Wife has lost some desire for husband

[Saddledrifter]

We have married a long, long time. When we were young, my wife loved sex with me, but over the years she has lost a lot of her desire to have sex with me. I figured it was just a post menopause thing with her. However, one night we ended up swapping with another couple. We were all together in the same room for the swap. I could not get over how she just went wild over sex with another guy. It was as if she was having sex in her 20's or 30's. She was a wild woman and could not get enough of him. Since that time, she has been with others, and it is the same thing. I have fucked her in some cases before she screws the awaiting guy, and she is so wet knowing that strange sex is soon arriving that it is amazing. She is never that wet when it is just she and I. I am curious as to whether there is a marijuana that makes a woman so horny that she is ready for wild, ravenous sex -- even with her old hubby. I want to see her turned on as much with sex with old faithful as these strangers in the night. So can anyone recommend a strain of pot that will make her want sex so badly that she is crawling out of her skin. I need some outside assistance.

[fantasyfuhkker]

Is a woman's imagination. I suggest you continue to feed that and enjoy the benefits.

[cufan86]

Originally Posted by fantasyfuhkker

Is a woman's imagination. I suggest you continue to feed that and enjoy the benefits.

I agree. What I think would work is to blindfold her and tie her hands up. Work her up by rubbing your hands all over her, kissing, etc while talking about someone coming to fuck her. Can be a stranger or friend, whatever. Then say he has arrived. Leave for a bit then come back and fuck her without saying anything. Leave then come back as you and untie her.

[anonjohn]

Originally Posted by Saddledrifter

We have married a long, long time. When we were young, my wife loved sex with me, but over the years she has lost a lot of her desire to have sex with me. I figured it was just a post menopause thing with her. However, one night we ended up swapping with another couple. We were all together in the same room for the swap. I could not get over how she just went wild over sex with another guy. It was as if she was having sex in her 20's or 30's. She was a wild woman and could not get enough of him. Since that time, she has been with others, and it is the same thing. I have fucked her in some cases before she screws the awaiting guy, and she is so wet knowing that strange sex is soon arriving that it is amazing. She is never that wet when it is just she and I. I am curious as to whether there is a marijuana that makes a woman so horny that she is ready for wild, ravenous sex -- even with her old hubby. I want to see her turned on as much with sex with old faithful as these strangers in the night. So can anyone recommend a strain of pot that will make her want sex so badly that she is crawling out of her skin. I need some outside assistance.

I think it's her changed attitude/belief.
Being with other men (generally very dangerous according to counsellors) has rekindled her libido, she probably believes she is sexy and desirable "again" - despite her age, being post-menopause and believing she is "past-it". She has the positive feedback of success, excitement and orgasm. She might even think I only have X years left - why not enjoy them.

No doubt you have shown your appreciation and enjoyment of her body over the years, but sometimes spouses don't listen to or believe their other half and will only believe a third party.

Other commentators have suggested ways of building on this success without drugs - think of ways of spicing things up between the two of you.

Drugs for this purpose is, I think, a dangerous idea which could backfire. Even if there was a tested pharmaceutical which did you would consider the possible side-effects. Yet you are apparently considering giving your wife a random dose of an untested, unregulated substance from an untrustworthy stranger (who might be selling you an adulterated product) as a "treatment".

[Saddledrifter]

Hi,

The state where I live has registered stores that sell both THC and CBD varieties of marijuana. So the stores are regulated, and I would not be purchasing anything from a back alley.

[Saddledrifter]

I love your suggestion of letting her fuck someone else blindfolded and tied to a bed. I suggested the scenario to her, and although she is not into bondage, she agreed to the concept. I told her to be prepared for the episode to occur this Saturday night about 8:00 p.m. I told her that I would tie her up nude and spread-eagled for some stranger to have his way with her. She asked if I would be present to protect her, and I said, "Most certainly." I explained that no one was to talk other than her. She can provide instructions, moan, groan, call out, or whatever. However, me and the guy are not to say a word -- unless he gets out of control. I could tell she was excited about the scenario, because she started breathing hard while discussing it. Of course, as you suggested, I will serve as the stranger to determine if she is as animated with me, the stranger, as other lovers. The question for you is: When should I tell her it was me? So, if all goes as planned, I will report what happened tomorrow night or Sunday. She asked me how many times he would fuck her. I told her as many times as he could or she felt like it. I asked her if she were going to give him a BJ, and she said that she didn't want to sacrifice a climax for him in lieu of a fuck for her. She asked why he would not talk during the scenario. I replied that he might know her, and didn't want to risk his wife learning about any of this. She asked if she should be concerned that a guy who knows her would be screwing her. I told her that if she knew who it was, she would like it.

[rracoonz]

Originally Posted by Saddledrifter

The question for you is: When should I tell her it was me? So, if all goes as planned, I will report what happened tomorrow night or Sunday. She asked me how many times he would fuck her. I told her as many times as he could or she felt like it. I asked her if she were going to give him a BJ, and she said that she didn't want to sacrifice a climax for him in lieu of a fuck for her. She asked why he would not talk during the scenario. I replied that he might know her, and didn't want to risk his wife learning about any of this. She asked if she should be concerned that a guy who knows her would be screwing her. I told her that if she knew who it was, she would like it.

