Anyone else have a nudist partner?

[MFN]

Originally Posted by nudony

... she threw out the notion of "ladylike" posture these "older" nudist women had shared with her; which she came to consider as antiquated; even anti-feminist. Her viewpoint was that if men could lay with their legs open, there was no reason why she couldn't lay or sit the same way. Her attitude reflected her viewpoint: she didn't "spread-eagle" for anyone's benefit (unless she was joking around), but she didn't make any effort to hide her bald pussy from anyone either.

I think a lot of women have experienced that same sense of "liberation" when shaving completely. And so legs started opening up more. But I also think variety is great: "modestly" hairy pubes or totally bald; it's all good as long as everyone is comfortable. Both should be accepting of each other.

As for ' "ladylike" posture', the only way my wife can relax is to lie on a recliner with knees up and legs wide apart. That's how she sleeps and that's how she relaxes at nudist venues, so that's what you see if you look her way. And since her labia are naturally parted there's quite a bit to see. Of course, she denies being a nudist; says she's just someone who likes to relax naked in the sun!

[shower1000]

My wife and her sister have been nudists her entire life. They grew up in the 1960s and 1970s in a full time nudist home with their very liberal nudist parents. A link to their story:

https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...0&postcount=20

My sister and I also grew up in a nudist home, the only difference is that my parents were very conservative. It was almost like "Life with Father" except everyone was nude. A link to the story:

https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...8&postcount=23

The first time we met we were both nude. Here is the story:

https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...0&postcount=19

Over the years we have gone to may nude resorts, nude cruises, and nude gatherings and parties at peoples homes. Even though most of these are "clothing optional" she preffers to be completely nude at all times there. At these she is generally "ladylike" in her posture but does like to relax in the sun with her legs spread. Although she has never made any effort to hide her pussy, she does not like being oggled. She refuses to go to nude beaches because the times we have gone we have been confronted by guys blatently staring at her pussy.

Weather permitting, we're always nude at home, whether its household chores, gardening, sewing, cooking or just relaxing watching TV. She does also have an adventurous streak, sometimes pushing the envelope with her nudity. Here is a list of her adventures over the years:

https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...3&postcount=28

One of her favorite things to do is nude hiking and long walks: Links to pictures:

https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...2&postcount=23

https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/sho...52&postcount=5

[Vann123]

My wife and I are still young and we have been going to nude beaches and spas for about 8 years now. She is always well shaved and I have been for 5-6 years too. She has no problem with being open-leg on the beach, she behaves like she does when she has a bathing suit. In Italy where we live there are many more voyeurs than elsewhere, but we continue to go naked anyway.

[sam.77]

Originally Posted by Vann123

My wife and I are still young and we have been going to nude beaches and spas for about 8 years now. She is always well shaved and I have been for 5-6 years too. She has no problem with being open-leg on the beach, she behaves like she does when she has a bathing suit. In Italy where we live there are many more voyeurs than elsewhere, but we continue to go naked anyway.

Lucky you! Do you remember any interesting encounters with the voyeurs?

[Curiouscouple2469]

Originally Posted by sam.77

Lucky you! Do you remember any interesting encounters with the voyeurs?

An intriguing question that I would love to contribute to but it may deserve its own thread as it’s bound to go off coarse of the initial question.

Every one of my partners experienced social / public nudity for the first time
With me and now have the.bug.
( for nudity: I have not shared bugs in any way)
I would love to say we are nudists but “part time”, that alone really disqualifies me or any of them from being a true Nudist.

Perhaps as close as we can be lawfully. Most times…

[signalrow]

Yes I do and fortunately its my wife. I exposed (no pun intended) her to a clothing optional spa and after a great massage she laid down outside on a recliner and fell asleep, fully nude. After that she was hooked.

[Vann123]

Originally Posted by sam.77

Lucky you! Do you remember any interesting encounters with the voyeurs?

as I wrote in another thread, simple voyeurs pass by us fully dressed, as if looking for the best place to lie down and undress. A bizarre experiences were definitely that time when 5-6 African migrants passed by, spaced out in time (maybe they had agreed on the phone?). Some were even catcalling as they passed by us.
But the strangest was when the local police were passing by the beach and stopped to ask us if we were the ones who called. Obviously they looked at my wife carefully, in my opinion, but they were wearing sunglasses. They were two not very old policemen, around 40-45 years old. We said no and they kept walking.

[sam.77]

Originally Posted by Vann123

But the strangest was when the local police were passing by the beach and stopped to ask us if we were the ones who called.

To be honest, if I were cop and somebody called and reported a voyeur, I would expect it was the young naked couple. And based your description, it did not look like there were many naked people...

And I am still curious about your wife's attitude towards nudity. You said that you are going to nude beaches regularly and she has no problem with being open-leg on the beach. What if she speaks with clothed people? Like the cops. Or you probably must interact with clothed beach vendors time to time. Does she remain spread wide while talking to them, or does she put her legs together? Or does she even tease them time to time?

Is your wife the type of nudist who does not care that guys are looking at her, or is it interesting (or maybe exciting) for her? And what about you? Do you encourage her to exposing herself?

[Shihoin]

My wife defines voyeurism as "rude insistence on staring at her naked body parts.' She doesn't like it.

But she does recognize that being an active nudist at the resort will lead to moments of "exposure"; and that her random "exposure" will lead to some people "looking." So if she sees someone doing a "double-take" as she's bending over or happens to have her legs open, she brushes it off and just keeps doing what she's doing. But if someone was to actually stop and position themselves strategically to have the best possible view of her pussy; then that would be a problem. But it's never happened at the resort (but it did at the nude beach; which is why she doesn't go anymore.)

She doesn't always tan with her legs open; but when she does she's usually facing away from the crowd. If people walk by, she doesn't care; even if they do a "quick double-take", as long as they keep on moving. She will make some exceptions though for our friends and acquaintances at the resort. If they stop by and start talking to us, she might not bother closing her legs or straightening up. She figures they've probably already sees her fully exposed anyway, so why bother? Anyone who knows my wife has seen all her "nooks and crannies"; and she's fine with it. Does she sometimes even enjoy the attention? Probably, even though she would never admit it.

"Nudist etiquette" rules at resorts are pretty firm about staring. Without those rules she'd probably never allow herself to be exposed in front of people.

I know it's not as "spicy" as some of the other stories here; but I think her take is how a lot of nudist women feel.

[Vann123]

Originally Posted by sam.77

To be honest, if I were cop and somebody called and reported a voyeur, I would expect it was the young naked couple. And based your description, it did not look like there were many naked people...

And I am still curious about your wife's attitude towards nudity. You said that you are going to nude beaches regularly and she has no problem with being open-leg on the beach. What if she speaks with clothed people? Like the cops. Or you probably must interact with clothed beach vendors time to time. Does she remain spread wide while talking to them, or does she put her legs together? Or does she even tease them time to time?

Is your wife the type of nudist who does not care that guys are looking at her, or is it interesting (or maybe exciting) for her? And what about you? Do you encourage her to exposing herself?

we never get to talk to people who are dressed. only the police that time. we didn't notice their arrival, when they showed up it seemed instinctive to sit down. my wife was on her stomach at the time and she turned around. when sometimes some illegal vendor passes by, my wife and I pretend nothing happened, we don't talk to them. but i like to send her to take a bath alone and so when she comes back up i tell her who looked at her. even the men who pass by dressed (some are voyeurs) don't make my wife close her legs, after all we are naked.

It's exciting for both of us if men look at her naked. And since there aren't many naked young women on the beach, many notice her.