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· Have your partner stand in front of you. You get the full figure view and more mobility to perform your art on his rod.

· With you on your back and a few pillows for support, have you partner kneel beside you making you eye level with his manhood, let the fun begin.
· Experiment with the lights on and off. Lights on offer the visual pleasure of watching your beautiful mouth work on his body. Lights off offer the fantasy of what you doing of going to do next as he can only feel you movements.

· Give him the perfect view of your womanly features by straddling your partner in the opposite direction with you on top kneeling over him. He also gets great access to you for inserting his fingers in your hot spot and more.

Adding Pizzazz

· Wear the bright red lipstick you've always admired and never dared to try. Making your lips look sexy will make blowing him more fun. Why not add the spiked heels and sexy outfit to match.

· Drinking something hot or cold before inserting the penis into your mouth will generate unique sensations.

· Adding flavor, such as chocolate syrup or mint liqueur, can be rewarding for both you and him.

[redman007]

Great pics and a great eye for the unusual. So many of them ooze sensuality, particularly the ones with such evocative expressions and poses. Many many thanks once again.

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Thank you, please forgive any re posts

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Wonder how to get your man's attention without having to blow a police whistle, scream "hey you!" or do a strip-tease in the middle of the street? The art of capturing someone's attention can be very subtle and silent. The key is timing and intention and focus. Sometimes it's a small gift, sometimes just a look or a gesture, but there are many ways to let someone know you're thinking of them in a very particular way. If what you want is for your man to know you're in the mood, without having to come out and say it, try any of these sly moves and see where they lead. . .

1.Pucker up and blow him a kiss at a moment when he'd least expect it.

2.Catch his eye, then wink.

3. Catch his eye, then lick your lips, slowly.


4. Slowly unbutton the top buttons of your blouse (make sure he is watching), and flash a breast at him.

5. Take a long-stemmed rose and lightly caress his face with the petals, then put it in his lap when he's reading the paper or watching TV.

6. Start his Sunday crossword puzzle before he gets to it and write a few dirty words in the blanks...

7.Suggest a game of Scrabble and then after the game begins announce only words related to sex are allowed..

8.Get some sexy new sheets in red satin or black rayon. Don't let him see them (cover them with your usual bedspread). As he's getting ready for bed, turn down his side of the bed and place a pair of silk boxers for him right near his pillow.

9. Leave the bathroom door open and take a shower when your man is in the next room. Call for him to come in and help you, then when he arrives tell him you dropped the soap and want him to come in and pick it up for you!

10.When you are both planning to go out for the evening, put on a nice coat with high heels, a garter belt and stockings and nothing else on underneath. Just before you're going to leave the house, open the coat and ask "Do you think this looks all right?" (You might want to make sure you leave some extra time to make your social engagement)

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11. Get a dozen or so subtly-scented candles (vanilla, sandalwood or patchouli are sensual–not strawberry or artificial sweet scents) and put them throughout the living room before he arrives home in the evening. Then dim the lights. Greet him in a silky negligee with a glass of champagne. Don't say a word, just smile.

12. Give him a sensual scalp massage.

13. When he's watching TV, ask him to take his socks off. Then bring out a basin of hot, scented water and bathe his feet. Dry them softly, then rub them with powder or lotion scented with a manly sensual scent like sandalwood or vetiver. If he is not used to having his feet pampered, be warned! He could get used to this!

14. Make his favorite meal. Then ask if he wants dessert. Then run a bubble bath for the two of you.

15. Greet him at the door naked, with a pitcher of martinis.

16. Take his hands when you're both sitting on the couch and slowly give him a thorough hand massage, lovingly caressing his fingers and palms.

17. Mail a package to his office with something naughty: a discreet sex toy, for example, or a book on the Kama Sutra.

18. Bring him to a classy strip joint, if this is something you'd also like to experience.

19. Offer to share a pint of ice cream with him, but only bring one spoon.

20. Leave a trail of your clothing from the front door leading to the bedroom and wait for him to follow it in. Be naked on the bed, or wear sexy lingerie. (Naked works best for newer relationships, while the lingerie seems to spice things up for long-time couples)

21. Tuck a note inside an envelope into his jacket pocket in the morning, scented with your perfume. Write "I can't wait to see you" on it

22. Next time you're at his place, put lipstick all over your lips and leave a nice kiss on his bathroom mirror.

23. On a hot day, offer to get him a frozen treat. Unwrap it for him. Then, before letting him eat it, slowly run it across your nipples, or between your legs (or both).

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Need some creative ideas for keeping things lively between you and your man? Try some of these rituals we have created specially for you, to keep that romantic spark alive! A ritual simply means placing special importance upon an activity, planning it carefully and performing it with awareness and intention. Some of the everyday activities you thought very dull can be ritualized to make them special, and help you both share some more romance in your relationship. There are rituals involving food, bathing, and foreplay-try them all!

1. Shopping for that Romantic Dinner Together: Sure, you can prepare that decadent meal for him, but what if you both do the shopping together? Hint: Specialty stores or farmers’ markets are sexier than the supermarket. You can gaze at each other suggestively over the strawberries and oysters and chocolate. Whisper in his ear as he is deliberating over red or white wine—speaking some sexy French or Italian will help him decide.

