Rough or tender sex?

[Teeyes]

Just wondering: Are there more men here who's girlfriend or wife (not a hookup!) wants to have rough sex nearly all the time?

My Mrs. is not into "sweet and tender love-making" at all. Whenever I bring up to "make love" she rolls her eyes as she only wants it rough rough ROUGH. We certainly love each other and besides sex we do hug and kiss. But when the clothes are off, she wants and needs it rough. That's what she always wanted, no exceptions.

I honestly have no issue with this at all, although this is the first relationship I'm in where the lady wants it so rough. That includes seriously hard penetrative sex in all kinds of positions. She wants to get pounded, seriously pounded. And when we start anal, I always want to start "carefully", but as soon as it's really starting she instructs me to "go for it", and there's just no stopping.

That's just my $0.02 - Either way is fine, but that's the way we do it. And I'm fine with it.

[Gnome72141]

My wife used to love it rough and daring (outdoors, in front of others, etc) with her exs, but after kids she has calmed down a lot. Childbirth completely changed her insides (very common, of course), so now she needs to be warmed up and only likes it slow. That is fine with me because I was never into it rough, either. We tried rough and wild before kids, she was into it then, but I never was so I went along with it anyway. But since kids, most people would find us boring and vanilla, but when she cums a dozen times (all super hard), and ACTUALLY squirts (not just the typical pee), who cares how boring people might perceive us? It's anything but boring!

[raysallx]

I was always surprised by this. Women are as gentle as lambs, but once they near orgasm almost every one I've been with wanted to be pounded, as hard as possible in many cases. Ass-slapping and hair-pulling was not off the menu in some cases.

[4cali]

My wife varies. Never rough to the point of anything that hurts. But sometimes she likes me to grab a shoulder while I do her doggy style or hold her head back with her hair. Or when we’re in the shower I’ll go from washing to just putting her against the wall and she gives in, saying she likes to be taken that way. We definitely have passionate sex from time to time but our quickies are a little more rough. Regardless I know she wants me to really pound her as she starts to orgasm.

[Gnome72141]

Originally Posted by 4cali

My wife varies. Never rough to the point of anything that hurts. But sometimes she likes me to grab a shoulder while I do her doggy style or hold her head back with her hair. Or when we’re in the shower I’ll go from washing to just putting her against the wall and she gives in, saying she likes to be taken that way. We definitely have passionate sex from time to time but our quickies are a little more rough. Regardless I know she wants me to really pound her as she starts to orgasm.

Similar with my wife. She likes when I start quickies around the house in a rough way. She likes it when I "force" (not really) her clothes off when she says "not now", but she really wants me to keep it up. And then in front of the big window and she sees someone walking by with their dog and she doesn't want to be seen, but she wants to cum first before the person outside looks our way.

In fact, something similar happened 15 minutes ago...

But when it is not a quickie, she likes it tender and as long as possible.