How many guys have boned your wife?

[Naturelles1]

Which is most important?
The number of different men who have fucked her?
Or the number of times she has been fucked before you?

[wownice]

Originally Posted by Naturelles1

Which is most important?
The number of different men who have fucked her?
Or the number of times she has been fucked before you?

Hey Naturelles1, that's a great question. For me, I think the number of times she's been fucked is more important than number of different men. I'd be interested in how the sex sessions develop and change the more times she has sex with the same person.

Just as a side note...In normal circles, this idea would repulse other men (their wife having sex with another) but here, just us boys, we consider it a turn on. I wonder if they are the majority or are we (including those that will never admit it, even to themselves)?

[shower1000]

Originally Posted by Naturelles1

Which is most important?
The number of different men who have fucked her?
Or the number of times she has been fucked before you?

Kind of on the same line of thinking. One summer, over a 2 month period, my wife attended weekend sex parties hosted by her sister and her friend. Almost every Friday and Saturday night. Each party was 3 men and the 3 women. At each party all 3 men fucked all 3 women, though they each only came in one woman at each party.

Here are the numbers:

Pumped: 42 times ( penis inserted and pumped but didn't necessarily cum )
men: 21 different men
Full fuck: 14 ( cum inside her )
Men Cum: 8 men came inside her

Can't come up with an actual "pumped" count because sometimes they had 2 or 3 insert and pump games at each party with all 3 men dipping in. So the pump count is probably closer to 100.

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[Hornyinde]

Originally Posted by Naturelles1

Which is most important?
The number of different men who have fucked her?
Or the number of times she has been fucked before you?

Really a great question. I had written earlier in this thread about the number and how I found it was more than she told me. I found paperwork for a new OB/GYN and there was a question about sexually active and number of partners you’ve had. The number she wrote was 3 more than she told me. The number wasn’t crazy high, only 8.

But it does interest me the total number. She says she can’t remember. Just gives me a round number. Odd from a girl that put a mark in her calendar each time we fucked when dating.

Originally Posted by Naturelles1

But the biggest surprise was my longtime best friend who she confessed that she had fucked regularly over the six months period leading up to our marriage.
That truly added insult to injury because not only was he the horniest guy I knew, and who loved to tell me about all the women he had fucked, but from showering with him at times at the gym, I knew that he had the biggest dick I had ever seen.

I can relate. She had fucked a friend of mine when we had broken up for year. He was quite a bit bigger, I had seen him naked before. He never told me he had fucked her. Each time we have seen him socially later, when they hugged hello and goodbye, they had a secret I was clueless about.

Hey, we weren’t dating at the time so she can fuck who she wants. I wish it wasn’t him, and I wish one had told me later. To be honest, my anger was small compared to how much it turns me on.

Originally Posted by wownice

Just as a side note...In normal circles, this idea would repulse other men (their wife having sex with another) but here, just us boys, we consider it a turn on. I wonder if they are the majority or are we (including those that will never admit it, even to themselves)?

[Windsorm]

Originally Posted by wownice

Just as a side note...In normal circles, this idea would repulse other men (their wife having sex with another) but here, just us boys, we consider it a turn on. I wonder if they are the majority or are we (including those that will never admit it, even to themselves)?

It’s my biggest fantasy. However, it wasn’t for the first five decades of my life. For most of that time, the thought would have made me insanely jealous. It still would today if I thought it was happening behind my back.

So in the modern jargon, I’ve gone on a journey to get here. More generally, isn’t sexuality like that? We can learn to be turned on by new things as we discover more?

[Naturelles1]

In my case, we weren't broken up when she was fucking him. Rather we had been going together, I thought exclusively, for two years and were living together and were about to get married, which we did.
When she finally admitted years later that she had fucked him, she said that I was out of town one day when he came by my duplex where we were living, to see me. When she told me that I was out of town, he sat down and they started talking.

She said the conversation turned to sex and he told her that he wanted to fuck her. She said that she could see a large erection in his pants and she remembered how I had told her that he had the biggest cock I had ever seen.
At that moment she said she knew she had to see for herself.

After a few minutes she said that he got up and walked over to where she was sitting and leaned down and kissed her hard. One thing led to another and before long she was looking at the biggest cock she had ever seen.
She said that she couldn't resist seeing how it felt inside her and had only planned on fucking him once. But she confessed that he was so good that she ended up fucking him for the next six months until right before we got married.

We socialized a lot together with him and his wife after we got married and I never imagined that my best friend had fucked my then girlfriend dozens of times while we were engaged to be married.

[MFN]

Originally Posted by Naturelles1

... she confessed that he was so good that she ended up fucking him for the next six months until right before we got married.

My wife was also fucking several others right up until we got engaged, but it was something she didn't have to "confess".
'Confess' sorta implies Guilt, and that wasn't the case with her. She was happy with what she was doing, and made no secret of it, she just let me know up front she was fucking others: who, when, where, etc.

And not just if the guy had a big dick. She fucked each new guy she dated, because (1) she needed to check him out sexually before wasting time on him, and (2) she enjoyed fucking.

If she hadn't been fucking others, then then she wouldn't be in this thread. If you need a Number, I've posted earlier in this thread. She was always very good at fucking, and I certainly wasn't the only beneficiary.

[DiegoJames]

Originally Posted by Windsorm

It still would today if I thought it was happening behind my back.

Mine could have fucked 2499 before me and it wouldn't bother me. I'm not particularly interested in her past exploits, beyond the fact that the guys before me all taught her something (be it good or bad) to make her the most exquisite lover I've ever had. Stories sometimes 'emerge', but I never ask, as I really couldn't care less, and I feel stories (hers or mine) don't particularly add anything to our relationship. That said, she loves to hear my stories...but to me it feels like a breach of confidentiality in my previous lovers. I know. That's not how many guys feel, but that's my view. She doesn't know a quarter of my stories.

If I'm number 2500 in the relationship (I've never asked but feel it's maybe somewhere between 15-25, so let's say 20 guys before me) that's fine.

However, if number 2501 gets added while we're still in a relationship, I'd drop her like a stone, quite simply because I think it says there's something wrong with the relationship. She'd be history within a couple of minutes.

[Hereforfun]

My wife had 2 before me. Both losers. As mentioned before. It could have been hundreds and I would not care. I think this is a fun thing to consider, but it would not change my view of my wife.

[Hereforfun]

Originally Posted by FMW24

I have it on good authority my wife was quite sexually active when she was younger. Good for her I say!

I think one thing a lot of us guys on here can agree on is we hope we’re not the last, and we get to see our wives taking a load from another man! I do believe I am making progress with her on this, so I’m hopeful I’ll get to witness this before too long!

I think an equally important question is how many guys would husbands like to see their wives sleep with?