Fantasies your a bit of ashamed of

[HedoRocks]

Originally Posted by andrecan

I have this fantasy where I blindfold my wife and start fucking her. I quietly signal to a friend who is hiding nearby and he comes in and continues to fuck her and cum in her while I watch. Once he's done he leaves quietly and I finish off in her. She has no idea s she's just been fucked by another guy or that she's had 2 loads off cum pumped into her. Of course I'll record the whole thing on video

Definitely a fantasy of mine as well. I role played this once with my wife. Tied her up with her legs spread at the edge of the bed, blindfolded her, got her all hot and bothered. Then I left the room, went to my side door, opened it, and started whispering like I was talking to someone else. Did this for a few seconds, then came back into the room, and fucked her rougher than I usually do, didn't touch her, just started fucking her pretty hard. Finished, then left the room, whispered a bit again, closed the door, and came back. I untied her and unblindfolded her, back to normal.

She was like 50% sure it was still me, but 50% unsure. She kept saying "That was you right? No way someone else was here, right?". Like a bit unsure. I let this go for a couple of weeks, and she'd bring it up now and then. I finally confessed one night that it was all me. "I knew it!" she exclaimed! But I'm sure she was at least a little unsure. She seemed just a tiny bit disappointed. LOL

If this COVID crap ever blows over, I'm going to try it again for real this time!

[HedoRocks]

Originally Posted by beachphoto1

Vaguely, I'd love to see my wife confidently show off. That could be wearing revealing clothing or going partially nude around others or in public. I'd love for her to do a boudoir shoot - the more revealing the better, and share the photos with friends and family.

This is a good fantasy, but not one to really be ashamed of! I'm sure LOTS of men have this one. Fortunately, my wife is a willing participant, so we have actually done this! I hope it happens to you!!!

[pball2295]

I once read a true story on a Quora-like forum told by a 22 year old girl. It turned me on so much that it sort of became a fantasy.

She was seeking people's opinions about whether she had been taken advantage of or taken care of.

Here's what went down.

The girl went out to party with a bunch of her friends. There were maybe a dozen people, including a guy she grew up with. She grew up down the street from him, and described the fact that she always viewed him as a nice guy and a great friend...though was never attracted to him. People always told her that he was in love with her. A Forest Gump - Jenny type situation (except that he was a average guy -- not a dummy). From the description, it seemed pretty clear that she was a bombshell, and he was a slightly less attractive guy. But they grew up playing together, and she always had a place in her heart for him. It sounded like textbook friend zone to me.

Anyway, the group partied all night long. She reported it being a very rowdy party night. People were spilling beer on each other, it was hot and sweaty, wild etc. etc.

At some point, she became VERY drunk. Some of her more sober girlfriends agreed that they needed to get her home.

Instead, the guy (childhood friend) stepped in and said "no problem, I'm totally sober, I'll take her home." Her friends were happy to hear it. They knew they were long time friends and had no reason to think twice.

Everything after that was pretty blurry to her, because she was very, very drunk at this point.

The next thing she remembers, she woke up in his car, throwing up on her dress and in his car. The next thing she remembers, she was on her bathroom floor and he was removing her dress. She remembers asking "what's happening?" He let her know that she was very drunk, very dirty, and she needed a shower. Being way too drunk to make any rational decisions, she remembers that he gently stripped her completely naked, got her into the shower, and lathered her entire body with soap. She thinks he even washed her hair, which, according to her, likely also had vomit in it.

She woke up the next morning in her pajamas (she doesn't remember them even being put on). She was also wearing underwear and a bra, neither of which she would have put on under her pajamas normally.

Her question to world: was her friend taking care of her, or was she taken advantage of?

People's opinions varied. Some women seemed to leave open the possibility that he was just being a good guy. Like a doctor giving a physical exam to a woman. Most guys were laughing and saying "noo wayyyyyy!!!! he knew exactly what he was doing!"

Needless to say, I tend to agree with the guys on this one. I think dude saw a golden opportunity to enjoy his dream girl in an incredible way and pass it off as taking care of her. He lathered her entire body in soap, and felt the need to carefully put on her underwear and bra afterwards. My god, I can't imagine he didn't conveniently spread her legs and get his nose right next to her pussy.

Some commenters asked if he was "handsy" while giving her a shower, or if he just held her up and let the water clean her? Others asked if his clothes stayed on or if they came off in the shower? She reported not being able to remember on either count...but she thought he (might) have been in his boxers in the shower.

To my mind, if she was THIS drunk, dude probably felt it would be important for him to run his soapy hand up and down her ass crack. I'd also put the chances that he didn't take a pictures of her very low, especially if she was completely out of it.

Anyway, what do you guys think? Is there any chance his intentions were pure? Is there any chance his dreamgirl isn't passed out, pussy open on a carefully protected hard drive in his basement? I don't think I'd have the balls to do something like this...feels too risky and too wrong. But damn. Pretty damn hot!

[Jjd1]

I often fantasize about my girlfriend either losing a bet or being coaxed or forced into getiing nude and having someone send me photos of her.

[piecenick]

It sounds like a messy job that needed to be done, the fact that he may have enjoyed doing it is besides the point. What if he had just put her in bed dirty, covered in vomit? Then she and her friends would be right to criticize, and where were they, why didn't some woman go take care of her?

Getting passed out drunk, she is lucky getting seen nude was the worst that happened to her. This was her fault she needed help, not his.

[pball2295]

Originally Posted by piecenick

It sounds like a messy job that needed to be done, the fact that he may have enjoyed doing it is besides the point. What if he had just put her in bed dirty, covered in vomit? Then she and her friends would be right to criticize, and where were they, why didn't some woman go take care of her?

Getting passed out drunk, she is lucky getting seen nude was the worst that happened to her. This was her fault she needed help, not his.

