Wife's self esteem

[JustMe77]

My wife has been struggling with her self eteen as she ages. I keep telling her she's getting sexier as she ages, but she just writes that off because of the fact I love her. I tried telling her other men would find her erotic and sexy. Even younger men, which is a bit of a fetish for her.

Maybe if I honestly describe her here, some people can back me up, and maybe even say what they'd do to her.

She's hit "mature woman" age of 48 years old. She has extra weight on her. She's a true BBW. Her skin is milky white so soft. She has a soft belly and huge ass. Her ass cheeks bounce up and down as she walks. She has big, suckable tits. She's a brunette with a very hairy pussy. I love running my fingers through it. When we fool around in the dark, her pubic hair is so thick it looks like she's wearing black panties.

She has recently expressed interest in having an extra-marital affair, with my blessing. She has a friend she's very attracted to, and he's definitely into her.

I'm not at a point where I'm comfortable showing pictures, but based on the description, what do you guys think of her? Anything you can tell her to get her feeling better about herself?

[naturistwineboy]

Have you gone to a clothing optional resort? Once she sees that she's probably perfectly normal, things may change.

[shaveyourpubes]

Originally Posted by naturistwineboy

Have you gone to a clothing optional resort? Once she sees that she's probably perfectly normal, things may change.

Yeah I would shave off her pubic hair and go to a nudist resort. That will defiantly help her confidence

[winston optic beer]

I can only speak of my experience with my own wife. For her, I think weight has a lot to do with her self esteem. She tries to blame everything on ageing, but the true culprit is those extra pounds. Lose them and she enjoys nice clothes again, which in turn boosts her confidence. Without that confidence, she dresses to cover up rather than show off.

On my birthday during Covid lockdown when she was at her heaviest, we went for a walk along a deserted beach. With no one else around to see her, she followed my lead and stripped off to sunbathe nude for the first time in years. She had said that her nude beach days were behind her. In that exposed state she opened up emotionally. She told me that it was important for her to have me tell her that she is sexy and beautiful.

The problem with that is, when she's not feeling good about herself, she won't accept the compliment. It's hard to break out of that cycle, but don't stop trying. Maybe, rejecting your compliments initially is a way testing how sincere they are. You need to be more creative in finding ways to get through to her.

My first relationship failed because I didn't work hard enough at convincing my girlfriend that I really loved her. She sought that reassurance from other men. You are fortunate that your wife is honest enough to give you advance warning that she's thinking along these lines. That gives you the opportunity to put it right before she strays. Don't give her permission - that would tell her you don't care.

You'll be amazed what your wife can do if she feels good about herself. When my wife was 48 like yours, she posed nude for body positivity after cancer. She was thrilled that the photographer had made her look beautiful and showed the pictures to everyone she knew. In an interview about it afterwards, she said taking off all her clothes in the studio at her age had been very good for her confidence.

[mossycleft]

Sounds very sexy to me and reminds me a bit of my wife. She’s curvy with a dark, hairy bush that I love to run my fingers through.

Your wife would probably be surprised how many guys would go crazy over her, especially her hairy pussy.

[LTPGeorge]

Hard to judge. I had a girlfriend as a teen who looked exactly like you described and she was gorgeous. Guys constantly hit on her (eventually she ditched me because of it). 48 isn't old. How tall, what weight? I wouldn't encourage her to look for self esteem with others. Make sure she's getting that from you before she plays with others.

[kajuk]

A few years ago someone posted a thread like this. Someone suggested posting pics of his wife, and did. The good responses she got put her into a better mood and loved all the positive attention.

[JustMe77]

Originally Posted by LTPGeorge

Hard to judge. I had a girlfriend as a teen who looked exactly like you described and she was gorgeous. Guys constantly hit on her (eventually she ditched me because of it). 48 isn't old. How tall, what weight? I wouldn't encourage her to look for self esteem with others. Make sure she's getting that from you before she plays with others.

I let her know how gorgeous she is all the time. She's incredible, and I still get aroused just thinking about her. I know other men look at her, but I don't think she believed it. I understand self esteem issues too, though. She has admitted having multiple men interested in her is a turn on, and I assume this would help her self esteem. I don't know if anything has ever happened between them, and it's not a big deal if it has.

[JustMe77]

Originally Posted by mossycleft

Sounds very sexy to me and reminds me a bit of my wife. She’s curvy with a dark, hairy bush that I love to run my fingers through.

Your wife would probably be surprised how many guys would go crazy over her, especially her hairy pussy.

I'd love to see someone bury their face in her hairy pussy. Once you get through all that fur, she's delicious. She's so erotic.

[mossycleft]

Originally Posted by JustMe77

I'd love to see someone bury their face in her hairy pussy. Once you get through all that fur, she's delicious. She's so erotic.

Eating my wife’s hairy pussy is by far and away one of my favorite things in life. She’s 44 now and has had a full bush for nearly 25 years because she knows I love her pussy when it’s as hairy as it can be. Nuzzling through all those curls to get to the pink is one of the best parts!

My wife has similar self esteem issues. I have sexy nude pics of her when she was younger and I want more now because I still find her sexy. But she thinks she looked so much better when she was younger, and now doesn’t want to show off her body. I think if she knew what other men really thought of her sexy, curvy, hairy body, I’m sure she’d feel a lot better about herself.

We have a couple vacations planned soon and I’m hoping she’ll loosen up and let me take a few pics of her big boobs and big bush. And maybe she’ll let me share them on the vacation pics thread, one can dream, lol!