[Voyeur] Family exposures

[jwaters]

My wife tends to shed basically all modesty whenever we visit her family for an extended period. They’re quite a few hours drive away so a visit usually means staying a night or two and trying to coordinate with her brother and sister to make a weekend out of it. Either that or the odd Christmas or other holiday.

After having our first child she definitely shifted towards caring a lot less about what was on show depending on who was a round. I remember the first visit to her parents place and her brother and sister were there also. We had four extra hands to help out and could relax and sleep for the first time in weeks. Being back in their childhood home, everyone seems to fall into old routines, and her is my wife walking to and from the bathroom without a stitch of clothing on. On different occasions I’ve seen her standing and talking to her brother while she’s naked with just a towel around her head, or jumping into the shower while one her family members are brushing their teeth in the bathroom. Only her younger sister ever comments on it, much to my disappointment as I’d be more than happy for her to join in. She usually refrains only when her sisters partner is around, again something I find a shame! It’s pretty interesting seeing her stark naked alongside her dad or brother knowing that this is something they never would have seen from her since she’s been an adult

[Gnome72141]

Originally Posted by mar88

Same for her sister, when we visit my sister in law house at night fro a casual visit (they live in the same city), she also walk around in pajamas with no bra and many times seen good downblouse when she's cleaning table after dinner or something.

Same with my wife's family. Her sister, especially, tries to dress like an ultra-conservative puritan woman showing no skin below her neck...until it's time for pjs or sharing a space.

Then it's super clingy pjs', no bra, leaving no secrets, or super loose pjs that expose everything when slightly bending over or sitting. I have seen it all. Her long, long nips poking through her thin pjs get me every time. Or seeing her unrestricted boobs swinging while looking down her loose pjs too many times to count. I remember the very first time I saw her in pjs. Tiny droopy boobs jiggling like crazy with every breath, point out to the sides instead of in front of her. Sigh.

Her sister will also walk around in a towel, flashing her obscenely enormous bush when she sits down in a towel, getting dressed in front of us but only with her back towards us (I have never had a front view, very unfortunately). And so on.

My wife's mom is similar. Dresses conservatively, but sharing spaces with her anything goes. Her mom has walked around stark naked in front of 11 of us while share a cabin several times.

My wife is the opposite. She will dress in a fun way during the day, but around just her family it's a bra all the time, thick pjs, etc. Kind of funny. But then the next day it's a thin tank top, no bra, short skirt, etc. Very confusing.

[wryth]

I can tell you right now that there wasn't much privacy

can you tell us more about that?

[Gnome72141]

My neighbors growing up through college were a large Catholic family of 9 people, total. (two parents, the wife's sister, and 6 kids) They had the same house we did, but mirror image. Small, a few bedrooms, one bathroom with a shower with a sliding glass door. I was in the house a few times.

My sister stayed there a few times, and she said there was NO privacy. If you took a shower, people would see you. If you changed your clothes, people would see you.

I just wondered if the husband every got to see his wife's sister...were the adults more private, or did he see his sister in law shower, or what is the story there? I would have love to have known!

[chuckfinly]

Originally Posted by Gnome72141

My neighbors growing up through college were a large Catholic family of 9 people, total. (two parents, the wife's sister, and 6 kids) They had the same house we did, but mirror image. Small, a few bedrooms, one bathroom with a shower with a sliding glass door. I was in the house a few times.

My sister stayed there a few times, and she said there was NO privacy. If you took a shower, people would see you. If you changed your clothes, people would see you.

I just wondered if the husband every got to see his wife's sister...were the adults more private, or did he see his sister in law shower, or what is the story there? I would have love to have known!

I grew up with several family friends that were Catholic homeschool families. One had 14 kids, another had 12, and another had 11. These families were spread over quite a age range so a couple were out of the house by the time the last ones were born but there were still 10-12 people under one roof at the peak. The 14 kid family had tons of money because the father had invented something and got royalties off of it. They had a big house. The other two had 4 bed 2 or three bath houses so privacy was at a premium. I remember by best friend and I would spend the night at the 12 kid family sometimes because they had a son our age. of the 12, only 4 were boys and our friend was one of the younger kids. I remember his sisters were super prude ankle length dresses/skirts holier than thou types. We would sleep in a tent out in the yard because it was so crowded in the house. They lived on a farm and had no blinds or curtains on the windows. We would always pitch our tent in the yard on the side of the house facing the older sisters' windows and would get a show of them changing. We probably pitched a smaller tent too

