Question for the married people on here.

[512KenStron]

Not very often but often enough since she was curious what porn showed as far as sexual positions and what the women experienced in the videos. Some 10 to 15 minutes was enough to scan through several porn videos and we were both then worked up enough to start our hot experience.

We haven't watch porn together since maybe 2020 and we both have our own alone time and she just uses her imagination without porn videos or images assisting on a screen. I however do use my wife's nude photos often when I masturbate. She knows I use her photos to masturbate and is very happy with that.

We compare notes sometimes about what excited us to masturbate and we are open with each other. Outside porn for me now is more of seeing what others are doing and perhaps trying that with my wife.

[Yummy60]

You said "I operate an adult photography group on another website"

I shoot and post my lovely wife.. please let me know if your group/site has submitted amateur content, Id love to join and chat

sandlfun@yahoo.com

Originally Posted by Speedster

Yes my wife knows that I look at porn and masturbate. I operate an adult photography group on another website and she often helps me pick out the feature photos for the week.

She knows that I am on here. She knows that she is posted on here. She doesn't mind as long as she isn't confronted with her photos by people that knows her.

I can get out of bed from having awesome sex and I will still masturbate thinking about what just happened. I don't masturbate because I am lacking sex, I do it in addition to sex.

Masturbating is natural for everyone. If someone says that they don't do it, I think that they are not telling the truth. Looking at porn is probably mostly a male thing, but that's natural too. Guys are visual and females are audio.

That's why you really need to think about what you are saying to a female before you say it. You might be tossing a pebble, they are getting hit with a cement block.

Believe me, they never forget! They might say that they forgive you, but I wouldn't bet on it.

Nearly all guys look at porn and masturbate. Nearly all females masturbate probably a smaller number look at porn. However, I haven't met a female yet that doesn't own at least one sex toy.

As far as married couples go, why be married if you are hiding things from the other spouse?

[Digitalzoom1]

My wife had never seen a porn video until she was around 28/30 years old, they were the under the counter ones and a bit difficult to see at times, she didn't enjoy them much so didn't bother with them, we have never discussed masturbating and just got on with what we needed to do when we needed to do it, in her 60s things changed, her boyfriend wanted her to take pictures of herself to send him, as she is hopeless at Tec of any sort I got asked to help her, he sends her pics and videos of himself wanking and I take the pics and videos of her using her toys for her to send to him on WhatsApp, so things have turned around for us I know and help her masturbating and then help her send them , as I said she is hopeless with technology of any sort, as for me chemotherapy and prostate meds , have killed my equipment stone dead, I can't get hard and I certainly can't cum so there's nothing to hide from her anyway.

[LTPGeorge]

She does. She even encourages it sometimes. She also likes looking at nude male photographs herself and has been to watch male and female strippers. She tends to not like porn films though - I think she finds them too graphic. Past girlfreinds also encouraged me to jack off, sometimes they'd want to watch.

[ioutd]

Interesting dilemma. My wife loves having sex, ss fun when we go out (really fun in other cities), let's me photograph and video her, but does not like porn at all. I do have to hide it from her. I've tried to get her to watch some porn that start with massage, but she is just against it. Kind of bums me out, because there is lots to learn here. And you can certainly navigate away from the stuff that may be off-putting to you. I share the occasional pic of her because I'm proud. She is awesome, so it's a tradeoff. I will be trying to open her up to it. Mostly because it really provides exciting views of things to try/do for anything you're open to. Ideas always welcome.