I wouldn't tell her it was you. Keep her guessing!
Look forward to reading how it goes. A pic would be nice too!

[solva193]

Originally Posted by Saddledrifter

I love your suggestion of letting her fuck someone else blindfolded and tied to a bed. I suggested the scenario to her, and although she is not into bondage, she agreed to the concept. I told her to be prepared for the episode to occur this Saturday night about 8:00 p.m. I told her that I would tie her up nude and spread-eagled for some stranger to have his way with her. She asked if I would be present to protect her, and I said, "Most certainly." I explained that no one was to talk other than her. She can provide instructions, moan, groan, call out, or whatever. However, me and the guy are not to say a word -- unless he gets out of control. I could tell she was excited about the scenario, because she started breathing hard while discussing it. Of course, as you suggested, I will serve as the stranger to determine if she is as animated with me, the stranger, as other lovers. The question for you is: When should I tell her it was me? So, if all goes as planned, I will report what happened tomorrow night or Sunday. She asked me how many times he would fuck her. I told her as many times as he could or she felt like it. I asked her if she were going to give him a BJ, and she said that she didn't want to sacrifice a climax for him in lieu of a fuck for her. She asked why he would not talk during the scenario. I replied that he might know her, and didn't want to risk his wife learning about any of this. She asked if she should be concerned that a guy who knows her would be screwing her. I told her that if she knew who it was, she would like it.

Don’t tell her. You need to think what are you going to do to disguise your usual behaviour - e.g. keep your hands off her (She will probably recognise them), cock to be the only contact between you, be slightly rougher/gentler?) If she doesn’t recognise you it will be exciting for her, because the fantasy will last and it could be a friend, or a stranger, or a neighbour. Agree a pic would be nice!

[Saddledrifter]

Well, we are all the way home with the strange lover plan. She wanted to start drinking early to prepare herself. She initially seemed somewhat anxious about the bondage portion of this scenario. Since I last wrote on this site, I contacted a good buddy, who I asked to take pictures of the event. He readily agreed. His name is Don. He has seen my wife nude many times in our hot tub, but never has screwed her. I think he is/was thinking that he can really get off on watching her having sex – even with me. I gave him our Apple IPhone to take the pictures, and he was ready to go. When I had her tied up, I told her that I was going to let the stranger into the room for the proposed sex. I had her hands tied out to the upper right and upper left. Her feet were tied to the lower left and lower right. She was totally nude and ready for a missionary position screw. She had shaved her pussy for the hook-up and fixed her hair and make-up to look most inviting for her strange lover. She was a little inebriated from the straight shots of Honey Jack she was downing the prior hour and a half, but definitely didn’t seem as nervous as earlier in the evening. She was beautiful and a great looking screw for any strange lover. I had told Don to ring the doorbell when he arrived, and I also told him to bring me some of his cologne for me to put on before the love-making session to help throw her off my trail. While waiting for Don, I started fondling her and kissing her boobies, as well as finger fucking her. At this stage her pussy was dry. I kneeled down between her spread legs and began to eat her out. She told me, “Not now – I want to save my juices for my lover.” So I backed off as usual.

About that time the doorbell rang. I left my wife in the bedroom and closed the door. Don was at the door, and he supplied me with cologne. Don and I agreed to having two sessions for my wife. He would only talk once at the end of the first session, and again at the beginning of the second session. We planned what he would say. Then I handed him the IPhone to take pictures of the event. We headed to the bedroom and opened the door. I said to my wife, “Your lover is here. I will stay back and let you guys go at it.” She raised her blindfolded head, and said hello. Then I took off my clothes. While doing so, I noticed Don was really looking my wife over from head to toe and had an enormous bulge in his pants. I usually am a very gentle lover with a light touch. However, I wanted to fool her into thinking that I was someone else. So I used a rough approach. I grabbed her boobs hard and squeeze them. She let out a gasp, but then turned it into a moan. I then rubbed her breast hard. Then I bent down to kiss and pull her tits out as far as they would go. About that time I heard the shutter go off on the IPhone camera. Don had left it on “Portrait.” My wife also heard the sound. She called my name immediately, and said, “No pictures. I don’t want evidence for my entire family that I have been fucking strangers. That picture gets deleted, and the damn camera put away, or this whole thing stops right now. “ I moved away from the bed, and responded. “I was only doing this for you to have a memory to refer to” She said, “Screw the picture memory. A great climax or climaxes plus is or are the memories I want.” I assured her the camera was put away. If Don had not left the camera on “Portrait,” no sound would have occurred. So I reassumed my role as the strange lover. I went back to the rough sex. I worked my way with kisses down her body and between her legs. She was getting very hot. I could feel the heat emitting from her body. She was sighing, moaning and groaning as I fondled her. Then I reached into her vagina and rigorously fingered her. To my surprise she was wet as a teenager having sex for the first time. Not dry like she was earlier in the evening when I attempted to finger her. She began to hunch with the powerful finger fucking she was getting. Then she climaxed in no time. I knelt down further and started giving her a tongue lashing. She was breathing most heavily, and then said, “I don’t think I can take any more.” I ignored her comment and continue with my tongue job. She tasted delicious. Soon she was climaxing again.

