Fantasies your a bit of ashamed of

[piecenick]

It sounds like a messy job that needed to be done, the fact that he may have enjoyed doing it is besides the point. What if he had just put her in bed dirty, covered in vomit? Then she and her friends would be right to criticize, and where were they, why didn't some woman go take care of her?

Getting passed out drunk, she is lucky getting seen nude was the worst that happened to her. This was her fault she needed help, not his.

[pball2295]

Originally Posted by piecenick

It sounds like a messy job that needed to be done, the fact that he may have enjoyed doing it is besides the point. What if he had just put her in bed dirty, covered in vomit? Then she and her friends would be right to criticize, and where were they, why didn't some woman go take care of her?

Getting passed out drunk, she is lucky getting seen nude was the worst that happened to her. This was her fault she needed help, not his.

I hear this perspective. Sounds like you're agreeing with some of the commenters in the original thread.

Well, again, the deal is, this guy was longtime friends with the girl. So it wasn't really a 'girlfriends needing to take care of girlfriends' type situation. All her friends knew this guy was her longtime friend, and they were all drunk, whereas the guy was sober enough to drive. So from their perspective they were making a responsible decision (I think they were, in fact).

I think I'd still play devil's advocate. Why couldn't he have removed her dress, gotten some washrags or a towel, and cleaned her up 80%. This would have been an easy way to respect her privacy in a vulnerable moment. Sure, she would have woken up feeling a bit dirty, but that tends to happen when you get black out drunk.

Don't get me wrong -- the pervy part of me loves the fact that he stripped and showered his drunk dream girl. But it still feels like recognized the perfect opportunity to get her naked. I have a few really cute female friends. I can imagine this situation happening with them. If I were to get them naked and in the shower in a situation like this (as opposed to simply cleaning them off and leaving their underwear on), I'm sure I'd be fighting back a boner the whole time. Probably not even fighting it lol.

Does anyone agree with me? It's fine if not lol. Just curious.

[eviltwin]

Originally Posted by pball2295

Does anyone agree with me? It's fine if not lol. Just curious.

It depends on some of the stuff left out, I’d say. The girl blacked out, but that doesn’t equate unconsciousness. Most of the time people this drunk can still somewhat cooperate and interact, so we don’t know how she actually acted in the situation. She might have been more cooperative than she realises now, which would make it way less creepy.
Also, it’s implied that he somewhat took advantage of her and washed/touched her in intimate areas, but we don’t know that. She might just have had a hosing down and a hair wash, or she took care of some of it herself.

Taking advantage of her in any sexual way would be a serious offence in her state, but undressing her and cleaning her up is the right thing to do, IMO.

If she was actually unconscious I doubt he’d be able to do all that, and if so it would have been very reckless to not seek medical assistance as she could have had severe alcohol poisoning.

My view is obviously affected by having seen many of my female friends in various state of undress already, it’s not that a big thing in Scandinavia, and I’m also from a generation where we were more relaxed about these things than seems to be the case now.

[piecenick]

One thing I failed to mention is that something very similar to this happened to me. My wife's friend, Sandra, was staying with us because of some work on her house, what we didn't know was that she was an alcoholic. Sandra went with us to a bar to meet some friends for drinks, when it was too late, he noticed that Sandra was pretty drunk, coherent, but pretty drunk. We took her back home with us and on the way, yep, she vomited in my car, when we got home my wife took her in while I cleansed up the car, it wasn't too bad, she got it on herself mostly.

My wife took her in the bathroom to wash her up, I was a little pissed, so I got a drink to relax, not very long before my wife called me, I went to the bathroom, my wife said to get in there to help her. Sandra was nude and my wife was trying to give her a shower, I suggested to just let her sit down, a bath would be easier. Sandra had a much nicer rack than I expected, but I watcher her while my wife got more towels and her clothes.

We got her clean, Sandra woke for a while, saw me and got made a comment about why was I there. I held her up, my wife dried her off, we gave up on dressing her, so we put her in bed as she was and covered her up. We were worried that she might vomit again and aspirate it, since I'm a light sleeper, I decided I better sleep in the other bed in the room.

My wife and I were having coffee when Sandra woke up, she had put some clothes on, but she got a cup and sat with us. She was upset with my wife for letting me see her naked, she said she wasn't that drunk, an tiff ensued, the word **** was thrown out and my wife asked her to pack up and leave.

Luckily it never turned into a police report, on of our other friends who was at the bar said Sandra had called her expressing outrage, this friend told her off, told her that she was very drunk and that she was lucky to have friends who took care of her. Sandra did apologize, but I would be very reluctant to get involved in rescuing a drunk again.

[Barmixer]

Originally Posted by piecenick

One thing I failed to mention is that something very similar to this happened to me. My wife's friend, Sandra, was staying with us because of some work on her house, what we didn't know was that she was an alcoholic. Sandra went with us to a bar to meet some friends for drinks, when it was too late, he noticed that Sandra was pretty drunk, coherent, but pretty drunk. We took her back home with us and on the way, yep, she vomited in my car, when we got home my wife took her in while I cleansed up the car, it wasn't too bad, she got it on herself mostly.

