A Questionaire for the Ladies of the Board

[Roxanne]

Finally got some replies from men, so I'll post what I wrote when the question first appeared. I'm don't believe the few women here have an obligation to entertain the men. I'm pretty much willing to answer ALMOST any question posed, IF the questionner is willing to answer their questions when they asked them. If no guys had the balls to reply, than I wouldn't have either. I don't have the balls (but I can borrow a pair on short notice, whenever I have need of them).

For those who have chastised me for asking to see some guys reply first, and who pointed out this is One Click Chicks, not One Click Dudes, or this is for ENF, not ENMale, I'm sorry, but you are to be pitied, and ignored. Occasionally, I'll see a guy apologize because there is a penis in the photo, or I'll see a guy complain there is a penis in the photo. I feel sorry for them. Were I to explain what I think that means, it would take this in a direction I know the moderator wouldn't want it taken.

Here is what I wrote 8 weeks ago, and held until there was some action here.

Roxanne

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1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not?

In general, I am not embarrassed by much. There are some situations if I was naked which could be embarrassing, but not involving friends or like minded people.

I've lost wagers, and the exposure has been more than I've wanted to show in that situation. There was a Kentucky Derby Day party weekend a few years ago. All the races were on TV, with the right kind of chip for the satellite. Most of us showed some skin during wagering, and some of who didn't do well as horse pickers lost the garments we wagered. We went home without what we lost. We were obligated to wager on each race. Those with nothing to bet had to do something designed to embarrass. I didn't have to do that, but the woman and the man who had to perform did things which would embarrass me.

At the Derby Day party, there were many private side bets. I had 2 side bets; both embarrassed me some. I spent several days on our last car trip through the southwest naked, riding or driving through Arizona, New Mexico and Texas. I gave a man old enough to be my grandpa an extended view, and I spent time naked in Carlsbad Caverns.

Some of you know I do some writing. I occasionally post something I wrote, if it is on topic, in reply to a photo. I don't do that often, because this is more a place for images than word images. The Derby Day weekend story is partly written, but I don't know when I'll finish it.

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2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the Internet)?

Sometimes it's fun. That was more true when I was in high school and we went to Parkway Plaza in cloths designed to expose, or when I sat under a tree at San Diego State, where a peek down the top of my dress showed the grass I was sitting on. As I get older, it's not so much that I'm exhibiting, just that I'm being me.

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For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)?

N/A

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For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body?

It's more a matter of being comfortable in my own skin, then dressing and behaving in a manner consistent with what I believe and how I live. Unless I've been on the wrong end of a wager, I seldom force it.

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3. Hypothetical situation: You're out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you naked. Everyone around you notices and is staring at you. How do you react? What do you do?

Hypothetical answer? I donno. Probably try and hide my most important body part, in case there's a camera around. I'd cover my nose and mouth with one hand; my eyes with the other.

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4. Hypothetical situation: Your'e an actress. Your role requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage?

In college, I auditioned for the female role in Steambath. Early in the play, she walks on stage wearing panties and carrying a towel. The stage is full of naked men in towels. She puts her towel down, takes off her panties, and takes a shower. She dries off, puts her panties back on, and d****s the towel over her neck, covering her breasts. That's her costume for the rest of the play; occasionally the towel slips. I got a call back, but didn't get the part. The woman who did ended up living with the male lead. There are no body doubles in a play. I was willing to play the part, or I wouldn't have auditioned.

I memorized the naked actresses' credo. Nudity is OK, if necessary, to move the scene along.

I was in a play in college, where I had to strip down to a flesh colored body suit. It was experimental theatre. My character was in the body suit because she refused to get naked, but she played the role as is she was naked.

I did enter an amateur night contest in a bar, a thousand miles from anywhere I'd ever been before. I got naked. I won.

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5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not?

I've been to several nude beaches, natural hot springs, and a few naked resorts. The feel of sun and the breeze on the body can be very sensual. Besides, I keep telling all who will listen that the skin needs to breathe too.

I've also been to many naked parties, including pool or hot tub parties. I go to spend time with friends. If the party is a clothing optional or no clothing event and my friends are there, I'm happy to be there too. Some of the parties have involved the winning or losing or clothing in games of skill or chance. Most -- but not all -- parties or games were amazingly non-sexual.

Years ago, the games occasionally determined ones partner for the evening -- or for part of the evening -- but such games were the exception, not the rule.

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6. Hypothetical Situation: Your'e at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach). You see someone take a photo of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react?