I then straddled her naked torso, and leaned down and sucked her tits really hard. She moaned once again. Then I moved my position up and slapped her across the face with my hard dick. She gasped a little. Then I slapped her once across the mouth with it, and quickly jammed that erect member into her mouth. Her hands were tied, so she couldn’t use anything but apply pressure with her lips. I kept hunching my erect member in her mouth for about 5 minutes. Then she said, “Please don’t shoot in my mouth, because I don’t like the taste of cum.” I ignored her comment and kept hunching away. She was afraid of me cumming, but also afraid not to provide good oral sex, so she kept her lips tight. She was almost gagging as I jammed that rod deep into her mouth and throat. Finally, I pulled out and worked my way back down her body with kisses and a good suck and tug on her tits. Then I jammed my member into her wet pussy. She let out a loud sigh. I didn’t go slowly. I laid pedal to the metal and started fucking her hard. She started screaming in ecstasy and breathing very heavily, as if there was not enough air to keep her lungs alive. Finally, she let out with a loud, “Yes!” She tightened up her entire body and wrapped her pussy tightly around my dick. I kept pumping at full rpm. Then when she seemed ready to explore, I shot my wad into her love crease. She hollered out loudly. I was afraid that the neighbors would come to check on her. She then said, “That’s the best fuck I have had in ages!” Then she apologized to her husband – me who just fucked her. Then I backed off of her, but gave her tits a nice hard pull as I backed away.

I then said, “Your new lover is going to take a break and have a drink. Do you want anything?” She replied that she wanted a really big Honey Jack. I told her to stay where she is/was. She said, “I feel his cum running out of me.” I told her that I would place a towel under her. Then I backed away as Don in his prepared text said in a disguised voice, “I want to get you from behind too. How does that sound. “ She nodded affirmatively. With that, I left with Don and prepared her Honey Jack. Then Don took it to her and placed it in her hand as I said, “Here is your drink.” My wife then said to me, “He is a wonderful lover.” I just replied, “Great.” I told her that I was going to visit with her lover during the break. She agreed.

After about an hour break, I had built up a little renewal. So Don and I headed back to the bedroom. She was almost asleep from all the activity and climaxes when we returned. She had finished her Honey Jack though, and still seemed somewhat inebriated. I had Don speak for me. He said, “I am going to untie you and flip you over for a good rear entry, If you start to take your blindfold off before I get you re-tied, I will walk out on you. You got that!” My wife assured us that she would not sneak a single peak. She did say, “Please don’t shove your dick up my ass. I just want you to fuck my vagina. O.K.?” I had Don answer, “Yeah.” Then I tied her up with her hands again outstretched and her feet tied, but with her butt up where she could easily be fucked from the rear. It was fun seeing her with her ass and pussy exposed so high above the bed. I climbed on the bed on my knees and started rubbing her hanging tits and boobs very hard. Again, she started breathing heavily. I had a little difficulty getting it 100% hard. I climbed down from the bed and approached her. I grabbed her head and turned it so I could shove my dick in her mouth. I first slapped her across the face with it. She had learned quickly and opened her mouth for the insertion. I slapped that bad boy right on her tongue. She went to work on it – again with just her tight lips and had it hard in no time. I then climbed back on the bed behind her and inserted that member into her very wet vagina. I again started pumping very hard. She began breathing quite heavily and moaning with every hunch. Finally, she exploded into climax. Then I pulled my dick out and went up to her while rubbing her boobs. I again slapped her across the face with the now wet from pussy juices dick. She again opened her mouth. I slammed that baby into her mouth and throat deeply. She gagged a little, but kept her lips tight. Then I rammed that rod rapidly into her at full rpm. Eventually, I could feel it cumming, but I did not pull out. I shot that full load right into her mouth. She never lets me do that when she knows it is me. She did gag a little, but attempted to swallow the whole load. She wasn’t totally successful, and it was running out her mouth. So she had cum running out of her pussy from the first fuck, and cum running out of mouth from the blow job. She just laid down on the bed and collapsed into a drunken and sex-exhausted sleep. Don and I left her there naked on the bed. And we headed out to have some drinks and talk about the night. However, now I know that it isn’t my sexual prowess that is causing the problem. She just loves strange dick! I plan on doing his again. In the meantime, I had better take a shower and get rid of Don’s cologne smell. Incidentally, Don asked if he could serve as the strange lover next time we do this. I told him that may be a possibility if he can learn to take pictures with a silencer.

[cufan86]

Glad it worked out. Did see recognize Don’s voice? If not, keep teasing her that it could be anyone. If she wondering every time a friend is around whether he fucked her, it will drive her wild.