There was another Catholic homeschool family that had only five kids but they had a two bedroom one bathroom house. All the kids slept in one room with bunk beds. I don't know how the privacy thing worked there. They were way out there weird. They went to Latin mass only and were super judgmental. They dressed kind of like the Amish minus the beards and bonnets. The boys worked on the dairy farm and the girls kept house for the family and for the grandma who owned the dairy and lived on the property. It reminded me of cinderella. One time I was hanging out with the boys and we were swimming in the irrigation cannel. One of the girls joined us. She took off her dress and was wearing mid thigh shorts and a modest tank top type thing. Her dad caught her there and even though it was innocent, dragged her back to the house and I later found out he beat the shit out of her for being "immodest". They had way out there political views too. Ironically (or maybe not), that sister got knocked up when she was 19 by a migrant worker that worked in their milk barn.

[Gnome72141]

Originally Posted by chuckfinly

All the kids slept in one room with bunk beds. I don't know how the privacy thing worked there.

I currently have a friend and her entire family sleeps in a single half-story attic bedroom upstairs, literally with 5 beds all in a row.

I can only speak of my friend because of the age thing (at least my friend is over 18...she is 49, ha!), but I do know that she has no privacy because she complains to me about it sometimes. She also has no curtain whatsoever on her only bathroom window which faces her backyard. I know for a fact that she has taken baths when there were visitors in the backyard. Unfortunately, I have never been there while she is in the bath, but I know for a fact that her husband's friends have. Each time I am visiting my friend in the backyard and I see her bathroom window, I can't help but wonder what her husband's friends have seen while visiting.

One time I was using her bathroom, standing there in front of this large uncovered window while she and another friend were walking around the backyard. It was a weird feeling knowing that there were two women out there that could see me with very little effort if they simply chose to, and there was nothing I could do about it, and this was the norm at this house. Who else experienced this there, I would wonder.

She is European, which makes a lot of things different, I am sure, but the husband's friends and I are not, so it makes it more curious if there is a disconnect there between what she thinks is happening (no big deal; them not noticing) and what is really happening (they are staring and banging their wives extra hard those nights)!

[Nerva]

At the house of my parents came an aunt with hubby and her newborn baby. My aunt is a medium high readhed and slim. We were in the living room my parents aunt and uncle were chating, eating peanuts, drinking. Me and my male cousin were playing SuperMario. At one point my dad and uncle went outside the rest of us remained in the living room. My aunt said she has to breastfeed the newborn. Mom told her you can do it here on the sofa where you are sitting, men are outside and me and my male cousin were to young to see it as a erotic fact. My aunt raised up her t-shirt, removed one cup of the bra and started breastfeeding. I heard all the discussion. Suddenly all my needs came to me: have to go to bath, drink water etc. I've turned around and saw a magnificent white milky big breast with big brown areola. What a magnificent view. It remained in my memory after soo many years.

[piecenick]

My wife and her sister have a little fetish in common, they both like to 'accidentally' expose themselves. I think it started when the little rivalry between them extended to getting the others BF's attention. When we were all teens and I'd show up for a date, sometimes her sister, who was a hottie too, would be running around getting dressed, sometimes in a sheer slip.

After we got married, my now SIL, stopped her show for a while, until she lived with us for almost a year. Their dad got transferred and she didn't want to change schools, so we were the option. She got careless about closing the door when she dressed, my wife said that was pretty much normal around the house when they were growing up. OK, nice benefit for me.

The hottest thing I saw was when I was looking for my contact lens case, I remembered leaving it in the only bathroom. The door was open a crack, I knocked politely and told SIL what I was looking for, she said "it's right here, you can get it", I went in and she was putting on makeup facing away from me into the full length mirror, she had on a bra and dark panty hose, not much to see, but when I reached for the case I saw her front in the mirror, her pantyhose had been cut open so her labia were protruding out, she noticed I could see, she said "oops" and covered with her hand. I backed out, but damn did that look hot.

[Curiouscouple2469]

Going back many years here.

As teens my stunning cousin and I flirted endlessly and that would lead to stories not allowed here. However, later as both married adults our families saw each other often and we often flirted a little as well when we could get away with it.

With her new baby in the picture, I couldn’t help but notice that her always tiny little boobs had gained a size or two from when I last saw her and she seemed to be flaunting them a little more when she caught me looking.

Sitting in my living room this particular sunny afternoon, my wife was in the kitchen making dinner and my cousin's husband not with her this visit, she had come in the room with her newborn and sat down across from me on the couch. We chatted a little and flirted a little as always.

