What do you say to a naked erection?

[delt]

I won't even try to explain how this conversation with my wife occurred over the weekend, but my lovely wife of almost 50 years and I were nudists back in the late 1970's and 1980's, and I have written about our experiences then at length in OCC's non-fiction category. We also have hosted nude pool parties and attended other functions when we were younger.

We were reminiscing this weekend, and she stated that she was always comfortable being a nudist, even when she was the only one nude in a group. Actually, she enjoys that scenario. And she is certainly not uncomfortable around a erect penis, mine or others, in the right circumstances.

She asked me how I felt when I got an erection in front of a woman when the two of us were alone? This is normal with us as a married couple, but I was challenged to think of another time, although I know it has happened with my "nudist neighbor" numerous times. Of course, with Linda (the nudist neighbor) she is almost insulted if you don't respond. I got one alone with my sister in law once, too, but she and I are not attracted to each other--long story. I also remember walking naked out of the toilet at a hotel to face the housekeeper, and my cock got rock hard in a moment. She blushed looking at my organ as it grew into full hard-on, and the more she stared, the harder it got. I cowered and covered, looking for a towel but the housekeeper told me to relax, that it happened often and she was not offended. I told her, a plump middle aged African American lady, that I was embarrassed more by the hard on that by being caught naked, and she laughed and said that "all cocks have their own minds". I relaxed and we spoke for a few minutes but my cock stayed at attention. A knock at the door and a feminine voice asked "Mary?", and the maid said "Come in, Jeannie". I was again embarrassed but another housekeeper strolled in and I again covered up with my hands. The first maid told me to relax, and both maids acted like it was as normal as finding a wet towel. Now I was rock-hard in front of two housekeepers, the second one being a bit older and perhaps Hispanic.

They were in no way uncomfortable and as they stood there fully dressed in drab grey uniforms and flat utilitarian shoes, as my cock was getting purple-headed and beginning to throb like I was watching a hot Playboy cheerleader strip.
It was a strange but exciting feeling. I offered to excuse myself to get dressed, when Mary asked if I was going to jack off first. I said probably yes, and she asked me to do it in front of them. Both agreed that there are men who try to get hotel maids to catch them naked and often while they are masturbating, but that disgusts them. Somehow, they were enjoying their current situation. Jeannie went to her cart and brought back a small bottle of hand lotion and a hand towel. She squirted some lotion in the palm of her hand and gave my penis a quick swipe, leaving it covered in goo. I began to run my right fist up and down in a steady pattern staring at them as they stared at my penis. Soon I was getting close and Mary reached under and squeezed my balls, causing me to shoot on the towel that Jeannie held. It was over quickly. They left and told me to have a safe trip and "come again"! Later that day, I saw Mary in a hallway and asked her how she knew I wasn't the usual guy who tries to get caught naked. She replied that she knew I wasn't one of them because I was not erect when I came out of the toilet. I got erect when I saw her and was embarrassed. To wrap this long example up, I have returned to the hotel several times and if Mary is on duty, I go to her floor and say hello. She even came to my room one night and soaped me up in the shower and paid special attention to my organ.

My wife told me that on a number of occasions, she has somehow been alone with a man who has an obvious hard-on and she struggles with the proper response. You cannot "Ask Abby" this question. If she, the female, has caused the erection, then she feels some obligation to help relieve the situation, maybe not with intercourse but a handjob or blowjob might be in order. As a married woman, she does not offer her favors to just anyone, but she understands that men have needs.

We discussed that sometimes erections are caused by embarrassment, as if you accidentally walked into a friend while you were nude. An erection can result that is not the same as if you had sexual thoughts about that friend. From her perspective, she says she cannot judge if the hard-on is from embarrassment or from a sexual thought or wish, especially if she too is naked. If caused by embarrassment, offering a handjob or BJ might add to the embarrassment, especially if they do not find you sexually attractive.

