Would you rather (trying to avoid being shut down by the mods)

[bertimos]

Originally Posted by cufan86

Question 17:

Your wife/gf admits to you that she wants to try BDSM.

Would you rather have her want to be the Dom or the Sub?

My answer:

My answer: My wife is also a little submissive. We lightly play. She likes being tied up and spanked.

I would definitely rather her be the sub, and I believe my lovely bride feels the same.

[rracoonz]

Originally Posted by cufan86

Question 17:

Your wife/gf admits to you that she wants to try BDSM.

Would you rather have her want to be the Dom or the Sub?

My answer: my wife is a bit of a sub already. I would rather she be the sub.

No doubt in my mind on this one. My wife would be the sub.

We have already crossed this bridge and she loves being bound, blindfolded, and spanked.

We have a special overnight bag with all kinds of toys in it for when we travel.

My next fantasy fulfillment is to have her tied and blindfolded, then invite a stranger in to use her.

[whatnow3]

Originally Posted by cufan86

Question 17:

Your wife/gf admits to you that she wants to try BDSM.

Would you rather have her want to be the Dom or the Sub?

Like the previous answers I’d like my wife to be the sub. She too likes an occasional spanking. We’ve also done the blindfold and have tied her up a few times.

[whatnow3]

She is not into real choking but she does like my hand on her throat sometimes while we are fucking. Again, not actually choking but a light pressure.

[Duran Duran]

Originally Posted by cufan86

Question 17:
Your wife/gf admits to you that she wants to try BDSM.
Would you rather have her want to be the Dom or the Sub?

My answer: As all others have stated above, wife is a light to medium sub already.
So tied up, spanked, blindfold, light to medium choking, hair pulling, face pushing into the bed, light throwing/pushing etc are all big turn ons for her. I want to learn Shibari rope play this year and tie up her torso and breasts, let her get dressed with clothes that don't show it off and then we go out for dinner. I think it will massively turn her on.

[Hornyinde]

Question 17:

Your wife/gf admits to you that she wants to try BDSM.

Would you rather have her want to be the Dom or the Sub?

As much as I might like to see her be the dom, she is a bit of a sub, so I would rather that. Like a few others here, we’ve played with blindfolds and restraints. Which gives me whole different ideas....

[Strawhappa]

Q5) Send photos to group chat.

Q6) Come out and not notice for a while.

Q7) Have her seen by a good friend that blabs.

Q8) I would not stop the bet, and would like to see wife as loser in the bet.

Q9) Would rather her discover on her own.

Q10) Would rather other female lose. Wife has some friends that we would love to see nude.

Q11) Since most of my friends have seen my wife nude, would love to see a few of my friends wives.

Q12) Prefer full shaved, wife keeps hers that way or sometimes a landing strip.

Q13) Sports team, her ass is too nice for a tattoo to ruin it.

Q14) Flash for a photo.

Q15) We would continue having sex as they watched.

Q16) Giving oral sex.

Q17) Rather her be the sub.

[cufan86]

Based on Rracoonz response to question 17.

Question 18: Your wife’s fantasy is to be blindfolded, tied up, and fucked by someone other than you. She never wants to know who fucked her. You agree to make her fantasy come true.

Would you get a complete stranger or someone she knows?

My answer: we have a good friend who would be forever silent I think. I would choose him so he and I could talk about it and it would be cool when we are all together knowing my wife doesn’t know he fucked her, although she may suspect.

[bertimos]

Originally Posted by cufan86

Based on Rracoonz response to question 17.

Question 18: Your wife’s fantasy is to be blindfolded, tied up, and fucked by someone other than you. She never wants to know who fucked her. You agree to make her fantasy come true.

Would you get a complete stranger or someone she knows?

Definitely someone we know!

[rracoonz]

Originally Posted by cufan86

Question 18: Your wife’s fantasy is to be blindfolded, tied up, and fucked by someone other than you. She never wants to know who fucked her. You agree to make her fantasy come true.

Would you get a complete stranger or someone she knows?

Great question!! Oh Hell. Now you've got me thinking!

Someone she knows (actually both of us knows) would be super exciting. Especially if he talked with me afterward. It would definitely be fun to share thoughts about how he liked her and the secret that she doesn't know who! And if she got off on it, would have to make it a regular thing for him!!
So, yeah, I think someone she knows would be the most exciting!