Wanting friends to see your SO

[scouty]

My wife and I often hike in a mixed but mainly male group. At the summits, the group will usually horse around with playful shots - bra tops and sweat for the girls. She’s a stronger hiker than me and will go alone on the longer hikes. She will send me topless shots her girlfriend takes away from the main group but my continuing fantasy is they will visit an isolated summit hot springs and she will go naked ‘in the moment’ with the guys in our group. Hasn’t happened yet, but I’d love her to come home and say one day ‘yeah, I did it’. I’d love for them to have that knowing knowledge of her.

[sammy387100]

That’s awesome has she had any casual exposure or playful flashes experiences in her past with anyone? She could definitely take some creative playful naked or “accidentally” exposing pictures even to just show friends as a start! Can’t wait to hear more!

[edcindy]

Originally Posted by scouty

My wife and I often hike in a mixed but mainly male group. At the summits, the group will usually horse around with playful shots - bra tops and sweat for the girls. She’s a stronger hiker than me and will go alone on the longer hikes. She will send me topless shots her girlfriend takes away from the main group but my continuing fantasy is they will visit an isolated summit hot springs and she will go naked ‘in the moment’ with the guys in our group. Hasn’t happened yet, but I’d love her to come home and say one day ‘yeah, I did it’. I’d love for them to have that knowing knowledge of her.

Make sure she knows that the thought of that turns you on. That will encourage her to do it!

Most women have a exhibitionist streak, but social taboos hold them back. My wife secretly loves it when I encourage clothing or situations that might expose her because then it’s “my fault“. It allows her to be much more brave.

[coupleak]

Originally Posted by edcindy

Make sure she knows that the thought of that turns you on. That will encourage her to do it!

Most women have a exhibitionist streak, but social taboos hold them back. My wife secretly loves it when I encourage clothing or situations that might expose her because then it’s “my fault“. It allows her to be much more brave.

I can totally second this!

[Jjd1]

Originally Posted by edcindy

Make sure she knows that the thought of that turns you on. That will encourage her to do it!

Most women have a exhibitionist streak, but social taboos hold them back. My wife secretly loves it when I encourage clothing or situations that might expose her because then it’s “my fault“. It allows her to be much more brave.

I can confirm this. While my girlfriend hasn't let anyone see her on purpose she's had a few daring situations. One time we had friends over and were watching a movie and while all of us were look at the tv she sent me a selfie with her completely nude a few feet behind us. She's also quickly flashed me right as people look away

[coupleak]

Good starting points are always "plausible deniability" and places/stations where nudity is allowed or common.

Examples of plausible deniability:
- "accidental" downblouse views when braless. My wife is good as those 😉
- I love taking nude pics of my wife and she regularly sends me topless or nude selfies. I've asked her a few times if she would allow me to show those to friends or online. Her reaction, "only if you tell me who sees them and they must NEVER know I know they saw them"

Examples of allowed nudity:
- Inviting friends to go to the (nude) sauna/spa center. So far my wife has only been able to convince a few female friends to have a "women only" sauna day. But I'm still hoping one day a fiend agrees the husbands may join. Only when going with her sister, us husbands join them.
- Going topless/nude on the beach when friends are present. Again no issue when wife's sister is joining. But with friends, it's usually the other wive's that have the common thought that topless or nude on a beach is ordinary and sl*tty. Which is funny, cause I know some of them have done so (according to their husbands) while on holiday. Must be social standards making them prudes with friends around.