Would you rather (trying to avoid being shut down by the mods)

[HedoRocks]

Originally Posted by cufan86

Q32: You meant to send a nude photo of your wife to a buddy. You actually sent a nude photo of your wife to a group chat of about 10 more casual acquaintances. You quickly realize your mistake. After some good natured ribbing, everyone promises secrecy.

Do you tell your wife, knowing she will be furious, or hope the secret holds? (If you wife wouldn’t care, assume she would in this case due to who is in the group or another reason)

My answer: I came very very close to accidentally sending out a topless photo of my wife to a group of fellow football fans. I wrote about it elsewhere on the site. If I really did send out the photo, I would tell the wife. She might be furious but owning up to a mistake is better than her possibly finding out from someone else. With that many people, someone would reveal it, either by accident or deliberate. Far better that it comes from me.

Q32 ANSWER: I tell her. She's knows I send them to a few people anyway, so while she'd be a bit miffed for a few minutes, she eventually ask if I got any replies, and what they said. Her "anger" would be based on what was sent. Topless, not much of a problem at all, full frontal, she'd be a bit more upset, but wouldn't be exactly "mad".

[Hornyinde]

Q32: You meant to send a nude photo of your wife to a buddy. You actually sent a nude photo of your wife to a group chat of about 10 more casual acquaintances. You quickly realize your mistake. After some good natured ribbing, everyone promises secrecy.

Do you tell your wife, knowing she will be furious, or hope the secret holds? (If you wife wouldn’t care, assume she would in this case due to who is in the group or another reason)

The circumstances make it interesting. If she knew I took the photo, she could be somewhat certain I would send to my one buddy who she knows would love to fuck her. She’s always warning me “sometimes mistakes happen and pictures end up on the internet”.

So, I own up to my mistake. I try to soften it by telling her “the reaction was unanimous that she’s hot and everyone says she’s a MILF”. I know that would ease the pain, because she likes to know “she’s still got it”. Of course, it either turns her in so much we have incredible role play sex about other guys fucking her, or I’m cut off for a little while.

[nectcouple]

Q32: You meant to send a nude photo of your wife to a buddy. You actually sent a nude photo of your wife to a group chat of about 10 more casual acquaintances. You quickly realize your mistake. After some good natured ribbing, everyone promises secrecy.
Do you tell your wife, knowing she will be furious, or hope the secret holds? (If you wife wouldn’t care, assume she would in this case due to who is in the group or another reason)

A: This happened to me on Facebook once and it took quite a while before I could take it down again. I did tell her about it.
At first she was mortified, then she thought it was funny. Finally, she wanted to know what others had to say about it.
Those who were lucky enough to see it were very complimentary and ribbed the hell out of me, but no one ever told her they'd seen it.

[Omega88]

Originally Posted by Hornyinde

I try to soften it by telling her “the reaction was unanimous that she’s hot and everyone says she’s a MILF”.

And you would be telling the truth!

[cufan86]

This is a continuation of the last question. After accidentally sending a nude photo of your wife to about 10 buddies, you have either told your wife or not.

A few weeks later, some of the guys start requesting more photos. So far, to the best of your knowledge, they have all kept the secret.

If you have told your wife, would you send more photos with or without telling her?

If you haven’t told your wife, would you send more photos?

My answer: I told my wife in the previous question. I would tell her about the friends asking for more photos and how much they liked the first one. Ideally, she would tell me to send other photos but not to let my friends know that she knew about it, so they could continue to believe it was a secret. Hopefully everyone would remain honorable.

[whatnow3]

I would definitely tell her about the requests for more pictures. She would be pleased I'm sure but also would prefer it had been a one time thing. So I would have to tell the guys that got the pic by mistake they were out of luck.

[nectcouple]

Since I've already told her about my mistake, I would certainly tell her about the requests for more and I know she'd be flattered. Since I know there are certain guys she'd allow me to send more to, I'd go ahead and send more. I think she'd want them to think that she didn't know about the additional photos so that would be our secret.
The few guys who she'd rather not have any more would be out of luck.

[Omega88]

Q 32: Would own up to sending the pics "accidentally" but probably after she had a few adult beverages. She has asked that no pics be posted anywhere, so she would not be pleased [mostly due to job considerations] but would probably like the idea of others seeing her.

Q 33: Would definitely tell her and let her decide if any additional pics were sent, and under what circumstances; that she knew about the pics or did not and wanted to maintain plausible deniability... She would definitely be flattered and pleased about the requests and "want" more to be sent, but those job considerations would probably hold her back.

[cufan86]

Originally Posted by Omega88

Q 32: Would own up to sending the pics "accidentally" but probably after she had a few adult beverages. She has asked that no pics be posted anywhere, so she would not be pleased [mostly due to job considerations] but would probably like the idea of others seeing her.

Q 33: Would definitely tell her and let her decide if any additional pics were sent, and under what circumstances; that she knew about the pics or did not and wanted to maintain plausible deniability... She would definitely be flattered and pleased about the requests and "want" more to be sent, but those job considerations would probably hold her back.

My wife is similar. IRL she always wants plausible deniability and if anything got posted in public it would probably cost her a very nice job, so my answers always assumes that everyone uses discretion or in the case of the movie question, that something older wouldn’t affect her job or she is working a different job.

[Hornyinde]

A few weeks later, some of the guys start requesting more photos. So far, to the best of your knowledge, they have all kept the secret.

If you have told your wife, would you send more photos with or without telling her?

If you haven’t told your wife, would you send more photos?

Since I told her in the first question, and further told her they thought she was a MILF, she wouldn’t be surprised by a request for more.

I’d tell her I wanted to send more, since they saw it all anyway. I’m pretty sure she would say why do they need more, but her liking they desired to see it would get her to approve. Good thing, because I would have already sent them.