[Exhibitionist] Showing my wife to a friend

[Omega88]

Originally Posted by solva193

Tim

Your wife has to be confident and happy in what you are both doing. If she is not. the whole thing could and probably will end. I suspect she may have panicked a bit after the past photo. Talk to her, recognising she is upset, and explain that although you do like sending the photos, you don't want her to be upset, so you will back off until (or if) she is happy to continue, but that she will control things. However (and make it a joke) you enjoy it so much she needs to be prepared for you to keep hinting, as she looks so great! In this way she will know that she is back in control, but the "joke" leaves you in a position to keep nudging. Keep the "Truth and Dare" safe. There is time later to push boundaries, and you have plenty of time to allow her to adjust in her own time. Ignore anyone who wants you to push her harder. Good luck

Art

Agree 100% with Solva / Art. Like many things, most everyone needs some time to adjust / get use to doing new / different things, whether it is learning a new skill or pushing on boundaries, especially when those boundaries were set and firmly established over many years, decades in many cases. There is an expression of "back and fill" to describe this situation, where one has to step back and make sure all are on firm ground before any advancement can really be made. Otherwise the "poor foundation" may crumble and minds are closed to any new activities. Keeping it fun and relaxed for a while, not taking sexy / revealing pics all the time but add in more fun "regular" pics of her might help reduce the tensions. You may do this already - you seem to have a good sense of when to let up and what topics would be counterproductive. Everybody following this thread wishes you the best of luck! Especially when you post such great updates!

[clairwill]

Originally Posted by tim81

We didn’t, especially so since we were abroad and it seems it’s not the norm in Southern Europe to wear skimpy clothing in public and we didn’t want any trouble with the locals.

I can assure you that wearing skimpy clothing is the norm for girls at least in the Greek islands of the Aegean. Also in any beach in Greece (even family beaches) no one will mind if a girl is topless...

I hope you get her to strip on the nudist beach in Holland - the weather seems quite nice for this!

[tim81]

There is a Dutch saying which goes like this: “The soup isn’t eaten as hot as it is served”. It means something like “Most things will calm down over time”, or ”Things will cool down as time progresses”. You get the meaning I suppose.

The reaction of my wife to the pictures I attached to the last post I posted on OCC follow this expression. The day after my wife was adamant she wouldn’t allow me to send any more risqué pictures of her to our friend she agreed to sending the first pictures below this post. It shows her wearing nothing except her bra and panties. The reason she allowed me to send it was probably my comment with it: I stated it was very warm indeed at our home town (so it was natural my wife wouldn’t be wearing a lot of clothes).

We are at this point indeed: both my wife and our friend know we are sending highly reaving pics of her, in various stages of undress, but I need to pretent every specific picture is about the dog/weather/whatever in order for her to allow me to send it. She still needs the plausible deniability factor I suppose…

After some time she allow me to send pics 2 and 3, both showing her panties but not anything else. The comments I used to get her approval were first her cocktail, and second her laughing at some joke he made.

My wife drank some more wine that evening, and after I promised to walk the dog she changed into her night gown. I used the opportunity to expose one breast to the camera, and before long our friend received the 4th and 5th pictures below this post. After my wife made a great fuss about not stripping for pictures anymore just the day before, she now allowed me to send pictures again with a single breast fully visible…. ;-)

Yesterday we went to a nude beach in our neachbourhood, and my wife removed her bikini top. She didn’t want to strip completely naked, and since I want her to expose her breasts at this point I was more then okay with that. Pics 6 to 8 were send to our friend, even though my wife didn’t approve them before I send ‘m. I knew she would probably not allow them, so I send them in our group chat without consulting her before. Her reaction, after she saw the pictures, was mute indeed. She didn’t object to me sending them, but instead focused on me not asking her consent beforehand.