My wife took her in the bathroom to wash her up, I was a little pissed, so I got a drink to relax, not very long before my wife called me, I went to the bathroom, my wife said to get in there to help her. Sandra was nude and my wife was trying to give her a shower, I suggested to just let her sit down, a bath would be easier. Sandra had a much nicer rack than I expected, but I watcher her while my wife got more towels and her clothes.

We got her clean, Sandra woke for a while, saw me and got made a comment about why was I there. I held her up, my wife dried her off, we gave up on dressing her, so we put her in bed as she was and covered her up. We were worried that she might vomit again and aspirate it, since I'm a light sleeper, I decided I better sleep in the other bed in the room.

My wife and I were having coffee when Sandra woke up, she had put some clothes on, but she got a cup and sat with us. She was upset with my wife for letting me see her naked, she said she wasn't that drunk, an tiff ensued, the word **** was thrown out and my wife asked her to pack up and leave.

Luckily it never turned into a police report, on of our other friends who was at the bar said Sandra had called her expressing outrage, this friend told her off, told her that she was very drunk and that she was lucky to have friends who took care of her. Sandra did apologize, but I would be very reluctant to get involved in rescuing a drunk again.

And this is a fantasy??

[piecenick]

Originally Posted by Barmixer

And this is a fantasy??

Unfortunately, no. BTW, no one looks sexy when they are drunk, vomiting and dirty.

[Taboodad40]

I've imagined fucking my step daughter nearly every day for 3 yrs

[ThomasMoore]

So this is kind of tame in the arena of Fantasies but it is something that has fascinated since my wife was pregnant years ago.
Last night we happened to be out with some friends who are about 20 years younger than wife and I. In a strange way they remind me of us when we were younger and we were enjoying dinner. They had recently had a new baby and we took them out for one of the first outings without the little one. It is cold here and friends wife was wearing a dark plum colored turtleneck shirt. Around halfway through dinner I was talking to her while wife and her husband were talking work and I noticed that she had a bit of a wet spot on her shirt where her nipple was. I didnt say anything or stare but realized she mush have been leaking breast milk. We have grown kids but my wife would leak and it absolutely turned me on and drove me wild. Shortly after I noticed the wife excused herself and when she returned, due to the material of her top I could see the faint lines of maybe a pad over her nipples.
This experience made my mind think nonstop about my wife when she had large milk filled boobs. This is not really a Fantasy but it is something that I have never told my wife about. When my wife was pregnant her boobs swelled to a full cup size larger than normal topping out at 36E. I have always loved her large boobs and big nipples and the sight of her boobs when they filled with milk really turned me on. As she got closer to her due date she actually got pretty horny and liked to have sex. One evening during this time she was riding on top of me and as she approached her orgasm began to drip milk from her nipples. This image is burned into my brain and I would continually try to tease her and turn her on during her pregnancy and while nursing to see this again and again.
Sometimes when we were out in public I would try to touch her in a way that aroused her knowing I could get her nipples to leak and she would smile sheepishly as it started to happen. Our homes all have either clear glassed in showers or in the case of our vacation home a total walk in shower without any door. This has always allowed me the watch her shower. For some reason last night sitting there thinking of all of this, my mind raced back to when my wife would shower during the time she would nurse our kids and the warm water I think would cause her nipples to drip milk nonstop in the shower. She wouldnt notice it at first but both nipples would be dripping during her shower and while she was drying off. Ive never told her how turned on I got seeing her leak, but I still play those times over in my head. This is a pic of her pregnant riding me at that time.

[Wibble99999]

Originally Posted by Taboodad40

I've imagined fucking my step daughter nearly every day for 3 yrs

Ditto … except for me it is 20 years.

[pball2295]

One of my biggest fantasies (and realities in a few special cases!) is owning nudes of a female friend or acqauintance without her knowledge. I find this far more enjoyable than porn.

Because of this fetish - if you can call it that - I've taken to visiting websites where men post recent nudes of women they personally know. The posters are rarely ex boyfriends. More often guys who got their hands on some pics of the gals floating around among their friends, and decided to post them for the world to see.

Sometimes the girls look like they've been around the block and the pictures weren't meant to be very secretive. Other times, it's very clear that she is a true girl next door. A sweet, innocent yougn woman who took nudes for an ex-boyfriend, never dreaming that the ex-bf would share her pics with anyone. But the ex-bf did indeed share it with friends...naiively thinking he could trust THEM to not share it.

When the pics reach the eventual poster, he usually knows the girl. Sometimes, along with her nudes, he also posts a few pictures of the girl in everyday life (often a work related profile picture), along with her nudes.

When I see this, I often reverse search the image, and with a fairly high success rate, I can sometime find the woman's name and her entire online life, including her social media accounts.

So there you have it. I probably have a collection of 10 or 15 beautiful "girls next door" posing for the camera. I also have their names and many pics of them living their everyday lives. Posing happily with their husbands. At family christmas parties, and then completely naked .

It ends here for me. I'd never publically expose these girls, and it's messed up that these guys posted them in the first place. But it's so enjoyable watching them happily live their everyday lives on social media, and then enjoying them pose completely naked in the comfort of their own homes.