It seemed like a good idea at the time but it wasn't

[Rachellus]

Have any of you had sex with someone who had just been a friend out of boredom or maybe it just seemed like a good idea at the time?

My first year of college one of my friends from high school attended the same college, but we didn't really hang out together there. He had his friends and I had mine. He liked weird music and was always on his guitar which I enjoyed but our musical tastes were not the same. We would often take turns driving back and forth to school to save gas, but it left one of us without a vehicle for the week or two we were at school. So we spent a lot of time together and we talked a lot, but we were just friends.

One weekend we had not went home we had actually hang out together. A lot of our other friends had went home and he and I and a few others that rarely hang out together were doing just that. I ended up at his place and he played my kind of music and we sang some. One thing led to another that night and we ended up making out. I would like to blame it on the wine but I am not sure it was that or just not having anything else to do. We were laying on his hand and he put my hand on his penis. He had taken it out of his boxers and it was hot and hard. I have long fingers and I wrapped them around it and I remember thinking, "Okay a handjob is not a big deal!"

I stroked him as we kissed and he got even harder in my hand. He kept whispering for me to kiss it, to kiss it and so finally I moved down and I sucked him. It did not take very long with me taking it deep and sucking hard on it that he came. I am a swallower and as I ignored his warnings sucked and swallowed around his spasms. He told me afterwards it was the best blow job he had ever had.

To me it was just a blow job. I gave it to a guy I liked as a friend. Suddenly he was in love with me. He wanted me to be his gf. Over the next two weeks he destroyed our friendship by trying to turn it into more than it was. And when I tried to explain to him that he was still my friend, he got crappy with me and basically called me a wh*r*.

Long story short it was the end of the friendship and even though he had apologized more than once I don't need that kind of person in my life. But I think sometimes that I was just as much to blame for our friendship dissolving. I should have just got up and left before that night got sexual at all. Have any of the rest of you had a similar experience!

[Duran Duran]

Too many times.

I went through a stage of shagging a lot. Different lasses every week. This was all thanks to my job looking after a bar.

It got to the point where I got bored of it. I’d get pretty lasses into bed, get their clothes off and then I wasn’t interested in the rest because I knew most of them were going to be the same experience. I was doing nothing more than going through the motions and then I’d have to deal with what came next.

Although variety is the spice of life, too much of a good thing isn’t good either.

[Hornyinde]

Right after college I had a party at my place. The girl I was after couldn’t make it so I was bummed. As the night ended up, a girl I was just good friends with was too drunk to drive home. She had given a ride to a couple others so I told them to stay over. She and one other girl in the spare bedroom, her other friend could stay in mine, and I would take the couch.

The girl staying in my room was best friends with the one I wanted who didn’t show up. She convinced me to “sleep” in my room and not on the couch. Turned out she was super horny and even though I tried to be a good guy, I was 22 years old, horny a lot, and she kept rubbing my cock over the outside of my underwear. Didn’t take too long, and we were fucking. And she was LOUD. She’s screaming “fuck me”, “harder”, “Oh God”, stuff like that. I didn’t care at the time, because well, I was a 22 year old horny guy.

Next morning the girl I was friends with just looks at me like I’m a sl*t (ok, she might have had a point) because everyone heard the fucking. The girl I wanted to date found out I fucked her friend, so that ended up being ruined, and the girl I fucked turned out to be a girl just putting another notch on her bedpost, so to speak.

It was a good time, but I lost the girl I wanted, my friend thought less of me, and the girl I fucked just looked at me as someone on a list. Seemed good at the time I fucked her, but it wasn’t.

[SixPointFive]

Originally Posted by Rachellus

Have any of you had sex with someone who had just been a friend out of boredom or maybe it just seemed like a good idea at the time?

My first year of college one of my friends from high school attended the same college, but we didn't really hang out together there. He had his friends and I had mine. He liked weird music and was always on his guitar which I enjoyed but our musical tastes were not the same. We would often take turns driving back and forth to school to save gas, but it left one of us without a vehicle for the week or two we were at school. So we spent a lot of time together and we talked a lot, but we were just friends.