I hear this perspective. Sounds like you're agreeing with some of the commenters in the original thread.

Well, again, the deal is, this guy was longtime friends with the girl. So it wasn't really a 'girlfriends needing to take care of girlfriends' type situation. All her friends knew this guy was her longtime friend, and they were all drunk, whereas the guy was sober enough to drive. So from their perspective they were making a responsible decision (I think they were, in fact).

I think I'd still play devil's advocate. Why couldn't he have removed her dress, gotten some washrags or a towel, and cleaned her up 80%. This would have been an easy way to respect her privacy in a vulnerable moment. Sure, she would have woken up feeling a bit dirty, but that tends to happen when you get black out drunk.

Don't get me wrong -- the pervy part of me loves the fact that he stripped and showered his drunk dream girl. But it still feels like recognized the perfect opportunity to get her naked. I have a few really cute female friends. I can imagine this situation happening with them. If I were to get them naked and in the shower in a situation like this (as opposed to simply cleaning them off and leaving their underwear on), I'm sure I'd be fighting back a boner the whole time. Probably not even fighting it lol.

Does anyone agree with me? It's fine if not lol. Just curious.

[eviltwin]

Originally Posted by pball2295

Does anyone agree with me? It's fine if not lol. Just curious.

It depends on some of the stuff left out, I’d say. The girl blacked out, but that doesn’t equate unconsciousness. Most of the time people this drunk can still somewhat cooperate and interact, so we don’t know how she actually acted in the situation. She might have been more cooperative than she realises now, which would make it way less creepy.
Also, it’s implied that he somewhat took advantage of her and washed/touched her in intimate areas, but we don’t know that. She might just have had a hosing down and a hair wash, or she took care of some of it herself.

Taking advantage of her in any sexual way would be a serious offence in her state, but undressing her and cleaning her up is the right thing to do, IMO.

If she was actually unconscious I doubt he’d be able to do all that, and if so it would have been very reckless to not seek medical assistance as she could have had severe alcohol poisoning.

My view is obviously affected by having seen many of my female friends in various state of undress already, it’s not that a big thing in Scandinavia, and I’m also from a generation where we were more relaxed about these things than seems to be the case now.

[piecenick]

One thing I failed to mention is that something very similar to this happened to me. My wife's friend, Sandra, was staying with us because of some work on her house, what we didn't know was that she was an alcoholic. Sandra went with us to a bar to meet some friends for drinks, when it was too late, he noticed that Sandra was pretty drunk, coherent, but pretty drunk. We took her back home with us and on the way, yep, she vomited in my car, when we got home my wife took her in while I cleansed up the car, it wasn't too bad, she got it on herself mostly.

My wife took her in the bathroom to wash her up, I was a little pissed, so I got a drink to relax, not very long before my wife called me, I went to the bathroom, my wife said to get in there to help her. Sandra was nude and my wife was trying to give her a shower, I suggested to just let her sit down, a bath would be easier. Sandra had a much nicer rack than I expected, but I watcher her while my wife got more towels and her clothes.

We got her clean, Sandra woke for a while, saw me and got made a comment about why was I there. I held her up, my wife dried her off, we gave up on dressing her, so we put her in bed as she was and covered her up. We were worried that she might vomit again and aspirate it, since I'm a light sleeper, I decided I better sleep in the other bed in the room.

My wife and I were having coffee when Sandra woke up, she had put some clothes on, but she got a cup and sat with us. She was upset with my wife for letting me see her naked, she said she wasn't that drunk, an tiff ensued, the word **** was thrown out and my wife asked her to pack up and leave.

Luckily it never turned into a police report, on of our other friends who was at the bar said Sandra had called her expressing outrage, this friend told her off, told her that she was very drunk and that she was lucky to have friends who took care of her. Sandra did apologize, but I would be very reluctant to get involved in rescuing a drunk again.

[Barmixer]

Originally Posted by piecenick

One thing I failed to mention is that something very similar to this happened to me. My wife's friend, Sandra, was staying with us because of some work on her house, what we didn't know was that she was an alcoholic. Sandra went with us to a bar to meet some friends for drinks, when it was too late, he noticed that Sandra was pretty drunk, coherent, but pretty drunk. We took her back home with us and on the way, yep, she vomited in my car, when we got home my wife took her in while I cleansed up the car, it wasn't too bad, she got it on herself mostly.

My wife took her in the bathroom to wash her up, I was a little pissed, so I got a drink to relax, not very long before my wife called me, I went to the bathroom, my wife said to get in there to help her. Sandra was nude and my wife was trying to give her a shower, I suggested to just let her sit down, a bath would be easier. Sandra had a much nicer rack than I expected, but I watcher her while my wife got more towels and her clothes.

We got her clean, Sandra woke for a while, saw me and got made a comment about why was I there. I held her up, my wife dried her off, we gave up on dressing her, so we put her in bed as she was and covered her up. We were worried that she might vomit again and aspirate it, since I'm a light sleeper, I decided I better sleep in the other bed in the room.

My wife and I were having coffee when Sandra woke up, she had put some clothes on, but she got a cup and sat with us. She was upset with my wife for letting me see her naked, she said she wasn't that drunk, an tiff ensued, the word **** was thrown out and my wife asked her to pack up and leave.

Luckily it never turned into a police report, on of our other friends who was at the bar said Sandra had called her expressing outrage, this friend told her off, told her that she was very drunk and that she was lucky to have friends who took care of her. Sandra did apologize, but I would be very reluctant to get involved in rescuing a drunk again.

And this is a fantasy??

[piecenick]

Originally Posted by Barmixer

And this is a fantasy??

Unfortunately, no. BTW, no one looks sexy when they are drunk, vomiting and dirty.