Take action, to the extent possible. That's why I stopped going to Black's Beach; too many perverts with cameras. At many clothing optional beaches, naked men run off people with cameras.

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7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the photo is being taken. The next time you log on to OCC, you see your naked self. How would you react?

It hasn't happened, or it hasn't happened yet. That makes this too hypothetical. I'd probably be angry, at least at myself. Who knows, I might be relieved, because the Internet cherry was punctured, but I doubt it.

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8. "Ladies of OCC": Why do you post nude pictures of yourself on OCC?

N/A

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If you are not a "Lady of OCC", would you ever consider posting a clothed picture of yourself anywhere online? Would you ever consider posting a nude picture of yourself online? Why or why not? Would it matter if your face was blurred? Why or why not?

No, I wouldn't post a clothed picture of myself. Photos of me are on the Internet - dressed - but I didn't post any of them.

No, I wouldn't currently consider posting a my nude photo online. I've read about ordinary women posing nude for charity fund raising calendars. That notion appeals to me on some level; it could happen someday, but it is unlikely there will be a way to trace THIS personality to THAT photo. Somehow I don't think my dad or my clients or my colleagues would hold me in any bad light for that exposure, but I don't think I'd give our CEO or Chairman of the Board an autographed copy of the calendar.

No. blurring my face wouldn't matter. Those who know me might recognize me. I've seen some amazing work on OCC to defeat the blurs. Those who KNOW me (in the Biblical sense) might recognize me; that's not a good thing, in my opinion.

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9. If you're modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)? For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you?

That's an impossible to answer hypothetical, because it ain't gonna happen.

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10. For those who are modest: What would be the most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other?

I think the most embarrassing thing possible for me would be sexually explicit photos or videos of me giving a blow job, or engaging in any naked sex act, whether deviant or not, to be seen by people important to my life. The photos would be even more traumatic to me than to have the same important person walk in and see me actually doing somebody or somebody doing me. The image would be worse than the memory.

[alexia]

ok.. i read here since quite a bit of time.. time for a message.. isn't it? and where better than here? so..

1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not?

- no, i like being naked

2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)?

- i like myself.. i like to see that other people like the way i look like.. i likke to see other people staring at me, and maybe turn on

3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do?

- i thinkk i stay calm and ask if someone has something to cover me.. if i was clothed, it means it was no good place to be nude.. if i could be naked there, i probably already was.. if i lose my clothes among friends probably i don't care.. most of them have seen me naked

4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage?

- do myself. no it doesn't matter

5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go?

- i'm used to go to nudist beach since i was 15.. i like to tan naked, i like to be watched, i like to swim naked

6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action?

- not embarassing, but it makes me angry.. stealing pics is not like watching.. it happenede to me once.. i went to the guy completely naked and standing in front of him i asked him to undress and let me take a pic of his penis.. he turned red, but did what i asked, and he had an erection, i still take taht pic as one of my funniest souvenir :9

7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to OCC (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react?

- don't know.. angry, for sure.. but i don't think i'd ask the admins to remove

8. If you are not a "Lady of OCC", would you ever consider posting a clothed picture of yourself anywhere online (let alone OCC)? Would you ever consider posting a nude picture of yourself online? Why or why not?

- i'm considering it..

9. For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)?

- little group for sure.. there can be more interactions

10. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.)

- nudity embarasses me not.. even sex pics of me would not embarassing for me.. as long as noone i know, noone i love, can see them without expecting it

[Fango]

Originally Posted by alexia

8. If you are not a "Lady of OCC", would you ever consider posting a clothed picture of yourself anywhere online (let alone OCC)? Would you ever consider posting a nude picture of yourself online? Why or why not?

- i'm considering it..

Well, alexia, first off thanks very much for your response. Second, I sure hope you decide to go for it. You sound very comfortable with your body and I hope that you share it with us here at OCC someday.

Thanks

Fango

[bamester]

OK, I'm male too but I want to provide another male data point and I want to see some replies from more ladies too.

1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not?

I am easily embarrassed, but a situation involving me being naked would only be embarrassing if it was a result of a bad decision on my part. If it were something like being photographed naked in a changing room, then no.

2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)?

I am very exhibitionistic. I get off on the idea that a cute chick might be getting off on looking at my body.

For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)?
For those somewhere in the middle: Why do you not mind letting others see your body?
N/A

3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do?