So that’s the clue: she want’s to be in control about which pics get send to him. If I send topless pics of her revealing all of her breasts she is a little angry, but actually more disappointed I didn’t ask her permission beforehand. She knows by now our friend has seen her topless more then once and by intention, but I am afraid she will still not allow me to send topless pics to him again. She is still holding onto her one beast rule. But by sending the topless pics on the beach she would probably get used to being topless for him, and she would be less conservative next time.

[Menorca]

Dear Tim, she's beautiful, her sweet titties ar so nice...

But if there is a naked beach, she isn't allowed to wear a slip, I think? Hope someday she will be completely naked... Make her compliments about her perfect body, flatter her, say all people - guys and girls - would love to see her naked! Maybe that she then takes off her panties!

Thank you again - she is a wunderful girl / woman / lady!!!

[tim81]

Originally Posted by clairwill

I can assure you that wearing skimpy clothing is the norm for girls at least in the Greek islands of the Aegean. Also in any beach in Greece (even family beaches) no one will mind if a girl is topless.

We stayed in the south of Italy, Calabria to be exact. We didn't see anyone go topless, unfortunatly. Perhaps it has something to do with the fact the isles of the Aegean are far more developed as tourist destinations: in Calabria the number of tourists was fiarly low.

Originally Posted by Menorca

But if there is a naked beach, she isn't allowed to wear a slip, I think?

Your are right, ofcourse. Normally on a nudist beach everyone would be naked. Don't know if it's mandatory though? Last Friday the weather at the cost was not all that great, with about 21 degrees centigrade and much wind. As you can see in one of the pictures I posted, the beach was almost deserted because of that. We didn't stay long either: it wasn't long before my wife wrapped herself in her blanket because of the temperatures and after that the fun for me was over.

[MS05]

Tim I think the photo of your wife standing on the beach is the best so far

[Tsuga]

Tim, I found your thread about four days ago and began reading from the start, following your journey with your wife over the past year. I have been reading several posts each day until I’ve arrived at the present moment. This has been a very exciting read! The story has me gripped with anticipation! I look forward to each step of progress.
Your wife is beautiful! Her body is adorable, and although you crop out her face for these posts, sometimes one can see a glimpse of a smile and I think that is more arousing than anything. She has the cutest smile!!!
I can’t wait to read more. Here’s to many more posts and fun times for you, your wife, and your friend!

[Menorca]

If I were you, dear Tim, I would love to loosen the loops of her panties to make her completely naked...

Do ya think she would be angry then? Because she knows that you are loving her so much and not many people were there? Try it at home at the balcony when it is hot again...

Would you or she allow if another man was taking a photo of her wonderful chset at beach?

When do you begin with your new game - next weekend?

Have a nice week -and show us your girl again for long, long times... She is a miracle!

[Dookieman]

the latest batch of pictures are good ones once again... it's the leg/panty-shots that really blow me up every time.... can't resist it

[tim81]

Originally Posted by Tsuga

Tim, I found your thread about four days ago and began reading from the start, following your journey with your wife over the past year. I have been reading several posts each day until I’ve arrived at the present moment. This has been a very exciting read! The story has me gripped with anticipation! I look forward to each step of progress.
Your wife is beautiful! Her body is adorable, and although you crop out her face for these posts, sometimes one can see a glimpse of a smile and I think that is more arousing than anything. She has the cutest smile!!!
I can’t wait to read more. Here’s to many more posts and fun times for you, your wife, and your friend!

Thank you for taking the patience to read the whole thread. It's about 50 pages by now, and starting from page 1 must be a daunting proposition. Good to read it's actually exciting enough to keep you hooked for four days!

Progress is very slow indeed, because my wife is fairly consious about her body and how much we show to our friend. But on the other hand: we started last october by sending some fairly tame pictures of her during our holiday in Tenerife, barily showing her panties (let alone her breasts), and now she allows me to send the pics in the last couple of posts. So there is real progress, and who knows how for things will progress over the next couple of months?


Thanks for your comment and patience, and I hope my wife allows me to progress further during the summer.