A Trend in the Making

[karlhein]

I think I have found a trend in casual sex. For the most part (3 cases) this occurred back in the 70s when I was young, single and very fit. However now that I'm older, divorced and maybe less of a physical wonder, it has occurred twice more. I'm thinking it may be a trend, a very nice trend. I'll relate the first case, but all 5 have had a similar pattern.
I go to a "church" that is very humanistic, and regularly has speakers in the evening that are well attended. These often have wine and cheese receptions at someones house afterwards, which tend to be very good places to pick up ladies. Sometimes the same day, and sometimes after just one date I'd wind up with a new lady friend, occasionally in threesomes of one variety or the other. To say the least it was a lot of fun. To end the background, I'm smart, friendly and learned to wait on women to have their pleasure early in my life, but I'm no movie star. Likewise I'm fit and have a decent cock, maybe 7" on a good day and had pretty good recovery ability, and good response to viagra now, but I'm no porn star.
Anyway, I went to the program and reception, and met a nice couple, late 30s lady, mid 40s guy. She was cute, auburn haired, moderate figure, but very chatty and touchy. He was quieter, pretty normal looking, but also friendly. A few glasses of wine later she is more touchy/huggy, and hugging both of us. A little conversation leads to them asking if I wanted to come over to their place for another drink. Rather than giving directions, he said that she could ride with me to guide me to their place.
Wanting to get a sense of the situation, as soon as she was in my car, I leaned over to kiss her, and she definitely kissed back, moved into me, didn't object when I ran my hand up under her leg to find wet panties, and started rubbing my cock. Nothing new for a post reception pick up, except that we were going home to meet her hubby.
When we got home, after a nice very handsy ride, we go in, and there wasn't much drinking. It turns out that they wanted to "expand" their sex life, and I was the lucky first. They sort of set the pattern, as she put on music and did a passable striptease, keeping the lights on so everyone could see. Her figure was better without clothes, nice perky boobs with very small, pale nipples, that were pointy with arrousal, and which she liked to pull on. In those days shaving was rare, but she was well trimmed, and auburn down there too. Her hubby had pulled out his cick and was jacking, so I did too. She seemed to like watching our cocks get hard and stood between us, fingering herself and we jacked and shed clothes. Eventually she was on her knees, alternately sucking one cock or the other.
Predictably this led to what might to called a normal 3 some of fucking, sucking and eating. I came 4 times, he twice (i was young) and she came many, many times. In the last round, I explored her ass with my thumb, which she seemed to like, and gently slid into her back door. She seemed to like it, and it turns out they had never done anal before, so she had him in her butt afterwards. So far, so good, a rather good 3 some.
Over the next few weeks they had me over a few more times for repeat performances. They were always good, she liked being the center of attention. The activites included "all of the above" including facials and DP. One time she even asked to watch us jack off side by side as she fingered herself and cleaned up our cum afterwards.
A couple of times he would sit back and recover and watch while I did her solo.
After a few weeks she called me up and asked me to come over. He was out of town, but she wanted me to do her, while he was on the phone (no video chat in those days). We did this and our normal 3 some a few more times, and then she called me to come over, but she didn't want him to know. It seened like she was even hotter and more orgasmic when we were together solo; particularly when he didn't know.
This went on for over a year, until they moved for his job. It included her asking me to bring a friend for a 3 way without hubby, and her bringing over one if her girlfriends for a fmf, which included her first gg activity.
So the pattern was an apparently normal couple who brought me in to expand their sex life, to having solo sex with me, both with and without hubby, to bringing in extra guys, and her girlfriends. I even had adventures later with her girlfriend. It's a fun story, but it happened with 3 different couples back in the 70's, in almost exactly the same way. I stupidly got married for 30+ years, to a lady I met at the receptions and always has good sex with, but she was a terror out of the bedroom, and recently got divorced and back into the dating scene, and it's happened twice more! The couples are a little older now, 50s, but the escalating sl*ttiness of the lady is always the same. These aren't hot wives or cucks or guys who can't satisfy her, it's pure escallating sl*ttiness. Life is good.

[d7uncan]

I celebrate your good luck! Like you, I had some success with threesomes back in the 1970's (for me it wad ads in regional swinger magazines instead of liberal-minded social scenes, but otherwise very similar in tone and personalities). I took a long break and then was surprised at how many couples were open to having me join them for sexual fun as an average-looking single guy in his 50's. The magazines had morphed into regional swinger websites along with an on-site members-only club in a metro area. It sounds like you learned the same lessons I did: a single guy does not need to look like Harrison Ford but he does need to understand how to make a connection with people in a respectful and patient way. Understanding in particular that the woman in these interactions deserves to be listened to and allowed to make a decision with no feeling of pressure or judgement is, I think, the key. I can almost-always find something to praise about a couple and making that obvious in conversation opens a lot of doors (and, eventually, opens a lot of thighs...yummy).
I hope you find the time to tell more of your stories. I, for one, will be happy to read and comment.

