Casual nudity - not nudists

[Saddledrifter]

My wife was not a nudist at the time, but when we went to biker rallies, she would shower in co-ed communal showers with many guys and a few girls. She would stand there naked as hell and soap up right next to biker dudes. She didn't seem to mind being nude in front of a number of guys in the shower. She would wash her pussy and ass as if no one was around. Then she would get out of the shower room and dry off in the dressing area, and comb and dry her hair in her complete nudity. Eventually, she would put on her shorts and top (most of the time) and walk back to our campsite. And although she would go topless at many of the night time festivities, she would not go nude or show her pussy at all during those evening shenanigans.

However, now in the last several years, she is a nudist. She has no problem parading around naked. And she seems to really enjoy the nude dances at the clubs on Friday and Saturday nights. I get off on dancing with her and looking at her nude as she shakes her booty and wiggles and grinds her pussy. Sometimes she dances with other guys, and I enjoy the erotic appearance of it all. Of course, she is nude 100% of the time at nude resorts, so she swims nude and uses the hot tun in the nude. I totally enjoy looking at her walking around and doing other activities naked, such as tennis, pickle ball, pool, basketball and ping pong. The pool table games are particular enjoyable when she has a long reach over the table for the cue ball. It provides a really nice rear pussy shot for all onlookers.

I highly recommend that you move from casual nudity to full nudity at a nudist resort.

[wackojacko2003]

I’ve always wondered about the types of women who are into causal nudity like this.... is it obvious in other elements of their life..... I have a friend who recently posted a new Facebook profile picture in which she is not wearing a bra (white top) and if you look even half carefully; you can see her nipples. This can’t have been a mistake?? Should I presume she is showering comfortably in some co-Ed shower room like in the story above??

[KarlMalone]

Originally Posted by MFN

Years ago there were no restrictions against nudity in the National Parks. However, many Rangers didn't know this, and arrested you anyway. You'd eventually get off, after they searched their regulations and couldn't find any authority to arrest you for nudity. This was a hassle. So, even though we were legal being nude we tried to not get arrested in the first place, even though we knew we'd be set free.

The Rangers usually didn't care if they saw you naked; but if some other visitor complained, the Ranger had to arrest you, unless they knew there was no legal basis. After a while, we realized that visitors might complain about a man (me) being naked, but never seemed to mind a good-looking woman (my gf, later my wife) being naked.

So, if we were on an isolated trail, we'd both hike wearing only our hiking boots and maybe a sun hat, but if we heard some one approaching I'd quickly don my shorts. Meanwhile her entire outfit remained in her small backpack. When we caught up to or passed the other hikers, we'd stop for casual conversation about the weather, conditions ahead, where we were each from, etc., all the time with my gf being the only one naked, just carrying on her part of the conversation as if clothed. Nobody ever complained.

We never did walk into a Visitor Center naked, although we had every right to. We just didn't want to push the limits too far.

My father hikes quite a bit in state and national parks and he has told me he has stumbled upon naked people, both women and men, quite a bit!

[Saddledrifter]

She didn't go from braless with nipples showing through the thin material to nude over night. And I would guess the same is true for the lady you are referring to. This was a 20 year transition from just braless to nude for my wife. I am certain most women that make this transition are probably quicker to get there than my wife, but some never get there. I have included some pictures of her from 20 years ago to present. There is an amazing difference in how she approaches nudity now and what else she will do as well. The first is the way she dressed to go to work at a warehouse job (basically a blue collar job 20 years ago and she was on a break). The second is at a evening picnic with her company families (15 years ago). The third is with a friend that she met at a biker rally that night (6 years ago). The fourth is when she was ready to go dancing at a nude resort dance (she dumped the loin cloth about an hour into the dance and danced naked the remaining 2 hours of the dance a year ago). And the fifth was when she fell asleep on the sofa at a party where she ended up drunk and nude after playing a Strip Drinking and Dare Game (within the last year). So you can see the transition over the two decades. She has loosened up quite a bit. I would say that some nights she can't get any looser. But whether the lady you are talking about gets to this level -- who knows?

[Gnome72141]

Originally Posted by wackojacko2003

I’ve always wondered about the types of women who are into causal nudity like this.... is it obvious in other elements of their life..... I have a friend who recently posted a new Facebook profile picture in which she is not wearing a bra (white top) and if you look even half carefully; you can see her nipples. This can’t have been a mistake?? Should I presume she is showering comfortably in some co-Ed shower room like in the story above??

I wonder about this, too. I have a particular friend, very religious, very conservative, always dresses very conservatively, most Facebook posts are about her church and church outings...but on her last summer trip with her family and some church people, she posted over 200 photos of her trip. She was almost always braless under her tank tops, some white enough to see her dark nips, and one pic bending over where the tops of her areolas were clearly visible. All on Facebook for her 100s of friends to see, and she was dressed like this around her church friends who were also in most photos.

I know they were in a rustic camping/cabin scenario, so it made me wonder how rustic it was and what she did around all those people. Did she shower outdoors? Change in an open cabin space? I would love to know!

