Sex in front of others but not swinging - advice needed

[Apfprl]

So, started talking about the possibility of having sex in front of the audience with my cute girlfriend. Over time we tried things like nude beach, mixed spas and even published a few vids.

It makes both of us horny, doing this things all of which seem scary at first.

Now, both or us are a bit kinky but also not into sharing or swinging. Does anyone know if there are kind of lifestyle places and clubs where you could go and have sexy time while watching and being watched?

Are swingers clubs for that, even though we do not exchange partners? Would we be pressured to do so? Anyone with any experience welcome to chime in.

Thanks

[rudolfm]

You must tell where you are located, somebody telling you about a club in Europe won't help if you're in Utah.

[Apfprl]

Discussion about such places worldwide would be interesting. Let's say US and Europe

[rudolfm]

Ok, you don't really want to do it, just read and wank a bit.
Here you go for Europe. In the Vondelpark in Amsterdam and in Copenhagen‘s Ørstedsparken, you can legally have sex in public.
https://travelnoire.com/4-places-public-sex-is-legal

[eviltwin]

Originally Posted by rudolfm

Ok, you don't really want to do it, just read and wank a bit.
Here you go for Europe. In the Vondelpark in Amsterdam and in Copenhagen‘s Ørstedsparken, you can legally have sex in public.
https://travelnoire.com/4-places-public-sex-is-legal

It’s not specifically legal to have sex in Ørstedsparken, and the sign mentioned in the article was fake, it was put up by a group of artists making a commentary on the widespread practice of sexual activities in the park, as a reminder to tidy up after yourselves. Ørstedsparken is renowned for being a spot for gay cruising, rarely used by heterosexuals. It’s been like that since the 1800s.

Sex in public isn’t strictly prohibited in Denmark though, the law only specifies behaving decently with regards to others. This means that any activity is legal as long as it doesn’t aim to offend other people. In practice, this means that it’s up to the discretion of the law to decide. For instance, it’s generally not legal to walk naked in the streets, unless it’s as part of certain events like WNBR or Pride, where there is more leniency.
Nakedness as part of sunbathing in parks is allowed, as is nakedness on any public beach, but it’s common to seek out secluded areas or designated nude beaches.

Regarding sex, if you’re doing it where you wouldn’t normally expect to be seen, it’s generally legal. In that case anyone stumbling upon you should leave if offended. Regarding Ørstedsparken specifically, the police won’t patrol there looking for people having sex after nightfall, making it de facto legal, but the park is also known for mugging and violent attacks from time to time due to this.

[rudolfm]

Eviltwin, thanks for clarifying. Then I guess it is only Vondelpark.
Strangely enough, sex in Cap d'Agde isn't legal, but nobody cares 😁

[Apfprl]

Thank you for your replies, all of you. Sex in public places is hot enough, but comes it with troubles and I do not want to use unsuspecting bystanders as a means to achieve or kinky goals. Seems like asking for trouble.

I'd rather like to know if there are places and clubs, much like swing clubs, where you can have sex - yes others may watch but no touching or swinging. I get it, the niche is specific but I'd bet it is not very uncommon.

And to the reply above, yes, we are planning to do it. We just do not know where and when will we work up the courage.

We travel quite a bit, that's why I am vague with the location. But Amsterdam sounds compelling

[Xico]

If you go to a swingers club there is no pressure to have sex with others. So you can fuck and if anyone approaches just say no!
I have been to one where there are private rooms. You can go in and lock the door or leave it unlocked as a sign you want others to join you.
Anyone can look into the room through the windows and you will have an audience outside wanking away

[GRITS]

Swng Clubs are where to go to fuck in public......listen to the rules on the orientation tour.....


Doing, exposing, anywhere else will offend general folks, including swingers in public....its crude and rude...NOT SEXY.....

Any where else will get you arrested,, and you then become a sex offender......try that on your next job resume.....

[Apfprl]

Originally Posted by GRITS

Swng Clubs are where to go to fuck in public......listen to the rules on the orientation tour.....


Doing, exposing, anywhere else will offend general folks, including swingers in public....its crude and rude...NOT SEXY.....

Any where else will get you arrested,, and you then become a sex offender......try that on your next job resume.....

Of course, that is why I am asking. I would not get aroused by involving unsuspecting people. Dedicated clubs is what I am curious about. Some of the posts above have already been enlightening in that sense.