She started to change the baby and prep for a feeding - all pretty standard.
While leaning over the baby, I was getting a good view down her blouse and I think it was obvious.
But then with the baby propped at her side on the couch she looked me in the eyes and smiled and silently started to unbutton her blouse.

This seemed to be a little slower and much more interactive with me than normal and I couldn’t take my eyes off her. With the two of us alone, She continued the eye contact with me and with a much more erotic little…something, as she just smiled, raised a brow, and released each button.
She had my attention and knew it.

She didn’t release three or four buttons and pull it to one side she opened her shirt completely, released her bra and sat for a moment or two with her breasts completely exposed to me. I could see her deep breathing, raising her chest and then sinking again, as her eyes Watched my reaction.

The whole thing had me a little breathless as my throat went dry and I admired her body and its changes from the last time I saw her naked.
It was only a few minutes but it was definitely all for my benefit. My head was flooding with all the memories I had of our prior adventures.

With that she turned and picked up the baby leaned back and started to nurse.

As I watched her gaze fade her eyes closed and I could see her face and neck flushing in pink and her other bare breast, seemed to tremble and her little nipple bright red and stretching outward. Her nipples would be super sensitive and glow red when she is horny. It’s now 10 feet away from me and glowing.
It was one of the most erotic moments I can remember ever having without involving sex.

We talked about it years later.
She admitted to me that:
A) she loved the fact she could still excite me
B) she often had the most amazing sex drive when she was pregnant and /or breast feeding.
C) she would sometimes get very wet or even orgasm while breastfeeding.

This Made total sense, as I could also make her cum sometimes just touching and sucking her breasts in past. We’ve had many amazing adventures together. She can still excite me.

[Donnafill38]

After we became empty nesters, my wife has been wonderful to try new adventures such as visiting clothing optional parks, beaches and resorts. To my delight, she finds the exposure as thrilling as I do, and we are both confirmed voyeurs and exhibitionists. One of the clothing optional parks that we visit is only a few hours from where one of her brother's live, and she has always been a bit cautious about going there for fear that her brother might see her, although we had even never heard him mention the place. I found the idea of family exposure rather exciting, and began planning how to make it actually happen.

The first step was to explore whether her brother even had any interest in such things, or whether he would "out" me to my wife as being a hopeless pervert (something she already knew). Digital cameras are probably the greatest advance in adult photography, so I cautiously asked whether he took boudoir type photos of his wife. He joked that he had tried, but his wife had become pissed off at the idea and was not at all receptive. I sympathized with him, while letting him know that my wife, his sister, was generally quite a good sport about such things. Once he had that information, he was constantly badgering me to prove it, saying that he didn't believe that his "very conservative" sister would agree to such things. I told him that I would have to think about it, that I felt it was unfair for me to share photos without seeing similar photos of his wife - seeing each other's wives in photos would help insure that we would both keep our mouths shut.

Some months went by, and the next time we got together, he could not wait to get me into his study to show me his new laptop. I'm not really a computer geek, and could care less about laptops, but when he fired it up and went to his photo files, I immediately understood what was happening. Sure enough, he had a handful of photos of his wife, most still wearing bra and panties (granny panties at that), but a few in a semi-revealing bikini swimsuit and one where she had actually untied the top and allowed one of her nipples to be bare. He then showed me a few of her in the bathtub, although all the critical areas were still concealed by suds. After showing those, he dared me to prove that my wife permitted such photos, thinking he had called my bluff.

Both wives had gone shopping, so we had a few hours of privacy, and I fired up my laptop and pulled up a few photos of my wife. My wife and I are both fans of Wicked Weasel bikinis, and while some don't think that "mature" women should wear them, we disagree. Her brother was glued to my computer screen, so I moved from Wicked Weasel to topless, and then a few of my wife totally nude, obviously outside, and revealing that she shaves her bush. When he asked about that, I told him that we both thought the hair concealed to much, and when we went to clothing optional parks, we both were smooth because we liked being truly naked. I thought he was going to drool on my keyboard before he finished looking, and then he asked "Do you two REALLY go to clothing optional parks?" I reminded him that there were no tan lines to be seen in any of the photos I had shared, and explained that some of the outside photos had been taken at the park that was only three hours away.

