[Request] MY WIFE SAYS MOST WOMEN DO NOT LIKE GIVING BLOWJOBS. IS THIS TRUE?

[ai conomio]

Of the first three girls I ever made love to, 2 never sucked me off. Those first three were short term affairs though. After that, all the women I've been with sucked cock, a couple not that well, but they all sucked me off. Most swallowed. I usually go down on my lady before she has a chance to do anything for me. I always do that the first time I am with a girl. Get her worked up, use your fingers if you have to, but then dive in and bring her to orgasm. Then do it to her again after you've had an orgasm. I've never had to ask for a blow job after following that routine. I should point out, I go down because I love the taste, the smell and the feel of it. I don't do it just to get a blow job in return.

[RoninMaster]

I have been with nine women in my life. Only two did not like doing BJs and one of those was when I was in high school (29 years ago) so I am not sure it counts as she may have changed since then.

[Crankdingo]

The wife does not like it, and does it now and again as part of her duties. Thus, she is horrible at it. I have had many lovers who clearly enjoy it, and I could tell the difference for sure. I'd say it is about 70/30: with 70 percent to the good.

[dmk559]

Originally Posted by Caveman 1

My wife used to suck me off all the time...then we got married. ...

Women do all kind of things before they get married!

Cave

TOUCHE'
Women will suck you into marriage, but once the have the ring (& entitled to 1/2 your assets), they never offer anymore! ...Especially after 40.
God I feel so used <lol>

[cornishman]

I've given this some thought, and over the years, ( i've just past 50 ) ALL of the woman i have been with have given me blow jobs, and have appeared to enjoy it, out of all that i can think of, only 2 would'nt swallow, as i've got older i'm more than happy with a grope and a blow job, in fact my neighbour ( who' a lot younger than me is quite happy to blow me without us having to have full sex, she seems to love it she allways swallows and cleans any cum up with her tounge, i'm more than happy with that, ive always belived that most women will be as dirty as the man demands, i think you just got to insist

[Barmixer]

The comments about swallowing reminded me of a woman I knew. She was in her late 40's at the time and was reading a book that had a cock sucking scenario in it. She had never done it before, but decided to give it a try. Her husband would let her suck him, but would not cum in her mouth.

This led her to seeking more on the outside. She found she not only liked a load in her mouth, she loved to swallow.

[joker60]

dmk your wrong my wife is 45 and will suck me at the drop of a hat

[Sacho]

Originally Posted by joker60

dmk your wrong my wife is 45 and will suck me at the drop of a hat

mine is the same sept older

[monagamous_now]

I've been married three times.

My first wife only gave me BJ when we were in a group (foursome or threesome) setting. She would NEVER do it when we were just the two of us. She never let me come in her mouth - ever. She did, however, let other male participants in our group endeavors come in her mouth - swallowed some, spit some out.

My second wife was very much the same - but, I did get oral from her a couple of times when it was just the two of us. She only let me come in her mouth ONE time ... that was during an MFM threesome. She and I were in 69, the other M was fucking her from behind doggie-style. I was licking her clit. On some thrusts, his scrotum would bump my nose. She was giving me head ... I tried to warn her I was coming - but it must have sounded garbled. (My mouth was occupied, you see.) She took it all down. But that never happened again. She would occasionally give oral to another guy during MFM ... but rarely let him come that way. It was just foreplay for her to get him hard enough to fuck.

My current wife - when we first married - was a very sexual being. She gave hand-jobs, and blow-jobs ... and seemed to enjoy me going down on her ... but, that's all gone, now. Now, on the rare times I get sex, she rushes me - and won't touch my cock. Straight missionary or nothing. Resists me going down on her. Not a great situation - but that's my current lot.

Other than wives - I've gotten oral from many women. Some seemed to enjoy it for the act, itself. Some seemed to be like my second wife - using oral only as a foreplay device to get to the main event.

Oh - and both of my first wives LOVED being eaten out ... my second wife, especially - was multi-orgasmic from oral sex ... but, she didn't like to reciprocate.

[kajuk]

Ive been single 95% of my life. Im now 48. I have had over 1000 lovers. Not bragging just a statment for the topic. I would say 75% of my lovers liked giving oral. 205 did it with reserve the other 5% just downright would not do it.
Any time I have ever been in a relationship (I mean exclusively) All of my women loved it. One of the exes I write about in this forum could have an orgasm from giving me head and not touching herself. Hope this sheds some light on the subject.