"What do you think about when......."

[SixPointFive]

Had a really busy week with work and by Friday I was no use to man or beast. I admitted defeat and went to bed about 10pm. My Wife isn't working at present and as a result comes to bed a lot later than me. She woke me about midnight as she got in beside me. As I was awake she decided to reward me for a tough week with one of my favourites - topless hand job.

Now, my wife has 2 hand job techniques - the first is when she is really into it and it's part of foreplay - slow, tender, pays a lot of attention to my balls as well as my cock as she works up slowly into a steady rhythm. Then there is the 2nd technique, when there's nothing in it for her and she starts and stage 15 going full throttle on my cock. Quite often, the 2nd technique doesn't work and I struggle to ejaculate as it can be a tad painful if she's just pumping away. Of course I can't ever tell her this because - who wants to like the rest of their life with no Hand Jobs? She already removed Blow Jobs about 15 years ago!

So, there I am desperately tired and unable to cum. She senses this and reverts to plan b - "why don't you cum on my big tits?"

Now, I have never needed to be asked twice and generally I end up masturbating over her. Given the lack of "action" thus far, I immediately took over in our new position - she sits on the edge of the bed, squeezing her mammoth tits together, I stand in front of her and jerk away.

Progress is being made (there is no-one who can make you cum as quickly as yourself eh? Well, maybe Scarlett Johansson, but that's another story).....

As I'm jerking away, slapping my cock against her erect nipples she looks up at me.

"You like cumming on these don't you?"
"You like jerking that thing too"
"I heard you doing it this morning when I was in the shower"

Standard stuff. Then she hits me with a line I've never heard from her before. Something I assumed was taboo...

"So, what do you think about when you are masturbating?"

I almost froze mid wank

"It's ok, you can tell me. it's ok if it isn't me"
"Honestly, it's fine if it's not me. Who do you think about?"

At that point I want to confess everything. I wanted to tell her that I've masturbated thinking about every girl I've ever been with, and some that I haven't. I wanted to tell her I think about her best friend (who I've seen topless a few times now), I wanted to tell her I think about my own best (female) friend and the time she gave me a hand job (initially) against my will. I wanted to tell her that i read some of the stories on this site to get me hard and make me cum. I wanted to tell her that I fantasise about watching he jerk off an ex boyfriend, or one of my mates whilst topless

Unfortunately, I squeaked out that I just look at pictures of her and maybe occasionally a topless celeb.....

That was all i could manage before I came. She seemed to believe me, but it's open a door in my mind now. I think she wants to know and I think I want to tell her. I think I need another topless hand job to see where this takes us......

[clayman1280]

I think there should be a quid pro quo in this situation...you tell her one of your fantasies if she tells you one of hers. Then see how that develops!

[gwm]

My wife and I had a similar conversation one time, she said, "You don't think about any of my friends do you? That would be weird." So of course I lied and said I didn't. Then she said she sometimes thinks about her first boyfriend. Then she said something that made me think she was talking about during sex, not masturbating. What? She thinks about him when she's with me? I guess that's normal, but it took me a while to get over that. I didn't say anything to her about it, but I'm glad she's honest with me.

[piecenick]

My wife knew I thought her younger sister was hot, she was, she had big boobs and long blond hair. My wife is very attractive also, smarter and a lot more pleasant to be around. I had seen her sister nude a few times, we all went skinny dipping and played strip poker, so I had her in my spank bank. My wife wasn't jealous at all, so she used to use that to get me turned on, or to cum when she was giving a HJ.

She would say things like "I bet you'd love to have Ally wrap her big tits around your cock. I know that time we were playing poker and she spread her legs to get up you saw her swollen clit and lips, I bet her pussy was dripping."

Bang.

[Duran Duran]

Originally Posted by SixPointFive

"So, what do you think about when you are masturbating?
"It's ok, you can tell me. it's ok if it isn't me"
"Honestly, it's fine if it's not me. Who do you think about?"

Defcon 1!!! It's a trap!!!

Haha.

I've honestly never thought about a different woman when I'm having sex with a woman (unless it was a 3some). Not with my wife, ex GFs, sex friends or hook ups. Sure some of the sex has been less than great, but just gotta take the good with the bad.

As for women, who knows what they think of! Probably everything and nothing all in a massive, tangled, intricate web of love and lust that changes depending on a myriad of factors.

[scouty]

I imagine that I'm someone else fucking my wife... and she's being submissive to the guy. The reason why she's being submissive varies, but I'm not in the room in the fantasy.

[DippsyDudel]

Originally Posted by Duran Duran

Defcon 1!!! It's a trap!!!

Funny, the first thing that went through my mind reading that was "Danger Will Robinson, Danger!"

[Barmixer]

I have a friend who tells me that his wife told him that when she is sucking his cock she is remembering all the cocks she sucked in college. Tells me the thought gets him off real fast. Also, when she masturbates she is thinking of the guys she has fucked.

[Wibble99999]

Originally Posted by gwm

My wife and I had a similar conversation one time, she said, "You don't think about any of my friends do you? That would be weird." So of course I lied and said I didn't. Then she said she sometimes thinks about her first boyfriend. Then she said something that made me think she was talking about during sex, not masturbating. What? She thinks about him when she's with me? I guess that's normal, but it took me a while to get over that. I didn't say anything to her about it, but I'm glad she's honest with me.

I wonder why she thinks that would be weird. I wank thinking of my wife’s friends and my friends’ wives a lot ... and non-blood family members ... and neighbours ... and our dentist’s receptionist ... My wife personally knows many of the women in my wank bank, just not that I wank to them. Don’t know if she suspects though. But I guess I’m not that different to most guys.

[gwm]

Originally Posted by Wibble99999

I wonder why she thinks that would be weird. I wank thinking of my wife’s friends and my friends’ wives a lot ... and non-blood family members ... and neighbours ... and our dentist’s receptionist ... My wife personally knows many of the women in my wank bank, just not that I wank to them. Don’t know if she suspects though. But I guess I’m not that different to most guys.

I don't know why she would think that's weird. I guess just because she knows them personally?