[ripstar1]

You are spot on about establishing a repore with couple. You just have to be a nice person and carry on a conversation with them like you would with anyone. Single guys can't be tunnel-vision on the wife and her pussy. The husband wants to know what you are like.

I enjoy swinging as much as a single as being a couple. It is quite an adventure!

[karlhein]

A follow up story, on the theme of escalating sl*ttiness in the lady of couples I've encountered in comparatively normal (e.g. not overtly swinger) situations. This one was more recent, but continues the trend that ladies sometimes find elements of sl*ttiness in themselves unexpectedly.

I met this couple at a tennis club where I regularly go to play. They were regulars, and for a long time, I had a nodding relationship with them. One day, I was there with one of my buddies, and had just finished playing singles. They arrived as we were finishing, and asked if we wanted to play doubles. We had a nice couple of sets, and then shared a drink afterwards. She was a frosted blonde, early 50's with her hubby in his mid 50's. She had great, well-tanned legs, and boobies that seemed too big and too perky for her age and their size to be natural. She also had nipples that were evident through her shirt, even though she was wearing a bra. Like a lot of friendly ladies, she got more touchy after a drink or two. After a couple of drinks, her hubby got a real serious expression on his face, leaned in, and asked if we thought she was 'attractive'. A little eye play around the table, and we both got big grins and said that, yes, she's not only attractive, but is quite hot, and that if she wasn't a married lady that we might be competing to ask her out for dinner She obviously seemed pleased, her nipples reflecting her pleasure, along with a bit of a blush. The conversation continued, with us offering increasingly suggestive conversation about how nice she looked. Her nipples also seemed to be pleased with our conversation, and with our increasingly more direct looks. By this time we both had made several touches of her thighs, further and further up her leg.

As it turns out, she had a boob job about a year ago, which seems to awaked the sexuality of many women, and they had picked up a guy while on vacation about 6 months before, and wanted more of the same. But, she wanted a MFM while hubby took pictures.

Before long we were invited back to their house, which was a very nice place, up in the hills overlooking the town. I've never shared a lady with my buddy, but based on a long friendship, sharing a fair number of stories, and a couple of looks, we both figured out that we were both agreeable.

We arrived at their place just after they did. He offered another round of drinks, but I said, how about we get a shower, and wash off the tennis sweat, and help "Sue" freshen up. "Bill" should go get the video camera. We went up to the bathroom, which had a very nice and very large shower. As he began to film, we began, on either side of her, successively kissing her, and then kissing her longer and deeper, then undressing her, getting in the shower, soaping up, rubbing here and there, including her very nice new 'store bought' boobies, with very dark nipples, feeling her perfectly shaved pussy, making sure she was 'fresh and clean', getting blow jobs, fucking her from behind as she leaned against the wall.....in other words, all of the above. This led to drying off, going into the bedroom, and repeating, doing her both one on one and both at the same time. Both of us received pleasure from her mouth, her pussy and her ass, and we even did a DP. By that time, we were slowing down. Both my buddy and I are in our 60's and even though fit and healthy aren't going to cum 4 times in 4 hours. She, however, came several times, and was quite vocal about it. All this time, hubby is moving here, moving there, getting video and stills from every conceivable angle. As we lay back from the last round, we look over and hubby is there with a big tent in his shorts. So, I tell him to give me the camera, and tell his wife that he needs some relief too. She does as good of a job on his cock as she did on ours, and watching her service him gets us excited again, so she winds up what they call 'air tight', with a cock in every opening.

Well, that's a normal good adventure, but it turns out that it was just opening the door. Apparently they liked to watch the video as part of their own foreplay, and decided that they wanted more. So, he calls me up and asks if I have any other 'buddies', which leads to 4 other adventures at their house, all ending up with her air tight, which seemed to be a particular theme of theirs. Last week, they called again, and I decided to ask a lady friend of mine, who I sleep with more or less regularly, who is bi, and brought her over, instead of bringing a guy "buddy". My friend is a strawberry blonde, in her late 40's, who has small titties, with very pink, very pointy, very sensitive nipples, and the single best tasting pussy I have ever enjoyed. They had a bit of a shocked look on their face when we arrived, but in short order she was in the shower with the two of us, and was soon tasting her first pussy. The evening ended when I took the camera from her hubby, and told him to take care of the ladies. It took a little fumbling but eventually he had first one lady then the other guiding his cock into the others pussy, and after he had cum in my friend, having his wife eat his cum out of her pussy. My friend has told me that she has been invited, by herself, to their place a couple of times, once just with the wife and once with the 2 of them. So, I think the lady is getting a taste for bi sex.

The point, again, apart from relating a nice series of adventures, is how ladies can 'blossom' and become more and more sl*tty, starting with just a simple adventure. The next time they call, I'm going to ask all 5 of my buddies, and my lady friend, to com along to give her the experience of a gang bang. I know that she has done a couple of the guys independently, as well as the lady. It should be a good time.
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