Not my fault, so I'd probably just walk to my car. (Do I still have my car keys?) What would be embarrassing is trying to explain to someone that my clothes just inexplicably disappeared. They probably wouldn't believe me. They'd think I had done it deliberately and that would be embarrassing.

4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage?

I would LOVE to get a role that required nudity, and I would do it myself. Get paid and get official permission to show off my naked body to lots of chicks? Absolutely!!

5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not?

I have been to one several times. I liked it. I got horny most times that I went. However, most people would say that I'm too skinny and pale. I got some comments like that. Also, people at nude beaches seem more likely to be rough pot-smoking types. So I didn't feel like I fit in.

6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action?

It wouldn't be embarrassing. I would enjoy it if someone wanted to do it. The only irritation would be that I'm not gay and I would assume that it would probably end up on a gay website, so I would assume that women wouldn't ever see it.

7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to OCC (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react?

Same kind of thing.

8. For the "Ladies of OCC": Why do you post nude pictures of yourself on OCC?
If you are not a "Lady of OCC", would you ever consider posting a clothed picture of yourself anywhere online (let alone OCC)? Would you ever consider posting a nude picture of yourself online? Why or why not? (Additional question: Would it matter if your face was blurred? Why or why not?)

I have posted nude pictures of myself on a website with my face cropped/blurred. It was a website where both genders go. I got a lot of insulting comments from guys saying that the pictures looked gay. Dunno how a picture can look gay, but there ya go. So I probably won't do it again.

9. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)?
For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)?

As I said, the embarrassment would depend on whether they thought it was my fault or not, not on whether I knew them or not. The excitement would depend on whether there were cute chicks there, whether I knew them or not.

10. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.)

Let me put it this way. Once I got drunk at a bar and went home alone, drunk and horny. As I said, I am very exhibitionistic and now I was drunk too. I decided to do something very stupid. I took off all my clothes in the lobby of my apartment building and carried my clothes in one hand and my keys in the other. Then I rode up on the elevator to my apartment and went in. It was about 3 in the morning so I didn't see anyone. But if someone had seen me, it would have been extremely embarrassing later (when I sobered up) because it would be clear that it was my choice to do that. I think that would have been the be all, end all most embarrassing. I don't know why I did it, but probably the fact that it would be very embarrassing was part of the rush that made me do it.

It's different for guys, though. Someone seeing me do that could have gotten me kicked out of that building, arrested, people thinking of me as a dangerous pervert. So it was stupid and I hope I never do anything like that again.

Comments or more answers from ladies?

[ada05bucks]

I came here to find a picture a friend was in. But I thought I would answer these questions since I am bored and no one here knows me.

1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not?

I dont think I am easily embarrassed, but a situation being naked would be embarrassing.

2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)?
For those who are modest: Why do you not like to show your body to other people (except your spouse or significant other)?

I am modest I guess because thats how I was raised. Some things arent meant to be seen by everyone on the planet.

3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do?

I cover my face with my hands and run as fast as I can to my car.

4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage?
I would get a body double probably.

5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not?
I MAY be able to go to a topless beach, if it was just me and my friends. If everyone else was doing it, I could probably do it.

6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action?
Yes, it would be embarrassing because I would be worried that someone was using it for something like a webpage.

8. For the "Ladies of OCC": Why do you post nude pictures of yourself on OCC?
If you are not a "Lady of OCC", would you ever consider posting a clothed picture of yourself anywhere online (let alone OCC)? Would you ever consider posting a nude picture of yourself online? Why or why not? (Additional question: Would it matter if your face was blurred? Why or why not?)

I would never post a nude picture of myself online, because who knows who will see it. I guess if my face was blurred it would be easier to do.

9. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)?
For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)? Being naked in front of a small group would be more embarrssing because its people I know, people who see me everyday. It would be easier to do it if it was a bunch of people I would never see again.

10. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.)

The most embarrassing thing in the world would be to be seen in private, like in the bathroom or my bedroom, if I didnt know someone was looking, especially by people I know. A couple of years ago, I was about 16, they caught someone peeping in my bedroom window. The police arrested him and all of that. But they said they think he had been doing it for a long time, which is embarrassing. But since I didnt know that guy, it wasnt that awful. But if that had been a guy from school or something and he had been taping it or something, and everyone at school saw it, that would be the worst thing in the world.

That was fun. Thanks. Bye.

[Fango]

Any more ladies out there want to take a crack at this?

Fango

[SukiNippz]

I'm happy to answer:

1. Are you easily embarrassed in general? Would a situation involving you being naked be very embarrassing for you or not?