She reminded me when her brother in law asked to see her spread, and she did it for him and he got erect and jerked off looking at her. That was at one of the weekends at Linda's.

She also told me that two of our son's friends walked in our house as she was coming downstairs nude. They both stared at her and being young men, their pants tented in a hurry. After her reflexive covering up, she lowered her hands and let them look and asked if they had questions. Both wanted to see her "secret area" so she let them follow her into a bedroom where she spread and let them finger her then they jacked off watching her rub herself to a come.

Another time was at Pinetree nudist club when the guy followed her to the house where we rented rooms, but that is covered in that thread "Can you be more exposed at a nudist club?"

She says she will tell me of the other few times when we have time.

Do any of you have stories or photos of this?

[Shihoin]

Originally Posted by delt

From her perspective, she says she cannot judge if the hard-on is from embarrassment or from a sexual thought or wish, especially if she too is naked.

I know this is an old post, but it's never too late to respond.

A few years back, my wife and I were at a nudist venue, hanging around the pool table late at night. We were joined by a younger couple. All four us of were completely naked. And the most striking thing about the dude was his raging erection.

I thought my wife was going to react negatively the moment she saw it. But to my surprise, she acted completely normal. Well not entirely. Whereas she'd usually be modest in a naked social situation, she was quite "demonstrative" while playing pool, bending over repeatedly, standing and sitting with her legs open. She was being very uninhibited.

Her "take" on it was the following. She had no way of knowing whether his erection was "involuntary", if maybe he'd just fucked his GF and still aroused; or if she was the cause of it. But she wasn't going to assume it was the latter; especially since he showed no sexual interest in my wife. And because he was already hard, she felt she could be more uninhibited since she didn't have to be concerned about causing arousal. She probably would have reacted very differently if she'd been able to ascertain for sure that she was the cause of his erection.

It was an interesting social experiment.

[coupleak]

Unless attached to a pushy obnoxious lurking perv, my wife doesn't have an issue with erections. Not at the sauna or beach or pool. Like stated before, one does not know the cause. Excitement, nervous, awkwardness or something else. Besides, she does like the look of it 🙂

And when it happens, she won't behave in matter the erection will go away. She might teasingly brush her breast, spread more wide than usual or jump around inhibited at ball/tennis games making her breasts bounce all over the place 😁. Live witnesses/victims include myself, her brother-in-law and several total strangers.

[Curiouscouple2469]

Once; When invited to join a couple at their vacation rental for dinner and a swim we arrived to find her already in the pool in just a thin thong and he was in a towel when we arrived.

Standing on the pool deck he removed the towel to reveal a flaccid bbc and asked if we wanted to join them in a swim before dinner.

I said sure dropped my shorts as he stood Watching my shy wife slowly slip out of her sundress. His eye fixed on her, and hers on him, we both watched his growing erection as first her tiny little tits popped out over the top of her dress.

As she slipped her G-string panties off I thought he was going to bust A nut there and then. My wife stepped out of her panties and lifted them from the pool deck. Blushing she stood up straight and allowed him a few minutes to really observe her full nakedness.

As his eyes admired her From her titties to the little trimmed patch atop her puffy pubic bone I couldn’t help but get an erection myself..

My wife slowly folded her panties placed them atop her other clothes turned back toward him. hands at her sides, cheek's flushed with shyness, she now equally intrigued, stared at his large ridged black manhood 6 feet away and pointing straight at her. He looked as tho he was ready to pounce, when his wife broke the tension as she climbed the pool steps.

Much more round and curvy, her large breasts shining in the sun she took a long look at my now hard cock and slipped her panties over her wide hips to reveal a slightly chubby bald pubic mound.
She made a comment on her husbands obvious condition and invited us over to the hot tub.

It was the start to a fun evening however not the happy ending I believe they had originally planned to share with us.
We did engage in a 4 person shower before dinner as well and the soap slicked bodies in a confined area seemed to have the same result on us men.
“What was said to the erections” was very little in the end.