Deciding to go for broke, I asked if he and his wife would like to meet us at the park and just hang out for the day at the lake, sunning and swimming, and enjoying the "scenery". Afterwards, we could all shower and clean up, and then go to a nice restaurant for dinner. He was all for it, but concerned that his wife would never agree. I pretended to be disappointed, but my real interest was seeing my wife knowingly expose herself to her brother, so I suggested that he just "show up" the next day at the park, and explained where he would find us. I told him to just play it cool, but that he would be expected to get naked with us because my wife gets really pissed about guys walking up to ogle her when they were still fully dressed.

When my wife and I got back to our hotel room, I had second thoughts about setting her up and told her that I had invited her brother to drop by the park the next day. She was pissed at first, but I told her she could keep on her bikini until he left, that his prude wife would never go with him, and that I thought he should get to experience the park at least once. We both knew that it was no fun to visit the park as a single [straight] male, so she relented. Our lovemaking that night was particularly intense, and I wondered whether the idea was as much of a turn on for her as for me. I later sent a text to her brother advising that I had told her our plan because I didn't want to blindside her, and that she knew he was going to meet us.

The next morning, she selected a swimsuit to wear, and to my surprise it wasn't a Wicked Weasel, but an inexpensive, almost sheer (Sherrylo brand) suit that I had picked up off Amazon a few months earlier. I thought to myself that she might as well be nude, but whatever. I gathered enough stuff for a picnic lunch for three and we were at the lake soon after the park opened, so we could get one of our preferred spots, in the shade but close to the water. When my wife removed her coverup, I could see everything through the sheer mesh from the front, and from the rear, it was like floss. We set up our day "camp" as if it was no big deal, although she did comment that I seemed to be having a hard time staying soft, LOL. I told her that I loved seeing her in that suit, which is true, but I was also thinking of later.

By lunch time, her brother still had not appeared, and she was getting pissed, saying she was not going to keep the damn suit on all day. About that time, he walked up, wearing shorts. They greeted each other, both a bit embarrassed, and he thanked us for letting him in on our "secret place". Making some comment about "when in Rome, do as Romans do" he put his towel down next to my wife, dropped his shorts, and sat down. We visited like we normally do, interspersed with comments about the beauty of the park, and occasionally comments about other folks walking by (big cock, fake boobs, they forgot to shave, LOL). I noticed my wife checking out her brother several times, no doubt enjoying seeing that while he was not shaved, he was very closely trimmed.

After lunch, my wife decided to lay out in the sun, and I spread out a mat and towel on a flat rock just below our shade area. She asked me to apply sunscreen on her back, but I told her to use the spray because I didn't want to get the greasy stuff all over my hands. She couldn't find the spray sunblock in her bag, and her brother volunteered to put sunscreen on her back since he was getting in the water afterwards. My wife gave me a "fuck you!" look and then handed the bottle to her brother, who was beginning to sport a hard-on. He did a good job of covering her shoulders and back. When my wife said something to him that I couldn't hear, he continued applying sunscreen from the back of her legs upward. He hesitated at her butt cheeks until my wife said she didn't want to get burned there either, so he rubbed some on her cheeks and then quickly got up to walk down to the water and into the lake.

While he was gone, my wife took a short nap and then got up, saying that she was done with the suit. I told her that was the longest she had kept a suit on at the park and she agreed, saying she could not really enjoy the park with that floss riding up her butt, LOL. Her brother came back from his swim, but acted cool, like the three of us chilling in the nude was the most natural thing in the world. By the end of the day, the sun, water and scenery had us all mesmerized - it was no big deal, three people who were close, all enjoying the great outdoors together the way outdoors should be enjoyed. We all walked back to the parking lot nude, with me carrying most of our gear while my wife and brother walked ahead talking, and me thinking that he was undoubtedly enjoying the view.

At the edge of the parking lot, we had to stop and dress, but before dressing, my wife gave her brother a hug and a kiss on his cheek, telling him thanks for coming to the lake and for being so cool with our naturist lifestyle. He asked if he could meet us out there again sometime, and we both responded yes, while urging him to get his wife involved too. My wife offered to talk to her at some point, to explain it all from a women's point of view. All in all, it was an amazing day, a fantasy come true for me, but then a realization that this behavior was really no big deal, perfectly normal in much of the world, and should be for us in the USA also. I wish I could report that the conversation between my wife and her sister-in-law was successful, but we are not optimistic, she is just too much of a prude to turn loose and enjoy life. My wife and I went to the park a few more times that summer, without her brother meeting us, but my wife keeps talking about inviting him again, perhaps this summer.