[Request] OPEN -"Sharing Your Wife" Thread

[GRITS]

Originally Posted by Couplein2MFM

Your playtime is hot, it is always nice when you have regular partners you can trust and you all know each other. It adds a degree of trust and intimacy that you don't find with one-time hookups. We have several relationships like this (moth male and female) where we all enjoy playing with no pressure etc. OUr playtimes sound much like what you describe. Our only issue is we are spread around, us in Florida, One couple in Arizona but maybe moving about 60 miles from us here in Florida and one couple in the Nashboro Village area of Nashville, TN and one single male in Knoxville, TN. Obviously with our Florida location this is where we all end up meeting but just not often enough.

The single gentleman from Knoxville is supposed to meet us next weekend down in Georgia for a little fun with the wife, She is really looking forward to it. So, hopefully it happens as planned.

go for it

[GRITS]

Thanks for the good question.... I'll try to break it down....

First of all. the jealousy thing... actually there is none.. and the reason is because finding people to participate like this on a long term basis is a job in itself...NOT a Craiglist search... You find people you know or recommended by people you know who are very ok w/ just having fun w/ it all.. the wife and I don't get jealous because we've been doing this since before we met, .. in fact as stated prior, we met at a swing group event... sex is sex... love is love, you can not mix the two... we love and are happy w/ each other as partners in life.. the sex, even our own, is an extracurriculiar activity of pleasure.... that is something some couples miss...having sex does not mean love........ But of course as we all know, if a partner refuses to have sex w/ spouse its sort of cruel and does show a lack of respect and love.... a little bit of a double edged sword.. but the attitude of the situtation at hand is there.
Most of us grow up with a closed view of sex which brings the jealousy card up. I have friends who are swingers and I've never seen two people more connected. They, like the GRIT's see the sex as their partner having some fun and being pleasured thus giving them pleasure hearing or watching it happen. I do know my friends who enjoy this lifestyle just have a rule and that's totally open communication. So if the wife wants to meet with a guy some afternoon alone that's fine if her husband knows prior and vise versa. And you make a great point love is love and sex is sex, neither of you are getting into swinging for love, your doing it for the pleasure. Took me years to learn the difference between the two.
The people we play with are all married...both Swing Group & "Select "friends...none came from a Craiglist search. Everyone is there to have fun.... neither group knows each other exist. We keep them seperate for good reasons....Thats why you'll see us actually say-- a Swing Group friend or a "Select" friend when we play.

Swing Group-- We met at a meeting w/ this group 15?? years ago. She was a card carrying member, and I was a guest...We were the only single people there.... Now the rules are NO singles.. couples only, and the same people from 15 yrs ago are still there.. 12 couples limit... I've only seen one couple leave for breaking the rules and not having the correct attitude of No Problems or Drama... 2 other couples left because they moved way too far away to really participate. 2 other couples have come in after big time backgroud and probation period.. otherwise everyone is growing old together in the Group...Because we're strict w/ rules and attitude and again -finding people is a job in itself... nobody wants to leave a good thing--both people and activitys...
When we have a Swing Group meet, not every couple attends.. it optional..we try to get together monthly, but sometimes its more.... and if someone is having a bad night functioning sexually.. its ok.. we're all mature enough to know we're not supermen or superwomen..
It must be like old home week when you all get together. I am curious how these meeting progress for just chatting and catching up to sex? Do you do theme parties? Do two of you just start making out and thing progress form there? Are there unwritten rules you don't start playing for an hour etc? Theres etiquettes at almost all functions be them written or unwritten, just curious what they are in your group.

"Select" friends-- all married, But their wives don't know.. they are cheating... there are 5 guys for wife... For me, there are 3 women.. all widowed, divorced and single. And we both limit our extracaricullar sex to just those "select" friends.. we are not picking up strangers... yuk!!!
This is just a fantasy, I'm thinking of one of the guys wife finding out and insisting on coming to a get together to see what goes on. Then somehow becoming the center of attention for the group.
They are actually friends we've known forever.. and we approached each seperately in deep thought discussion about the "Select" friend thing we wanted. We wanted married because they have something to keep secret.. single people talk too much and are out fucking others. The attitude is recreational sex w/ friends we can trust for safty and privacy.... we are both allowed to be w/ any, anytime. we usually tell the other if its about to happen. Because we're a couple/partners and in love & respect, its not or never in subtitute for being w/ each other... so encounters are not selfish in timing as to interfere w/ our time together... its extracariccular.
I guess this arrangement does come in handy when one person is just really horny and the other is away or not feeling the same way. Kind of a nice pleasure outlet to have.
Attitude, attitude, attitude counts.. above all... no one is leaving their spouse for the other..
Probably rule number one, and once everyone realizes this the group becomes better and stronger.
The biggest worry is that their wives fund out... but being married and cheating.. you tend to keep your mouth shut and not put yourself in jeopedy... She dosen't see all 5 weekly.. its if they can, and sometimes they don't/can't, etc.... same with the 3 women I know.... btw- the 3 women I know were friends of my wife so she arranged it all... they are all Bi- w/ her and I supply the manly affection they need when needed...
Ok another fantasy: Mr GRITS is home in bed with a lady friend fucking her for all he's worth when Mrs GRITS come home. She hears whats going on and stops on the way to the bedroom, stands at the door and watches them for a minute. Giving her tits and pussy a little rub when enters the room saying hi as she climbs on her girlfriends face and passionately kisses hubby. I live my swinging life through you two...
Anyone is free to quit anytime.. but why ruin a good thing.. there are no participation requirements.. its when you want to agreeably w/ the other..

