How open is your wife about her past?

[nectcouple]

That's hot. The "good old days"!

[qazzy1749]

She was playing one of those FB games on add up what you haven't done. She posted her score was 3 for haven't.

It was easy for me to figure out which ones. She has not been arrested. Almost mess up with piercing which she doesn't have on her nipples or lower, but she does have pierced earrings. She has not gone zip line yet. Talked about getting a tattoo but haven't decided what and where. So I got her 3 haven't done.

In the list was 'one night stand' which she finally confirmed in this game. So casually talking to her she confirmed those are the 3 she haven't done. "So who was your one night stand?" I asked. She smiled but said "I'll never tell you." but then followed up saying there were 2 of them. See, she doesn't forget a thing, as sometimes she claims when she doesn't want to say.

Now I have the 2 one night stands tucked away. Just have to find out when she is in the right mood to tell me. Collect the information and then piece them together bit by bit.

[collector5757]

I just started reading this thread, and your wife's adventures are hitting the sweet spot with me. Both her casual but clearly deliberate (gas station) flashing, and definitely her "accidentally" flashing your friend over and over- more please!! Thanks for sharing--

[Duran Duran]

Originally Posted by qazzy1749

See, she doesn't forget a thing, as sometimes she claims when she doesn't want to say.

That's one of the rights of being a woman!
My wife will conveniently forgot things that are unforgettable yet at the same time she will remember the tiniest detail I told her about an ex lover.

I think women in general prefer to live in the moment unless it's about your ex!

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I've gotten very little from my wife about sex with her ex. She said he was unremarkable apart from one time where they did it at work. She also told me that he wasn't interested in watching her get herself off. I was stunned. My wife ain't no wet leaf and can have multiple, multiple orgasms. They'll just keep coming if she's in the right mood. For her ex to not be interested in that makes me wonder just how much of a dumbass he was.

Apart from those two tidbits though, she has told me very little sexually about him. I guess because there is very little to tell!

[Summer120]

[QUOTE=Duran Duran;3007041]That's one of the rights of being a woman!
My wife will conveniently forgot things that are unforgettable yet at the same time she will remember the tiniest detail I told her about an ex lover.

I think women in general prefer to live in the moment unless it's about your ex!


*That is so spot on. For my wife, so many things get forgotten-and I have walked through each encounter with her, and no recollection. Even her knowing some details enough to share would get me going, she just doesn’t remember or keeps secret. She of course remembers every detail with me or about us, and can fine comb every last bit of what I have shared with her. It just leaves so much to my imagination

[qazzy1749]

[QUOTE=Summer120;3007314]

Originally Posted by Duran Duran

That's one of the rights of being a woman!
My wife will conveniently forgot things that are unforgettable yet at the same time she will remember the tiniest detail I told her about an ex lover.

I think women in general prefer to live in the moment unless it's about your ex!


*That is so spot on. For my wife, so many things get forgotten-and I have walked through each encounter with her, and no recollection. Even her knowing some details enough to share would get me going, she just doesn’t remember or keeps secret. She of course remembers every detail with me or about us, and can fine comb every last bit of what I have shared with her. It just leaves so much to my imagination

So true. That's exactly how I feel too.

[Gnome72141]

Originally Posted by qazzy1749

"So who was your one night stand?" I asked. She smiled but said "I'll never tell you." but then followed up saying there were 2 of them.

Saying "I'll never tell you" would break my heart then and there and be unfixable. My wife tells me everything!

[indym]

Not my wife, but that is the future plan.

We've not inquired too much into each other's pasts but are not hiding things from each other, to my knowledge. I have a longer past, and she isn't a jealous maniac but has been triggered by certain things (e.g. a woman she doesn't like flirting with me). I'm sure she has had sex with a handful (maybe a couple hands full) of guys. She is younger and wrapping up school, but I was caught off guard in a positive way recently.

If any of you have read some of my other posts, I've mentioned that she has a best friend that she is roommates with at school. They talk to each other a couple of times a day and are really close, and she has started to have a bit of an exhibitionist streak catching me changing or in the shower and turning her facetime camera on me. We've shown the two of us to her, too.

I don't protest other than a "hey", because it is a turn-on. I have wondered why she likes doing it (again, no complaint from me), but I didn't want her to stop if I asked the question in the wrong way. I've asked during hard sex if she likes showing me off and got a yes, but I never brought it up afterward, and she didn't either.

Sorry for the back story, but that is the reason I learned about this part of her sexual past. I finally just came out and told her that it was a turn-on for me when she does that and to keep doing it. I got a little bit of push back along the lines of "oh, so you like her seeing you," and I thought I had screwed up. I didn't, thankfully, and I just answered that I thought it was hot that she did it. I asked if she had ever done anything with her GF before, and I got a sort of shy answer of "yes". My mind was 100% on her girlfriend doing the reverse and showing off her boyfriend, but nope that wasn't it. The two of them have played together.

I don't think she was trying to be deceitful but acted embarrassed by it. I probably asked her for a half-hour on the what/when/where. She started off shyly telling me about it and got more into it the more I did. They rent a house together at school with two other girlfriends, and the two of them share a bathroom. They had been very casual around each other, getting ready for a long time. Her girlfriend "S" had a broken arm and was in a cast, and needed help wrapping her arm in a plastic bag to take a shower. It sounds like they did that a few times, and it evolved to just helping her take a shower with a wand vs. spending 10 mins trying to wrap and tape a bag on her arm. That led to being even more casual around each other and ended up with helping her shave her legs and other parts. I don't know how quickly things jumped from wash my back to shave the back of my legs, but if I had a time machine, I try to dial in the date for shave my pussy

The pinnacle is that they have both gone down on each other. I don't know how often it happened, but I know it did once, and it was S who did it first. When I asked what led to that, I just got a smile. Any attempts to find out more have been met with a smirk/smile. I did at least get a sort of reluctant "yes" to my question if she liked it. No offense intended if this is your thing, but I'm glad her secret wasn't fucking the football team

[Brad_Is_Bad]

She opens up a bit at a time... if I ask a lot of questions she stops sharing. I've learned the more I want to know, the less I should ask.

I'll probably never know everything, but I think I know what I REALLY need to know.

[Kar.tom69]

I LOVE....with all capital letters, hearing about my wife's past.

She has had more experience than me, and was far wilder.