Sex in front of others but not swinging - advice needed

[Gnome72141]

So jealous.

My fantasy is to have sex with my wife in front of other people but not swinging, and pretty much everyone I know has done it, even the people you wouldn't expect!

Several of my good friends have done it while sharing hotel rooms on expensive vacations. They share a room to cut down the cost, and after a night or two of not having sex, they can't help themselves and they just go for it, lights off at first, then lights on and looking at each other soon after. Even my wife's friend who I thought was a total prude has done this! (We only know about it because the less-prude husband told us once.)

When I found out my super hot sister in law did this with their best friends of 20 years in a shared hotel room on an island, I about lost my mind!

I have another friend who's bf wanted them to have sex while his best friend and wife had sex, so they did it in the friend's living room, and my friend enjoyed it so much that they have done it several times now. No swinging or touching, but she loves when she's about to cum and the other couple looks at her.

Regarding places to go like beaches or clubs...who knows. But the people I know who have done it like I described above is way hotter anyway.

[4cali]

This is why Craigslist getting rid of personals is a bummer for so many. You could just place an ad stating exactly what you want to set up. You could vet the people interested, then meet them and have sex in front of them. I’m sure there are other sites with personals but can’t imagine any reach the audience Craigslist did back in the day.

[winston optic beer]

My wife and I were once talking about fantasies with a couple of friends. We told them that one of ours was to have people watch us having sex.

The lady said that they’d be more than happy to make it a reality for us.

The guy didn’t say anything. I took that to mean that he didn’t approve so I didn’t pursue it. Afterwards, I realised that he was probably just shy about admitting that he’d like to see my wife naked.

I’ll just chalk it up as another missed opportunity from the days when my wife still young and adventurous.

[ABFRH]

Girlfriend and I used to do this quite frequently. Craigslist Personals used to be the best source but it is no longer a thing. I had also used Adultfriendfinder.com for possibilities. You may also find contacts at nudist resorts and nude or clothing optional beaches. You just need to make sure that the other parties know exactly that you are not looking to swap but just to have sex in the presence of others or while others are doing the same, but not exchanging partners at this time. Girlfriend and I used to do it all of the time with couples also having sex, or a single male watching us; she loved to watch guys masturbate; she would get soaking wet and climax harder.

[rsghbb]

There's a secluded parking lot on a nearby mountain overlooking my city. At night, losts of couples go there to have sex in their cars with some intimacy and an outstanding landscape

I have been there since I was a teenager, with all my boyfriends and quite a few other boys. I still go there nowadays, from time to time

The parking lot is pretty big, and cars use to be far away.

All too often, a car stops behind you, with its lights facing you: that's not a couple, that's a lonely voyeur

At first, I used to cover my tits and intimacy, and take a break, that goes without saying

However, one day (in 2005 or 2006) I just felt like I had nothing to hide: we gave the voyeur more than an hour of rough and animal sex. At the end, I just waved him

That night, something new was born in me.

Since then, I don't just only let every voyeur enjoy as much as he he wants, but we also use to park our car very close to any other one, and then we sitch on the lights inside and start having sex.

Sometimes, the couple on the other car has put on their lights, too

Nowadays, with smartphones everywhere, we use to conceal our faces with sunglasess and baseball caps, but I daren't think how many times they have filmed us fucking inside our car

[Upforit200891]

Originally Posted by ABFRH

Girlfriend and I used to do this quite frequently. Craigslist Personals used to be the best source but it is no longer a thing. I had also used Adultfriendfinder.com for possibilities. You may also find contacts at nudist resorts and nude or clothing optional beaches. You just need to make sure that the other parties know exactly that you are not looking to swap but just to have sex in the presence of others or while others are doing the same, but not exchanging partners at this time. Girlfriend and I used to do it all of the time with couples also having sex, or a single male watching us; she loved to watch guys masturbate; she would get soaking wet and climax harder.

Many years ago we used Fabswingers and adultfriendfinder. There's always lots of men women and couples wanting to watch people shag.