Look, its not a situtation everyone falls into, or normal maybe... but we actually had a plan, refined it , worked on it, and implemented it happlily TOGETHER... that made the difference. Not Craiglist easy.

I hope that answered your Questions?? ---if not tell me, I'll try

[stiv837]

Since last fall Connie has been fucking the forty five year old son of one of my friends . She doesn't know that i encouraged him to go to our house when I'm at work and seduce her. All it took was three visits and a bottle of wine.
He emails me all the details and he also sent me pictures of his cock. He said he would try to get sneaky photos of her for me ,but I told him not to . If she catches him , the affair would probably be over and I would much prefer him fucking her than seeing her naked.

[GRITS]

Originally Posted by stiv837

Since last fall Connie has been fucking the forty five year old son of one of my friends . She doesn't know that i encouraged him to go to our house when I'm at work and seduce her. All it took was three visits and a bottle of wine.
He emails me all the details and he also sent me pictures of his cock. He said he would try to get sneaky photos of her for me ,but I told him not to . If she catches him , the affair would probably be over and I would much prefer him fucking her than seeing her naked.

How about just a reg. pic of your wife?

What do they do?.. she likes --he likes-- in their sexual romps?

Anything she dosen't do with you?

[stiv837]

I will have to get a photo of her and censor her face , I'm getting ready to leave for work and probably won't be home for about twelve hours so hopefully he will be dropping by for a visit. He loves having his cock sucked and she is quite skilled at it from much practice over the years. She likes riding him and he said this is the way that always makes her cum , of course I already knew that. They are now using are marital bed, which is a very big turn on for me. He said she is has started to let him cum in her mouth , something she has never done for me. She told him no anal ,something else I have never been able to get from her , I told him to keep trying.

[GRITS]

Originally Posted by stiv837

I will have to get a photo of her and censor her face , I'm getting ready to leave for work and probably won't be home for about twelve hours so hopefully he will be dropping by for a visit. He loves having his cock sucked and she is quite skilled at it from much practice over the years. She likes riding him and he said this is the way that always makes her cum , of course I already knew that. They are now using are marital bed, which is a very big turn on for me. He said she is has started to let him cum in her mouth , something she has never done for me. She told him no anal ,something else I have never been able to get from her , I told him to keep trying.

Interaction on this site makes it worth while....

Try the open phone thing... we do it often...

[Dwaino]

Originally Posted by stiv837

I will have to get a photo of her and censor her face , I'm getting ready to leave for work and probably won't be home for about twelve hours so hopefully he will be dropping by for a visit. He loves having his cock sucked and she is quite skilled at it from much practice over the years. She likes riding him and he said this is the way that always makes her cum , of course I already knew that. They are now using are marital bed, which is a very big turn on for me. He said she is has started to let him cum in her mouth , something she has never done for me. She told him no anal ,something else I have never been able to get from her , I told him to keep trying.

Can't wait to hear more of your wife and her new playmate. Love to hear about these true, real life current exploits. Please keep the updates coming.

[GRITS]

Had another little session for the wife yesterday... we've had several since our last post, but thought I'd post this one.

Got a few "select" friends to come over yesterday afternoon to fuck the wife silly... they did!!
2 guys , plus me and her...mmmf...... she was happy as usual and made sure everyone had a good time fucking her.
She constantly had a cock or 2 or 3 in her all afternoon taking cum in all her holes...... not much to tell, use your imagination of 3 guys using her all afternoon, with her just wearing white high heels. Trust me that anything you can imagine, HAPPENED!!!...lol

[GRITS]

MAN!!!!!...!..ITS REALLY HOT OUT!!!

STAY COOL AMERICA!!!!!!

[GRITS]

Hi...

We played cuck a game yesterday afternoon........ The wife invited 3 select friends over for fun, and I left the house...

She text me after they were there for about an hour, and I arrived and played the surprised husband to her friends..
These are regular fuck friends, but we played that I didn't know they were there fucking my wife...The guys were a little surprised to see me arrive, as she told them I'd be gone all day.

