Trying to get my uk wife to cuckold any advice?

[spunky1]

hi ive been trying for a while to get my wife (29 years old size 10 blonde ) to have a threesome but she just looks dicusted and laughs at the idea. i often ask her whether she gets chatted up when she goes out with her friends drinking on a night out but she always says no one ever tries anything with her but im dead cetrain this is not the case as ive seen guys try chatting her up when weve been out as a couple. any advice on how to persue this or should i just call it a day? thanks

[nectcouple]

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[mat1632]

Dear Spunky,

What is your real intention:to be a cuckold or having a threesome?These are 2 different things,which need a
different approach.With cuckolding you stay out off the action and in best case you watch and take pictures.
In a threesome you are one of the two men pleasing her.In my opion and experience the second is much easier
to realise.I think first of all,you need to decide what you want.

[SpyStrip]

Presuming you want to be the one who is cucked.

Some thoughts for you.

We play MMFF, and that is often one of the approaches to a cuck fantasy, where you, your wife and the other man role play a cuck experience, and the wife of the alpha male simply gets to enjoy the show. OR, for a lot of humiliation fun, she's also in on it, and helps to humiliate you as well, enjoying her man's playing with your wife.

If you want an actual cuck experience and lifestyle, be very careful. That can lead to cheating, genuine harm and divorce.

IMO, if your wife is not open to an MMFF foursome, don't go down the road of cuck play.

If it's all in fun, and only a once a year or one time fantasy, then that's different. Like birthday present for your wife. Stop this "chatting up" horseshit and tell her the truth:

"Honey, I want to see you make love to another man, while I am helpless?"

"Honey, I want to be forced to suck off another man, who then orally pleasures you while I am helpless or acting less than a man."

"Honey, I don't want another guy to f*** you, but I do want to watch him take a tour of your naked body, with his hands and mouth."

I will continue this and respond, based on the games my girl and I participate in, if you respond to this.

[ModelT-MsDollie]

Thanks Mat------- SpyStrip things like this should help couples new to these things. Altho my wife and I are way too old for most games, we do still try new things. Being a cuck iis not one of my desires but watching and being a partner to my wife getting fuck has been a lifelong dream.
From my experience a man needs to mention his fantasy or dream often but never force your wife/partner into anything. Please don't trick her or get her drunk just to get her fucked!
You have a lifetime ahead. Don't rush.
Too many swingers and cucks end up divorced. Not what you want if you have a pretty and sexy wife.

[spunky1]

Thank you all for your advice. yes i would love to just watch and take photos of my wife and another man but she says she isnt interested in persuing my fantasy she just wants me. which is great with me but i still have this fantasy in my head i suppose what im asking is should i continue to talk to her about it or just give up and accept im lucky to have a loyal wife. or how did anyone else convince there wife to do this...? as for the chatting her up at a bar or club im just trying to establish whether she likes getting hit on? surely women like attention from other men or am i wrong??

[SpyStrip]

Originally Posted by spunky1

Thank you all for your advice. yes i would love to just watch and take photos of my wife and another man but she says she isnt interested in persuing my fantasy she just wants me. which is great with me but i still have this fantasy in my head i suppose what im asking is should i continue to talk to her about it or just give up and accept im lucky to have a loyal wife. or how did anyone else convince there wife to do this...? as for the chatting her up at a bar or club im just trying to establish whether she likes getting hit on? surely women like attention from other men or am i wrong??

If she says she only wants you and is not interested, you should stop right there.

You have your answer.

[GRITS]

You can't force anyone , it will backfire and never happen....... take your time, and play act for about 6 months when you have sex, tell her / ask her who she fucked this week??( no names, just how many & when)--- Play act and both of you talk dirty and fantize about it ......say you like fucking her after someone else did. Be patience and just play, if it takes a year, so be it, in the meantime have fantasy fun..... eventually she will get curious enought to try,,, or she won't.

[clitty]

Originally Posted by spunky1

Thank you all for your advice. yes i would love to just watch and take photos of my wife and another man but she says she isnt interested in persuing my fantasy she just wants me. which is great with me but i still have this fantasy in my head i suppose what im asking is should i continue to talk to her about it or just give up and accept im lucky to have a loyal wife. or how did anyone else convince there wife to do this...? surely women like attention from other men or am i wrong??

As stated, you should NOT force or demand such things for your wife. Maybe years from now, who knows... you got advice from others. And people's sexuality taste do change over time. Things I've done with my wife a few months ago, I didn't do 5 years ago in that she wanted to try different things.

Now, is it fun... yeah. And SpyStrip has told your straight up, you can be trending on dangerous waters.
While I wasn't in to cuckold as we did MFM/MFM/MMFF, etc. There are obvious times in which she is getting laid and I am not and other problems developed. Our relationship has other issues and "playing with others" exposed those cracks in bad ways.

My wife did things because she loved me, not because she wanted to. AND that was a communication failure as I never would have agreed to such things if she felt that way. Yes, we both had fun - but it was for the wrong reasons and we're still sorting this out.

Here is the situation you may end up. With enough pressure - your wife may DO IT in spite - then resent you for it. And that thing grows until it blows up. Again, I didn't pressure mine - she mistook my ideas and experiences to means she HAD to meet those exceptions.

I'd rather cuddle with my wife (without sex) than have sex with another woman for the fun of it. At this time, I don't know what our kinky life style is, its not that important at this moment.

Also, like SpyStrip says... if you do such things, do it once or twice a year. Now, there are cuckold people here and all over the world who are in loving stable marriages... where the guy licks the other guys cum out of her vag. Each their own - doesn't bother me. Just not my thing.

If you want, read my thread on this... over the course of 6 months of what has happened. And it even includes photos: https://forum.oneclickchicks.com/showthread.php?t=187097

Things could have gone better, but its about communications.