[Saddledrifter]

I think if she is walking around church people like that, she is incredibly horny and wants some real sex. However, you are going to have to overcome that Puritan Ethic that the church has ingrained in her. She is horny, but she is totally at odds with her upbringing. This is going to have to take a while to get her screwing. Your work is cut out for you, I suggest getting her to drink a little alcohol to loosen her up, before making a move on her. After she is tipsy, the horny will take over, and she will let you in. That is the breakthrough you need. Once you screw her, she will have self-doubt, but just reassure her that she did the right thing. And let her know that everyone is experimenting with sex by her age and that is good. Keep the bottle of alcohol handy initially to let her cut loose. Eventually, she will admit that she is as horny for your bod as you are for hers. Then she will be yours to do what you want. I know that is the way my wife was when we started dating. Boy, she now is going to nude resorts and screwing me and other guys like crazy. She has become a regular sex addict that wants to screw all the time and everyone that she is attracted to. She walks around biker rallies topless with a wet see through white bikini bottom, and takes showers with the guys in a co-ed shower room and gets dressed only after putting on her make-up while totally naked. She poses half nude for guys' pictures, and plays various strip games that lead to sex. She has become a wild woman, and I love it. Here she is in the pic ready to go out for the evening at a bike rally -- topless, commando and ready for action.

[raysallx]

You lucked out. I've read that after women go through menopause, a certain percentage go wild like your wife. Others become very disinterested in sex, and some remain about the same. So you apparently have won the lottery!

[charismatic]

Originally Posted by Gnome72141

I am not a nudist, but everyone I know has seen me naked at least once for various reasons, all non-sexual.

I totally understand Karen showing you her breasts and NOT having it be a moment where she was hitting on you. I, too, have shown people various things who ask or for various other reasons but not hitting on them. (But being male, I understand that people might say "but that's not the same thing!")

Anyway, the only situation that comes to mind right away is my mother in law. I have seen her naked dozens of times over the years (traveling, sharing hotel rooms, etc), but it's never, ever been sexual. Just casual, and she certainly isn't a nudist. Usually it's just changing clothes quickly, but one time after a shower after swimming she sat in a hotel chair on a towel totally nude for about 20 minutes. She was getting dressed, but she got an alert on Facebook and was distracted by that instead of getting dressed. She is in her late 60s but could pass for mid-to-late-40s if I told you that was her age, easily. Super perky, real C cups, too.

No offence, but I am really confused about that first paragraph and the word “everybody”. If you are not a nudist then how and also how many people do you know?

[charismatic]

Originally Posted by Saddledrifter

I think if she is walking around church people like that, she is incredibly horny and wants some real sex. However, you are going to have to overcome that Puritan Ethic that the church has ingrained in her. She is horny, but she is totally at odds with her upbringing. This is going to have to take a while to get her screwing. Your work is cut out for you, I suggest getting her to drink a little alcohol to loosen her up, before making a move on her. After she is tipsy, the horny will take over, and she will let you in. That is the breakthrough you need. Once you screw her, she will have self-doubt, but just reassure her that she did the right thing. And let her know that everyone is experimenting with sex by her age and that is good. Keep the bottle of alcohol handy initially to let her cut loose. Eventually, she will admit that she is as horny for your bod as you are for hers. Then she will be yours to do what you want. I know that is the way my wife was when we started dating. Boy, she now is going to nude resorts and screwing me and other guys like crazy. She has become a regular sex addict that wants to screw all the time and everyone that she is attracted to. She walks around biker rallies topless with a wet see through white bikini bottom, and takes showers with the guys in a co-ed shower room and gets dressed only after putting on her make-up while totally naked. She poses half nude for guys' pictures, and plays various strip games that lead to sex. She has become a wild woman, and I love it. Here she is in the pic ready to go out for the evening at a bike rally -- topless, commando and ready for action.

Hmmm, don’t really think plying a lady with alcohol is the best suggestion as she could wake up in the morning screaming a four letter word I am not going to say on here. You seem to have fell lucky with your lady, but countless stories over the years have ended otherwise.

[Gnome72141]

Originally Posted by charismatic

No offence, but I am really confused about that first paragraph and the word “everybody”. If you are not a nudist then how and also how many people do you know?

I think I recognize your name as being here a long time like me, but perhaps you don't have ALL of my posts memorized? In seriousness, instead of re-reading my posts, here are a half-dozen examples.

I am not a nudist, BUT people have seen me naked:
-- Family trips with my wife's entire family, sharing cabins, hotels, etc. I change where ever my stuff is. Often, my wife and I take the pull-out couch or similar, so I just change in the open right there instead of waiting in line for the bathroom with 10 other people (yes, 10, sometimes 12, in a small space, almost yearly).
--Also family trips: My wife and I take the longest to get ready (my wife has motivation issues), and often my in-laws or friends come to our hotel room to wait for us and I am still getting out of the shower, etc.
--Our weird master bedroom suite. Our bedroom upstairs is also like a second living room. I cycle a lot. Shower often during the day after a 30+ mile ride. Quite often my wife has friends or her mom and/or sister upstairs going through the latest scrapbook or photobook while I am going into and out of the shower.
--Skinny dipping. I have only ever been the only one naked, but if there is a boat and we are on a lake, I am going to go skinny dipping no matter what, regardless of who is around. I have skinny dipped off a pontoon in front of 12 people once. Usually it's only in front of 2 or 3, but friends and family, not strangers.
--Years ago, my sister and I were cleaning up after two rich relatives died almost at the same time. Spent lots of time in hotel rooms and with my sister and cousin and also at another cousin't house, several of us sharing a room. Those were some fun posts to write.

Those are just some example of casual-non-nudist nudity where people have seen me. I don't walk around the house stark naked. I don't go to nudist beaches or campgrounds, and so on, so I consider it all casual. Maybe some day I will be totally naked during an entire Thanksgiving dinner in front of the extended family, then I will call myself a nudist. Ha!!

Hope this helps explain my perspective a bit? Let me know if there are other questions. And definitely no offense taken.