A:I'm not easily embarrassed (although I used to be when younger). So showing myself naked is not a problem for me now.

2. For those who consider themselves exhibitionists: Why do you like to show your body to other people (either in public or on the internet)?
A: I think it's a melange of Risk and Excitement - I enjoy the excitement of showing myself - with the associated risks, and I get excitement and satisfaction from positive feedback from guys who appreciate what I do and how I look. A lesson here for the lurkers, obviously; leave a brief comment, albeit anonymously, and you'll see a LOT more pics!

3. Hypothetical situation: You are out in public (let's say a crowded shopping mall). Suddenly, your clothes inexplicably disappear, leaving you totally naked. Everyone around you notices and is now staring at you. How do you react? What do you do?

A: LOL. My first thought would be whether I could cover my legs, which I regard as my least flattering feature!

4. Hypothetical situation: You are an actress (you may actually be an actress!) and the role you just took requires nudity. Do you get a body double or do the scene yourself? Would it matter if the role was in a movie or on stage?

A: I'd just take off my kit and get on with it.

5. Would you ever go to a place where nudity is accepted/encouraged, like a nude beach? If you've been to one, why do you like to go? If you wouldn't want to go, why not?

A: Have been going to such places for about 15 years, I like the sun on my body and swimming in the sea without a costume on.

6. Hypothetical Situation: You are at a public place where nudity is accepted (let's say a nude beach [even if you've never been to one or intend to ever go to one]). You see someone takes a picture of you. Would this be embarrassing? How would you react? Shrug it off? Or take action?

A: This has happened a number of times, with me lying or sitting on the beach. I pretend I haven't noticed. I actually feel a little sorry for the people taking the pics.....

7. Same scenario as above, but you don't know the picture is being taken. The next time you log on to OCC (or some other site), you see your naked self. Now, how would you react?

A: This happened, in the very late 1990's. I hadn't seen the camera, I had been on holiday in Europe. I Have been showing myself on the internet for several years. After my holiday I was doing my internet 'research' for sites. I found a whole load of stuff on Voyeurweb where someone had been filming me only a week or two before. I was angry - for just a few seconds - then I was pleased that someone thought I was worth filming, liked the submitted supportive comments and did nothing as I thought that would just add to identifying me.
For any "Ladies of OCC" answering: See next question.

8. For the "Ladies of OCC": Why do you post nude pictures of yourself on OCC?
If you are not a "Lady of OCC", would you ever consider posting a clothed picture of yourself anywhere online (let alone OCC)? Would you ever consider posting a nude picture of yourself online? Why or why not? (Additional question: Would it matter if your face was blurred? Why or why not?)

A: The answer is already covered by my answer at 2 above....Although I do not show my face, as a promise I made to my husband to save potential embarrassment to him and to our business.

9. If you are modest: Which would be more embarrassing: Being naked in front of a small group of people that you know (a dinner party at home with friends or co-workers), or being naked in front of a large group of strangers (giving a speech on stage at a conference or convention)?
For exhibitionists: Which would be more "exciting" for you: (Same scenarios as above)?

A: Neither. Anecdotally, a year or so ago we had a dinner party at home, four couples. We had a similar conversation (after several bottles of wine). I got my tits out in response to a (male) question to the females along the lines of "would you ever consider..". None of the other girls did though.

10. For those who are modest: What would be the be all, end all most embarrassing naked situation for you to be in? What about this situation would make it more embarrassing than any other? If this situation has already actually happened to you, you need not explain it in detail if you don't want to, but please at least say what the situation was in general. (If the situation was sex-related or truly traumatizing in any way, you probably shouldn't answer this question, both because you probably wouldn't want to, and because I am only looking for answers regarding nudity only.)

A: Not applicable


And as I have completed the task list, I will ask a question of my own. Gents: you like seeing pics of naked women - why don't you leave a brief supportive comment having viewed, when you know that will almost certainly result in more naked pics being posted?

An interesting thread Fango, thanks.

[Fango]

Originally Posted by SukiNippz

An interesting thread Fango, thanks.

Thanks for your answers, Suki.

Thanks

Fango

[SukiNippz]

Originally Posted by fango44

Thanks for your answers, Suki.

Thanks

Fango

You are very welcome Fango. Will you be analysing the results in some way, or was it just to satisfy your curiosity?

Suki

[Fango]

Originally Posted by SukiNippz

You are very welcome Fango. Will you be analysing the results in some way, or was it just to satisfy your curiosity?

Suki

The latter.

Fango