2. Preparing that Romantic Dinner Together: Careful, sometimes things in the kitchen can heat up to such a degree that you forget all about dinner! Stand behind him and caress him as he’s grilling the steaks. Make the soufflé naked with just an apron and high heels. Get him to lick the Bernaise sauce off your fingers. Smear some lemon frosting on his neck and kiss it off.


3. Eating that Romantic Dinner Together: Once everything is prepared, be sure to dress for dinner! Wear a sexy silk slip or a kimono that falls open easily, to reveal his favorite undergarments (those mesh tap pants, or black garter and stockings). Make sure there are candles for ambient lighting and sexy music.

4. Postponing that Romantic Dessert Together: Make your meal leisurely. When the food’s done, have a seat with your after-dinner brandy or coffee. Now’s the time for loving conversation, or just some quiet time listening to music or maybe watching an erotic video. Let him know dessert won’t be ready for a while…hint, hint.

5. Bringing that Romantic Dessert to Bed when You’re Ready: Nothing like a nice treat when you’ve burned off some calories in bed! Bring one serving with two spoons or forks and feed each other…

6. Bubble Bath for Two: Okay your man may be a shower guy, but this might convert him. Make sure the bathroom is clean and free of clutter (maybe you can even get him to help you with this part!) and get your supplies ready beforehand. You will need: candles, fluffy towels, a nice robe for each of you, bubble bath (Lush has some great bubble bars) and grooming products (see #7 and 8). Run the bath and let him know you expect him to join you in a few minutes. He’ll love the sight of you amid those bubbles, face flushed, waiting for him!

7. During-Bath Grooming: Animals groom each other, why not people? Have some grooming products handy to share this nice intimate ritual. Wash his hair and give him a nice scalp massage while you’re at it. A plastic cup or bowl is handy for rinsing. Or you can help each other smooth on face masks and relax while they do their work. Plus: your man’s skin will look great afterwards! Maybe one or both of you has a shaving fantasy—now’s the time to help each other out! Make sure you have fresh disposable razors and some luscious shaving soap.

8. After-Bath Grooming: Maybe you and your man don’t even know each other’s after-bath routine. Here’s a fun way to find out. Invite your man to apply your lotion or powder or conditioner for you. Offer to do the same for him. Wrap up in some nice fluffy robes and lounge around for a few hours, or head straight to bed. Sleep naked for a change, if you don’t usually.

9. Ritual Massage: Make that backrub or footrub into something special. Light candles and lay out special oils or lotions. Make sure you create a comfortable place for your man to lie down. Play soothing (but sexy) music. Light incense or use scented candles: something subtle and arousing like sandalwood, patchouli or vanilla. Encourage him to get into loose, comfortable clothing, or to get undressed and put a robe on. When the massage is over, make sure there is a hot or cool drink on hand. Your man may feel very relaxed, or very aroused, depending on his mood and what kind of massage you give—be prepared to go with the flow!

10. Ritual Foot Bath/Foot Rub: Our feet take so much punishment, there is nothing like a nice foot rub to rejuvenate. Bathing the feet is a tradition that goes back to ancient Egypt. It’s so decadent, you’ll want to try this ritual often! Have two plastic or metal bowls ready; one will be filled with hot water, one with cool. Wash your man’s feet one at a time in the hot water with soap. Then rinse them in the cool water. This is good for circulation and energy. Then dry them off gently and rub lotion or cologne on them. Ahhh…

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Hide a dab of jam or honey on your body and ask your partner to find it.

Cover your partners body in chocolate sauce and lick it off. Or just drizzle some in tragic spots.

Drizzle champagne between your legs.

Give your partner the Roman treatment and hand feed them g****s and wine.

Have a naked food fight!

Run ice cubes over your partners nipples

Have a treasure hunt, where you leave a trail of g****s to help your partner discover the "pot of gold".
Your partner feeds you bite size morsels of your favorite foods while you relax in a bubble bath. All the while you anticipate the cleansing massage you will receive after your appetite is satiated.

Have an indoor picnic, make your surrounding romantic, light some candles, lay down a few pillows. Play a favorite CD. Some food suggestions are; a chilled bottle of wine, strawberries, mixed fruit, chocolate sauce, brie cheese, and crackers.

Lay down plastic trash bags on an open space on the floor and have fun body painting each other with various types of food.

Eat some asparagus tips with your fingers. Not only are the tips, very suggestive as they resemble a penis, but dip the tip in butter first and it will leave a sensual gloss on your lips.

Make of paste from various types of foods, such as banana's and chocolate sauce, then paint it on your partners body making art and love.

Blind fold your partner and help them experience different tastes and textures. While they describe it to you.

Call you partner at work while your enjoying a piece of fruit or some vegetables. Describe in detail the sensations you are or would like to be experiencing

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Is there a lesson she could learn from these posts?

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Can you have your cake and eat it too? Yes, yes, and more yes.

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Sensuality is a state of mind.