One weekend we had not went home we had actually hang out together. A lot of our other friends had went home and he and I and a few others that rarely hang out together were doing just that. I ended up at his place and he played my kind of music and we sang some. One thing led to another that night and we ended up making out. I would like to blame it on the wine but I am not sure it was that or just not having anything else to do. We were laying on his hand and he put my hand on his penis. He had taken it out of his boxers and it was hot and hard. I have long fingers and I wrapped them around it and I remember thinking, "Okay a handjob is not a big deal!"

I stroked him as we kissed and he got even harder in my hand. He kept whispering for me to kiss it, to kiss it and so finally I moved down and I sucked him. It did not take very long with me taking it deep and sucking hard on it that he came. I am a swallower and as I ignored his warnings sucked and swallowed around his spasms. He told me afterwards it was the best blow job he had ever had.

To me it was just a blow job. I gave it to a guy I liked as a friend. Suddenly he was in love with me. He wanted me to be his gf. Over the next two weeks he destroyed our friendship by trying to turn it into more than it was. And when I tried to explain to him that he was still my friend, he got crappy with me and basically called me a wh*r*.

Long story short it was the end of the friendship and even though he had apologized more than once I don't need that kind of person in my life. But I think sometimes that I was just as much to blame for our friendship dissolving. I should have just got up and left before that night got sexual at all. Have any of the rest of you had a similar experience!

My best friend growing up was a girl. We were part of a larger group of friends but as we lived close by and our parents were friends we were pretty tight. As we entered our late teens, we had a couple of daft drunken kisses and she jerked me off once on her parents' doorstep after a night out. Fast forward a few years and post Uni, we were hanging out at my place one weekend afternoon having met for a few drinks. We were lying on my bed listening to music. She asked me to pass her drink, I playfully asked "what's in it for me". She offered a kiss, i countered with a hand job. One thing led to another and we were making out for an age - her jerking my cock, me playing with her tits. We had never gone further than this, but for some reason this was the moment we did.

It was the most lifeless, passionless sex I've ever had. We were totally incompatible, like ying and another ying - we couldn't even find a position that worked. She insisted on lights off curtains shut, under the duvet missionary. It was awkward and bumpy and neither of us took much enjoyment out of it.

I suppose it answered the question as to whether we had any chance of being a couple (he Mum always suggested/hoped that we would make a good couple, probably because my friend was so terrible with guys ,always chasing the wrong one. In fact, even now, 20 years later she's a single Mother having chosen an absolute c**t of the highest order as the father of her child.)

Ironically, when I had a bit of a mid-life crisis around turning 40 she and I ended up exchanging sexts for a number of weeks with her asking for (and getting) a number of dick pics. Never went any further than that, but it's funny how suggestion and/or anticipation can sometimes be better than the real thing

[Gnome72141]

My best friend growing up had been a girl/woman, too. I would always get jealous when she would tell me how her bikini top would slip off with her friends, or a threesome she would have, or anything like that, always when I wasn't there nor included.

One day we went clothes shopping together. At one point, she had me come into the fitting room with her (we asked the staff and they said it was okay). She was standing in a thin tank top with her nips poking out a mile. I was so excited I almost came in my pants.

Then she took her top off. It was an instant turn off. Her breasts were amazing, but now that I had finally seen them after 10 years of friendship, I didn't care at all.

She got dressed, we went back to her apartment (like we had done thousands of times before), and she asked if I wanted to see her breasts again. I said sure just to not reject her, she took her top off, and I still didn't care. She got the hint and put her top back on.

Fortunately, nothing ever started to be "weird" after that. We remained friends as normal for yet another ten years until kids, life, and careers took her to a new part of the country, and now we are just Facebook friends. I guess the only difference is that she stopped telling me about losing her top, threesomes, and other naughty fun she was having, because I frankly couldn't have cared less.