me that she anyhow doesn't want to grow out a full bush again and that she wouldn't mind if she never would be able to grow out a bush again. And she says it's more convenient if she can ditch the razor completely by having laser hair removal for all areas she currently shaves frequently.

[Sam7242]

Originally Posted by PeterHuds

Same with my wife. She has very large areolas, the type that cover all of the end of her boobs if that makes sense. Never actually measured - that would only add to her being self conscious - but I’m guessing prolly 4 inch diameter. I love them btw.

Wow man. WTAF that’s real big! My gf has tiny ones, like 1 inch (I measured after reading your post and 4 inches must be like a fkn dinner plate!). LOL

NEED PHOTOS. LOL

[1michael]

I would have to say and I'm sure many of our neighbors and friends would say the same, that my wife is self conscious about having smaller Breast / boobs / tits / or anything else you wanna call them!
I might have to take some of the responsibility for that cause all of my former girlfriends all have lots of Busty beauty and my wife knows all or most of them!
Besides that my wife's mom has that Busty feature along with our daughter, so it might have skipped a generation in the family?
Since we changed to the more Spicy lifestyle, my wife and I gets to see more of our neighborly wife's along with her cousin and my sister - all that are well Blessed on Top with everything!
My wife has been talking about having some Breast enhancement done and talked with others that had it done!
But in the back of her head she is always worried about having a bad job done or scars!
Going to a few Doctor places with her, I got to see plenty of pics of their Patients that had it done with the Before and After pics! Wow, I'm amazed these women are so willing to pose for Doctors with those boobs exposed!
But anytime there is something the women worry about, they'll make up for it and get your attention going to something else!
My wife did that when we first got together, she did oral on my cock then stopped to tell me I could CUM in her mouth and she'll swallow it! None of my busty GF's did that, but having my cock between those huge tits was always thrilling for me!
I'm sure more women have the same issue with their tits too!

[bushman1]

Originally Posted by Sam7242

Wow man. WTAF that’s real big! My gf has tiny ones, like 1 inch (I measured after reading your post and 4 inches must be like a fkn dinner plate!). LOL

NEED PHOTOS. LOL

Photos are needed for both women !

[Pearoak]

Originally Posted by Sam7242

Wow man. WTAF that’s real big! My gf has tiny ones, like 1 inch (I measured after reading your post and 4 inches must be like a fkn dinner plate!). LOL

NEED PHOTOS. LOL

Originally Posted by bushman1

Photos are needed for both women !

And more areola measurements. I'll be getting my ruler out at the weekend. Estimating 2.5 - 3 inches.

[mallynb]

Originally Posted by PeterHuds

Same with my wife. She has very large areolas, the type that cover all of the end of her boobs if that makes sense. Never actually measured - that would only add to her being self conscious - but I’m guessing prolly 4 inch diameter. I love them btw.

Your wife’s tits sound wonderful with huge areola’s and natural hanging breasts

Please share!

[Gnome72141]

Originally Posted by thorne_uk

My wife has always been self conscious about her breasts , she was an early developer so got a lot of attention from boys and a lot bullying from jealous girls.

Same with my wife! Full C cup VERY young (and she was skinny, too, making it even more super prominent), and the bullying she received from jealous girls was horrific, so she learned to hate them. Her ultra-conservative mom wouldn't buy her a bra, either, as her mother thought wearing bras under the age of 16 was too sexual. (WTF?????) She is a full D now, but as a middle-aged woman, it doesn't stand out as much, of course.

It didn't help that her partners before me couldn't have cared less about boobs, so she continued to hate them into her 20s.

Then she met me. She quickly learned to love and embrace her breasts. She loved going braless and watching people (men and women) stare back at her when her nipples poked out.

And even now, she loves smothering my face in her breasts any chance we get; I often have to stop her because she will try to smother my face everywhere! She also loves to flash me constantly, like I often have to pull her shirt down because she tries to sneak in flashes where she could get into lots of trouble!

We can't go back in time and help her love her breasts decades ago, but better late than never!

[Pearoak]

Originally Posted by Pearoak

And more areola measurements. I'll be getting my ruler out at the weekend. Estimating 2.5 - 3 inches.

Yep, she let me measure when totally relaxed, just short of 3 inches. Not something she's self conscious of at all, she seems proud that they are on the large side.
I also had a go at sucking to see how small they would go, got them down to 1.25 inches :-).
Normally they're somewhere in between and (short of sucking) it's not always obvious when she's erect, which I imagine is a source of worry for some.