How many guys have boned your wife?

[Andyh2008]

My wife had one guy before me and 13 guys and 5 women since we've been married. 4 of the guys more than once. given BJ's to 3 times that many.
So my wife didn't give her first BJ until she was in collage. her BF back than who taught her how to do it told her that she had to swallow every time, so that's what she did for every guy.
I'd love to meet him and thank him personally some day.
BTW, we talk about it a lot and its a big turn on.

[hamlet]

Couple weeks ago I was chatting with a guy I just met on Facebook. Since we met first time I randomly checked his picture as general curiosity. There was one picture form his wedding day. Pretty old b/w picture. From there I can pretty much guess his age and the length of their marriage. His wife was a pretty nice lady at that time so I just complimented on her and told him he is a luck guy to lay with such women. From there subject lead on subject and I learned that they were swingers when in their younger days. He told they used to be pretty much open about it at the times but after couple of ill ended instances they decided to hide it from their environment.

Anyways... at some point he explained actually they were having an open type relationship since the beginning although they are married. Which he said that actually it was working more for his wife since I guess she has much more chance to lay with other man. After that he wanted me to guess the number of guys she laid. I told him its hard to guess since they were doing it for years but my best wild would be around 200 - 250 man. He told me that he already lost count but it is already over a 1.000.

-> that was my instant face when I read the message. I told bullshit but he said its true.

At the end I choose to believe him since he has no gain to lie to me since I'm a total stranger and actually our chat was not leading anything. Now I'm although I never experienced swing type of life or any open relationship still more a thousand different guys to fuck... well I think thats something else.

[GRITS]

My wife has been w/ over 200 men in her life, but she hasn't been w/ anyone new for about a year.. we tend to stay w/ our regular swing friends. Just haven't found anyone new she wants to be with lately. Generally satisified w/ who we swings with.
We met at a swing group meeting so it wasn't any surprise as to how many thru our years together...my number of women I've been with is about the same.

[clitty]

Fun with math: 1 swinger party a month = 3 new men x 12 = 36 a yr x 30y = 1080

As a guy, I think a busy month would be 12 a month, but avg 4~5 in my single days.

[Basiln]

We are married almost 25 years now, and we have been in an open relationship from the very beginning. So we used to meet some other partners here and there, for a one night stand or for long term things as well. However my number is very much lower than my wife's considering she was part time call girl for about 2 years.

Generally she worked 3-4 days a week half day, and typical day was 2-3 clients, however her personal record was 6 guys at the same day.

Anyways, based on that I estimated her number would be definitely more than one thousand, but probably less than 3000. That's the best estimation I can do.

If we exclude that experience from the calculations, I remember the number was around 100 in 2000, and since then she slowed down considerably, so I think it has to be around 150 now.

[jstly]

My guess is that the average husband knows about 50 percent of his wife's lovers. That's adding before and after marriage. I appreciate the guys who have more open wives who come clean with the whole history, but for the more common wife, I'd guess there are many strategic omissions....

Obviously, one husband's opinion...

[HedoRocks]

We have been married over 17 years now. She is my first wife, though I am her second husband. Her first husband was her "first". After their divorce, she was with a few other guys before me, but not a lot.

Except.... One night she went on a date with a guy, and ended up back at his place. There were 4 other guys there. Everyone was drinking and having a good time. One thing led to another, and next thing she knew, she was the star attraction of a 5 guy gang-bang. While it wasn't her original plan for the night, she wasn't forced in any way. She said she "sort of" enjoyed it. Not so much the actual acts, but the fact that she was their focus, and that so much attention was being paid to her.

Up to that point she wasn't wild and crazy like that. She was pretty conservative. It just happened to be the right time and place (and probably the right amount of alcohol as well!).

I keep telling her she owes me a gang-bang, since I wasn't able to be a part of the first one! She keeps telling me that she doesn't want to "plan" anything, but if the opportunity ever organically comes up, she may indulge me. Trust me, even though she doesn't want to plan anything, I keep trying to figure out how to make it happen! LOL

So, to make a long story short, I'm guessing about 8-9 other guys have boned my wife besides me.

[OMY]

I’ve been married to the same lady for over 20 years. When our dating started to get more serious we discussed prior partners. During these conversations my wife admitted to about 10 partners and stated that she never had a one night stand, nothing kinky, never been with more than one man at a time or been with any married men. Since she grew up in the LA beaches area I rounded up from 10 to probably 12. My wife wasn’t the first gal I dated from that area. Also, I figured the one night stand was probably not a hard and fast rule.

A few years back an event occurred with made me wonder about all of this again and I actually relayed the story of the event on this site. I was surprised that someone recognized it and my wife. I upped the tally and figured that my wife was probably been with around 20 guys, that she did have the occasional one night stand, that she pulled a few trains, was into bondage during a phase in her early 20’s. But, I was still a little suspect of what I had learned from the guy I spoke with on this site.

That suspicion was removed a year or so ago when I happened to overhear conversations my wife was having with her sisters as they were going through some old photo albums. I had to revise upward from 20 or so to probably 25-30. Also, the one night stand rule became a loose rule of thumb. I also learned that shortly before we met she was getting focused on finding a man willing to commit to a relationship so she was dating more than one man at a time. She also dated a couple of guys who were twice her age and that she slept with 2 married men. That translates to about 5 guys per year prior to our getting together.

While I am surprised by the number my feeling is that in the end I benefited from all of the experience she gathered during this time.

[barnyb]

My SIL 18 months ago broke up with her long time husband (they got married at 20)

Last summer I saw her topless on the deck at the summer house. I was surprised by her casualness. Then a few days later fully nude at a beach. After that I would often see her fully naked and free at the summer house.

I thought she would have had maybe 1 or 2 boyfriends before her marriage and then a couple over the last year.

We have just got back from staying in Spain in a friend of my wifes apartment. I saw her a few times naked in the apartment which was good. My wife and her friend went off shopping one day so SIL went on down to Pedro's beach. A nice beach in a national park with a nude section around a small point. The main beach can be nude. SIL went nude all day at the main beach. She loved the attention. Guys would talk to her and she would walk around nude. She would quite comfortably talk to a group of 3 or 4 guys, her being the only one naked. A particular group got talking to her and she came over and said she was going back to town with them for a drink. I thought fine.

About 30 mins later I took the bus to the top of the road and decided to visit the ruin house above the beach to get some photos. Outside the ruin was a car. When I got to the ruin I heard some noises looked in and there was SIL on all fours in a roast spit with 3 of the guys (who were until then complete strangers).

I was shocked and not sure what I should do so I pushed the boundaries and walked in asked her if she was fine. She looked up said yes but asked if I could stay until she had finished and then take her home to clean up.

When she came out about 30 mins later she looked quite different. I now view her very differently. I thought she had had maybe 3 lovers and now I have seen her with 3 guys at one time.

A few days later we went back to Pedro's beach with wife and her friend and SIL. SIL kept her bikini on all day but went topless only on the sunbed.

[Boxi]

My wife won't say openly how many have used her wonderful pussy. But in conversations over the years I get the strong impression it's in the 30's prior to our marriage. Since then till now, I find it hard to believe it's just been me, only because she has introduced new completely different techniques that she had never used ever previously.
When I mentioned the different technique she just passed it off. Curious.