wife is such a prude

[Duran Duran]

Originally Posted by Naddy3

Yet she dresses in a way that usually accents her 38B tits and nice ass and legs. but she thinks anything I do or say is perverted.!!!
I wish she was receptive to things I might say to her to do to her like:

'your tits sure look nice in that bra and top.
'I hate when u sit with that wrinkle in your top above your tits.
'I love when I see you in your short little night gown
reach and feel her ass as she vacuums
reach over and feel her tits while sitting in car with me
I love seeing down you top when you bend over.
Your ass really looks great in those pants.

Perhaps the way you express these things is too direct? Just I know if I said those things to my wife out of the blue and in non sexual situations, she may not react all that well to them. It also may come across to her as you being a little desperate and not fully in control, giving her the power. Most women love power in men. Maybe...

"Your tits sure look nice in that bra and top." = "That top really suits you. You got great shopping sense. I love the way it looks on you."

"I hate when u sit with that wrinkle in your top above your tits." = Never tell a woman you hate something about them! Haha. Instead give her a quick shoulder rub and get her to stretch her body and more than likely sit up straight and in turn that will show off her tits or she'll be appreciative and unconsciously show her body off better to you.

Reach and feels her ass while she vacuums = she's doing chores while you're getting frisky. She's obviously not happy doing the chores, so maybe prepare her a drink for when she finishes and once that smile kicks in you've then got a chance to give her some physical affection.

Reach over and feel her tits while sitting in car with me = Warm up to that. first drive in a way that's pleasurable, then talk about something fun or positive, then thigh rub, and then you can move on to the home run. Put her in the mood so she wants it and you're giving her want she wants, even though it's secretly what you wanted first.

"I love seeing down you top when you bend over" = Many women, if they aren't feeling frisky, won't actually be turned on by such things. You're sexually objectifying her when she's in a non sexual mood. That's fine if she is feeling sexy and women enjoy being sexually objectified when it's on their terms or when they feel sexy, but not so much if she isn't in the mood for it.

I truly believe that for sexual compliments to work best you also need to compliment women in non sexual ways. If all they hear is sexual compliments they'll think that's all you're interested in. Cynical? Perhaps. Works? 100%

[Boobs]

Originally Posted by Duran Duran

Perhaps the way you express these things is too direct? Just I know if I said those things to my wife out of the blue and in non sexual situations, she may not react all that well to them. It also may come across to her as you being a little desperate and not fully in control, giving her the power. Most women love power in men. Maybe...

"Your tits sure look nice in that bra and top." = "That top really suits you. You got great shopping sense. I love the way it looks on you."

"I hate when u sit with that wrinkle in your top above your tits." = Never tell a woman you hate something about them! Haha. Instead give her a quick shoulder rub and get her to stretch her body and more than likely sit up straight and in turn that will show off her tits or she'll be appreciative and unconsciously show her body off better to you.

Reach and feels her ass while she vacuums = she's doing chores while you're getting frisky. She's obviously not happy doing the chores, so maybe prepare her a drink for when she finishes and once that smile kicks in you've then got a chance to give her some physical affection.

Reach over and feel her tits while sitting in car with me = Warm up to that. first drive in a way that's pleasurable, then talk about something fun or positive, then thigh rub, and then you can move on to the home run. Put her in the mood so she wants it and you're giving her want she wants, even though it's secretly what you wanted first.

"I love seeing down you top when you bend over" = Many women, if they aren't feeling frisky, won't actually be turned on by such things. You're sexually objectifying her when she's in a non sexual mood. That's fine if she is feeling sexy and women enjoy being sexually objectified when it's on their terms or when they feel sexy, but not so much if she isn't in the mood for it.

I truly believe that for sexual compliments to work best you also need to compliment women in non sexual ways. If all they hear is sexual compliments they'll think that's all you're interested in. Cynical? Perhaps. Works? 100%

I agree. Women want to feel loved and appreciated, and not just for being around when you're feeling horny.