Viewing porn with wife/gf/partner

[luckybigman76]

I am curious to know how many people watch or view porn with their wife, girlfriend or partner on a regular or semi regular basis.

For me, other than the occasional viewing of pictures, it really is not something my wife is into.

Before I met my wife, the girl i was going out with absolutely loved it. My story.

While in college, I was in a long term relationship with a very sexual girl. She was far more experienced when we met and she taught me quite a bit. We both lived at home and had both parents working so during the day, if we didn't have a class, the houses were empty. It made for a great deal of opportunity to mess around.

One day we were laying in bed after having sex and she asked me about when i started to masturbate and what got me excited enough to do it. I had found a magazine in the woods near my house when i was younger and made use of the pictures. Since finding the magazine, and now being old enough to buy my own, i had a porn stash that i kept under my dresser. It was the late 80's and early 90's so the availability was limited to magazines and VHS tapes.

She asked to see the magazines I had. I showed her and within 2 or 3 minutes we were going at it again. Looking at pictures, and reading stories became part of our routine. Pics and stories turned both of us on to the point of sex occurring almost daily. A few times, we went to a local "short stay motel' that had "in room movies". This only escalated her enjoyment of porn and our use of it as part of our foreplay.

Anyone else care to share your story?

I didn't marry her but we did go out for almost 4 years....the sex was great and a pleasant memory.

[Barmixer]

My wife absolutely loves to watch porn movies - years ago she saw a scene in a movie with Ron Jeremy and Ginger Lynn on a beach. She mounted him reverse cowgirl and the sight of his cock going in caused her to have a very intense orgasm - no touching.

She loves porn movies that show a cock penetrating a pussy, but lately she likes a scene from a movie where India Summer is being eaten outdoors. This totally gets her off!

[ioutd]

My wife is very sexual but does not like the idea of Porn. Any thoughts on a good "Intro". I think she would like it if it wasn't super hardcore right out the gate.

[luckybigman76]

Originally Posted by ioutd

My wife is very sexual but does not like the idea of Porn. Any thoughts on a good "Intro". I think she would like it if it wasn't super hardcore right out the gate.

I think that is why the first set of pictures my gf looked at really got her going. The porn of the 80’s, especially the popular magazines, wasn’t too hardcore. I can vaguely remember the first picture spread….the girl was posing, not simulating anything, not even touching herself. It was sexy and provocative. The girl did have her legs spread, but that was it.

My wife enjoys us looking at pics from time to time as i stated earlier. She likes to look at naked guys, but not touching themselves. That is where i started with her. We fool around sexting pics now and then with a “what do you think” theme, or a would you do it with him thing. Maybe start there? Hope this helps

[whatnow3]

Lisa will watch it with me although we don't tend to watch much hard core porn anymore. I grew up watching all those softcore movies on Cinemax and Showtime so I still have a fondness for them. Things like Emmanuelle, Lady Chatterley, Felicity and such. Lisa tends to like those better just because there does seem to be at least a slightly less cheesy plot line. And she goes for the suggestive more than the in your face. As far as online porn, I have found she likes "amateur" stuff more with maybe a favorite might be those older Rafian At The Edge videos of people getting it on at a beach.

[Shihoin]

My first wife and I went through an "internet porn viewing phase" to spice up our sex life.

It usually ended up with her blowing me while we watched; and me jizzing in her face. Not very satisfying for her; I was just too distracted by the hot porn stars.

One interesting came out of it though. We happened upon an anal scene, and much to my surprise she said she wanted to try it. So she laid on her stomach and I went up "in there" while she continued watching. That was the most fun we had while watching porn together.

I recommend it if you're trying to get new ideas for sex. The trick is to not get too "absorbed" into what's going on the screen at the expense of your partner lol!