Ever seen something “on accident” to at you suspect was on purpose?

[viking_guy]

My dentist is a tall slender strawberry blond women in her mid 30s. She's quite an elegant and classy lady. During my recent visit, she was wearing a baggy loose fitting top. It was so baggy and loose that every time she bent over to look in my mouth, I could see all the way down to her belly button.

At the end of my exam, she needed to get something from a bottom drawer and I got the same view.

Now I know she isn't stupid so she must have at least some idea of how her top is behaving and exposing her body. Either she doesn't care or she's doing it on purpose.

[piecenick]

My wife told me that anytime a woman is exposing something, she is aware of it.

[davidderby]

I was once at a well known fashion retailer with my girlfriend at the time. She had gone to try something on when someone went into the changing cubicle next to her. There was only a curtain to cover the gap and the lady that went in left the curtain a little open (not sure if intentionally). I got an eyeful of her topless before my girlfriend came out and we had to go.

[Gnome72141]

My wife's friend's husband had an old laptop that he gave to me because he didn't know what to do with it. He made a big point to say that he erased the hard drive because he had photos of his wife on there that he didn't want anyone to see. I don't know why he made a point to tell me and remind me a few times. He knew I was extremely tech savvy. Of course I ran a recovery program and found several topless photos of his wife that he had "erased." I showed my wife. We felt badly about it at first, but then we agreed that he told me because he wanted me to see the photos without actually saying he wanted me to see the photos. He loved showing her off. For example, she dressed like a prude until they started dating and he convinced her to dress as proactively as possible until her friends pulled her aside and asked her what the hell she was doing.

Another time, back in my early 20s, I was at an alt clothing store, and my friend asked for something obscure. The clerk, about our age, said she had to climb up a ladder to get it, so she moved the rolling ladder over, climbed up, and we got a perfect up-shirt view up her t shirt and saw everything, including her long, braless nipples. She came down and said she couldn't find it, only to find it behind something else in front of us that she clearly knew was there. We realized that she used the ladder as an excuse for us to look up her shirt on purpose.

[Gnome72141]

Originally Posted by piecenick

My wife told me that anytime a woman is exposing something, she is aware of it.

You say this often, but I couldn't disagree more. It may be true for your own wife and perhaps her circle of friends, but she doesn't represent "anytime" a woman is exposing something.

I can tell you with 100% certainty that the women who are close to me in my own life never expose themselves on purpose, and when they do, they certainly are not aware of it.

[coupleak]

Originally Posted by Gnome72141

You say this often, but I couldn't disagree more. It may be true for your own wife and perhaps her circle of friends, but she doesn't represent "anytime" a woman is exposing something.

I can tell you with 100% certainty that the women who are close to me in my own life never expose themselves on purpose, and when they do, they certainly are not aware of it.

I think you are both right in a way.
Women who don't want to expose their body, will probably dress accordingly so nothing can be exposed. Same goes for the women who don't mind showing a little bit of skin, they will wear something a bit more revealing.

When my wife goes out in public, she will dress to the occasion. Some occasions call for a more covered up, conservative look ... like going to our parents. On other occasions, she will wear something showing a bit to a lot of cleavage or leg. And sometimes even going braless.

[Shihoin]

My ex-wife and I were at a non-landed club event some years ago. A couple showed up; the wife was a covered-up newbie. Her husband went off for a while to have a few drinks with the "boys"; and my wife, seeing her all alone, decided to befriend her and invite the woman to hang out with us.

She was wearing a sarong; and sat down right in front of me next to my wife - both of us naked. We chatted about nudism, her fears and hang-ups, etc... And as she sat the sides of her sarong came apart, revealing her vulva. And she just stayed that way...
It appeared to be accidental. It's possible, I guess; but I don't think there's any way she didn't know she was exposed in front of me.

This is something I've seen with other newbies from time to time. It's a bit like "dipping the toe in to check the temperature." The initial exposure might have been accidental, but the decision to remain exposed is to "test" whether it feels "normal."

But that's nudism where the variables are different. IRL, a nip-slip, downblouse or upskirt is usually caused by lack of awareness and tends to remain that way.

[_Voyageur_]

Ever seen something 'by accident' that I suspect was on purpose?

Many, many times from many different women, far too much to be a coincidence. Co-workers, relatives, sisters-in-law, friends, daughters of friends, customers, strangers. As long as they can make it look at least possibly unintentional you'd be amazed how many women will indulge their secret exhibitionist streak if they like you.

[coupleak]

Originally Posted by _Voyageur_

Ever seen something 'by accident' that I suspect was on purpose?

Many, many times from many different women, far too much to be a coincidence. Co-workers, relatives, sisters-in-law, friends, daughters of friends, customers, strangers. As long as they can make it look at least possibly unintentional you'd be amazed how many women will indulge their secret exhibitionist streak if they like you.

That's what my wife always says ... plausible deniability is key

[rebar5k]

First one happened back in the 90s. I was friends with this couple in kind of a hippie scene. We went to their place after seeing a band for a little afterparty. We had been there a while and everyone was feeling pretty good. There were a lot of people for the house so all the seats were taken. I sat down on the floor next to the end of the couch.

The dude's girlfriend was a cute dready hippie chick, wearing a long sundress. Thin straps, and clearly no bra. Well she decides to sit down right in front of me, pulls her knees up and puts her arms around them. It's kinda dim but not dark in the room, and at some point I glance down between her feet, and even with how long her dress was, her bare pussy is right there in front of me, in full view. She was only about two feet away and I could see good enough to tell she was shaved. She just stayed like that for kind of a while and made no effort to cover up, so either she didn't realize what was showing, or didn't mind if I saw.

We got to talking and later ended up alone upstairs later to smoke a joint maybe. We hung out there for a while talking, but she never gave me another flash and nothing else happened. I guess I figured she had a boyfriend so nothing was on the table but in retrospect I think she was probably in some kind of open-situation and was trying to come on to me. I was pretty dense at that age and missed a lot of pitches that were right over the plate.