So i arrived and walked into the bedroom to find her tied to the bed getting fucked!! with the other 2 guys standing to the side waiting their turn?... I responded, " well what the fuck??, you didn't tell me you invited anyone over today?"...... she replied, " I needed cock, so I got some"..... She told me to get undressed and sit down and watch... so I did....all while she had her black stockings & pink high heels in the air getting fucked!!.. they never lost a thrust..lol
I asked, how long the guys were there and she told me about an hour?.... what's been going on in that hour?, and she said, "they've been fucking your married pussy".... how about otherwise?,,, and she replied, " I took 2 loads in my mouth earlier?"... "but "M" (the guy in her pussy) didn't cum yet"...... so I told M to stop for a moment,,, and I sucked her wet used pussy and kissed her.. then I sat back down and M got back on and continued fucking her.
She started playing with M's nipples and talking dirty to him, how hes fucking her inf front of her husband... moments later, M was hard moaning a sperm load into her married pussy, and she had her own orgasm feeling it.
M got up, and told me, "I just fucked your wife"....I said , "and you did a good job!".

Meanwhile w/o any conversation, the next guy climbed on and started fucking her still tied to the bed.!!....the view I had was watching her legs spread in the air, and his cock & balls slamming her deep... I asked "T", do you like fucking my wife?...... "T" replied, "I always love fucking your married sl*t"!!.... "watch me while I give her a heavy cum load"...I told him to give it to her good,, and he did!!.. her bent knees high heels in the air were waving around like crazy while he was pumping her hard... she was moaning and telling him to give it to her.....suddenly "T" said to me, "I'm going to give her my cumload now, are you ready to see it?"... and he let go into her pussy as they both moaned heavy!!!............. he got off her, and she spread her legs on the bed for me to see the 2 loads she just took while smiling at me.....her pussy lips were swollen with desire.........then the next guy took his turn on her and started fucking her.... "S" just started pumping her and he only lasted a few minutes, then he just yelled, "take it sl*t" and he exploded in her pussy.......

Now that 3 loads in her, and she layed there hands tied to the bed with her legs bent & spread with sperm leaking out......."Honey, see what your friends did to your helpless wife?!!?!!" .... I told her, "thats what happens to sl*t wives"...... then I climbed on and slid my cock into her sperm lubed pussy and started fucking her sloppy 4ths... her pussy felt soooo hot and slippery fucking her filled like that..she was talking cuck talk to me and I couldn't hold back and added my sperm to theirs.... what a mess!!

She just layed there spread enjoying it all smiling at me....then she told me to sit and watch!.. watch what?... she wanted me to watch her with the guys the rest of the afternoon like a cuck.... I said OK...as I like to watch her.

They untied her and she knelt on the bed in front of me as all that 4 loads of sperm was dripping out onto her black stockings...she said, "do you like seeing your friends fuck me?"...I just smiled..... she took off her schoolgirl skit then went into the shower to freshen up. she came out with her stockings wet... Wet stockings!! wow I love that feel!! she came over to me and I caressed her wet legs as she kissed me, and told me to sit and watch... .... I watched her get on top of one guy and then the other took her ass, as the other took her mouth.. she was airtight in wet black stocking and pink high heels.... I told the guys to fuck her good and hard... they were pulling her hair, holding her ass, slammimg her in all holes... they exploded in her ass & pussy... then the moth guy flipped her over doggy facing me and fucked her pussy unloading again!!... cum was drooling out of her mouth while he was deep fucking her from behind....I loved watching............ everyone was exhausted... a recharge was required by all....... she came over to me in the chair and straddled me rubbing her sperm pussy on the tip of my cock, and drooling sperm onto her tits rubbing it onto her nipples telling me how good it felt.... my cock was aching with hardness, so she sucked my cock with the guys sperm in her mouth and I exploded in her mouth too.. she dribbled it onto her tits..... she took another shower rinse off and everyone was recharged??................She came over to me and sat on my lap backwards as a guy lifted her legs and fucked her on my lap so I could feel the motion.... From there, the 3 guys were fucking her and she was sucking them in all kinds of ways with plenty of verbal dirty talk from all, including me..... I really enjoyed watching her and them fucking & sucking my wife and treating her like a sl*t.... I quess she IS a sl*t fucking 3 guys in front of her husband!!??!!

In the end they all filled her one last time and went home... she layed on the bed exhausted filled with sperm in all her holes......and some on her body too......She told me how much she enjoyed our game today, and how much she enjoyed getting fucked in front of me......I climbed onto her missionary and slide into her HOT sperm wet pussy and fucked her while she cuck talked me to orgasm.....what a feeling... we took and intimate shower together to end the afternoon.